Success Mindset

Fuck That Shit

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Ladies, I have to share this. From today’s free Superwoman Success Challenge; you may have already received it if you’re in that group. But: important, I think:

DAY 19: FUCK THAT SHIT

It’s time for a whole new way of doing business.

The rules are changing as fast as they’re staying the same and what that means is that if you want a NEW standard of living, being, DOING then you have to decide –

Am I happy?

Do I accept things, the way they are?

Do I accept them, the way I’ve been told to?

For the new wave of entrepreneurs, the ones who I would term the kickass woman, the selfish bitch, the ‘don’t take no for an answer’ type who WILL go where most won’t in order to live a life they can’t the answer is, quite simply, no.

No thank you, but I don’t agree that I have to follow your rules to make it.

Not just in the ‘normal world’, but also in the online world.

5, 6, 7 years ago you were a trailblazer if you had a blog, a revolutionary if you did something with it, an unstoppable force to be reckoned with if you considered writing an ebook or selling something online, let alone actually did it.

Now, you’re just another plain little goldfish in a sea of sameness.

Same websites with the same fonts and the same layouts and the same surface SHIT that is supposed to help people –

What?

Get happy?

Lose weight?

Make money?

DO something?

Which is all well and good, but what am I really getting that differentiates what YOU do from what every other bored housewife and Mummy blogger is doing?

So no. No thank you, I don’t just want to be another women entrepreneur with a pretty website and pretty programs and pretty much fuck all work that could actually be considered any form of ART.

And no. No thank you. I don’t just want to ‘make money online’.
Attend all the right conferences and network with the right people, so that what?

I can learn more rules?

Learn how to do it RIGHT?

CONFORM?

Take a look around.

The internet is full of women entrepreneurs who had a dream.

My question is –

Where the fuck is that dream?

And how is this REALLY anything different from sheepling your way through the corporate world? Most of the women who HAD a dream have now LOST that dream whilst following the path to online success. The path that was SET OUT by them.

But who created it?

And do you REALLY want what they have?

And is that TRULY what you came here for?

Didn’t you have a message?

Something to SAY?

Something to make people wake the fuck up and THINK?

You wanted to make people feel something.

You had goddamn TRUTHS to tell.

You had LEARNED things and you knew they had to be shared.

You came to make a freaking difference, to be a leader, a visionary, change the world.

And instead you made a freaking website, became a follower, a model student, and changed your business name once every 6 months or so.

You know what I think?

Fuck. That. Shit.

Didn’t you once have your OWN freaking personality?

Didn’t you have OPINIONS?

Didn’t you used to dream of TELLING IT LIKE IT IS, of making people sit up and PAY ATTENTION?

You want to be a leader? You better start fucking leading.

You want to be a visionary? You better look into a future that you see DIFFERENTLY to others.

You want to change the WORLD? You better start by changing you.

Oh but you’re scared of saying what you really think, you’re uncertain, you’re worried how people will react, and besides, that’s not how it’s done!

Well excuse ME, but don’t LEADERS PAVE THE WAY?

Oh but you don’t know where to start, what you really want, how you can really DO what you want to do?

Well it sure as shit isn’t going to be by moving zombie-like through the internet paying careful attention to what other people are doing.
I dare you.

This week.

Every day.

Break DOWN the rules that you didn’t even notice you were following.

Go into UNCHARTERED TERRITORY.

SAY something real.

FEEL something with everything you say.

BLEED with your words.

And every time you even CONSIDER putting ANYTHING less than the 100% awesomeness that is the TRUE inner you out there, say it with me –

Fuck. that. shit.

**Superwoman Success Challenge for today!**

A simple rule to know if you’re on the right path –

If you can see anyone else, you’re not.

Ask and answer: what does this mean to YOU?

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