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Success Mindset

BREAKING THE TIES OF THE ‘DO’ PARADIGM

The thing with trying to create a life of magic, and the kind of receiving most would never even dare to dream of, a life where you’re truly in a dance WITH life itself, and you KNOW you got da moves, is that you can’t use your conscious mind too much for this shit.

And maybe not at all.

A strategy, a thing you THOUGHT of, planned, listed out carefully, based on whichever pre-conceived ideas you’ve aligned yourself with of what proper action looks like, is something outside of you –

Separate to you –

And by definition, ties you to a paradigm of always having to DO.

When you use your thinking mind to try and determine next steps forward, you block soul certain guidance.

The two simply don’t work together – you’re either in a paradigm of ‘what do I gotta DO to get there?’, or of being led from within, in trusting in what you FEEL and, more often than not, can’t even put into words.

I know this is a shocker, but if you want to create a soul led life then every bit of how you show up along the way to that life has to come from soul!

In a literal or practical sense this means that when it’s time to make a decision, or decide on a path, you NEED TO BE CONNECTED.

This means pause EVERYTHING to do with decision making and action UNTIL you are dropped in.

Yes, I understand that there are numerous reasons why this may be impractical, or you don’t have time, but guess what? Too fucking bad. You either GET how damn inefficient – foolhardy, really! – it is to continue to try and act and create your dream business and life based only on the data of everyone around you and your own surface and often fear-driven thoughts, or you don’t. If you don’t, what TF are you even doing on MY page haha? BUT REALLY. Get outta here, you’re one of the norms and you’ll never be or create any different TO a norm.

But if you get it, then GET it. Don’t just nod your head sagely in recognition of the fact that at some point you really need to do that whole trust thang you’ve been talking about for so long, PRESS FUCKING PAUSE AND BECOME NOW THE PERSON YOU ONE DAY SAY YOU’LL BE!

You’re going to work, create, take action anyway. It may as well be coming from the right place, so that it can have the impact it’s meant to have, so that you can live the life you’re meant to live!

And let’s get real here –

The ONLY reason you don’t do this is fear, isn’t it? Well, fear coupled with a lack of damn discipline!

You may well be the hardest working badass on the block, and so you wanna punch a bitch (me!) for suggesting you’re not disciplined, you bleed and sweat baby; you do what it takes! But if you don’t have the damn discipline to BE CONNECTED TO YOUR OWN SOURCE before doing, then you don’t have jack shit.

Nothing that’s gonna get you anyplace other than where all the other worker bees are headed, anyhow.

FEAR is telling you that you’re too busy to pause, that you’ve got too much going on to consider where the fuck you’re going before you actually try to get there, or perhaps that there’s no point anyway, and you can’t TRUST.

Do you actually believe this though?

When all is said and done, do you actually want to CHOOSE to believe that you can’t trust in your own inner guidance?

I DON’T THINK SO.

I don’t think there is a CHANCE you would say ‘yeah, nah Kat, on a soul level I don’t actually think I can trust in myself’. I get that you MAY question whether you can. But if you go deeper, beneath that fear, you KNOW you can trust in what’s inside.

And if you know that –

And yet you continue to forego taking the time and doing whatever is NECESSARY (the actual ‘what it takes’) to connect into that inner certainty –

You’re a fool.

You are literally saying, through your actions, that even though you know the only blueprint to your true aligned success is the one you were damn well born with, that you’re not going to take the time to unearth it.

Just stop.

Just stop, right now, and think about this, think about the RIDICULOUSNESS of continuing to hack away trying to get to destiny without ever stopping to sharpen the damn saw OR attend to where you’re going!

Just stop asking ‘can I afford to stop right now, trust right now, follow the madness within right now’, and ask what you really need to ask –

Can I afford not to?

What’s incredible, what you maybe need to be reminded of right now, is that when you DO make a decision to live from soul, not just now, for a moment or a Sunday, but day in and day out, it gets PRETTY DAMN EASY.

It may feel so far away right now, tricky and confusing, and you don’t know if you can trust in what you feel, or what intuition is actually saying –

But it’s a practice.

It is SUPPOSED to be a practice.

A daily thing, to connect in. Not even a ritual or routine, although this can help to kick start it. But more so something that you BECOME practiced at, meaning that it becomes automatic.

It really does become automatic, that you ARE dropped in, tapped in, dialled in, and able to easily and clearly read guidance from within.

Those who live this way, live with a magic and a level of creating that simply can’t be imagined in the mind of the typical person. It’s not POSSIBLE.

And when you’re there, when you become this sort of person, the YOU who communes continually with God and higher self?

EVERYTHING is simple.

Yes, there will always be a new mountain to climb. Growth inherently requires overcoming, duh!

But yes.

You will always know which action to take,

how to take it,

and that it’s taking you exactly where you are meant to go.

Pull the damn emergency cord now, and connect in to life the way it’s meant to be lived.

Or do do do forever and wonder why you’re still in the same fucking place.

But just don’t bitch about it if you want a life of more and you’re repeatedly not willing to be the person who automatically has it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/