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Success Mindset

Get Fucking Real About Success!

The basics of success are simple:

Decide what you want.
Commit to getting it or making it happen.
Do the (fucking :)) work.

For those of us who pretty much daily think about success in one way or another we’re kinda all over this shit … at least in theory. We set goals, we take action, we DO the fucking work. So why is it then, you might very well wonder, that despite your profound awareness around ‘how success works’ you’ve still not achieved all those big dream goals and desires that have been lurking in your mind for so long?

You still don’t have the body you want, not really –

Your business isn’t where you want it to be, or thought it should be by now, not quite –

You’re not FULLY getting your true message out there –

And so many of life’s big events and experiences seem to be either always just out of reach or else the way that you’ve manufactured them into your life just doesn’t quite meet the mental picture of how you wanted it to be.

In a moment I’m going to tell you EXACTLY why you’ve not yet achieved the things you long for, or why the way in which you’ve achieved them just isn’t RIGHT, but first we need to look at what you HAVE achieved.

Grab a pen and paper – do it now! – and let’s look at the following areas:

* You
* Business
* Money
* Love
* Relationships
* Fun and Adventure
* Meaning

You can define these categories however you like, and of course you’re welcome to add others if you like. For each category, write down exactly what you HAVE achieved over the past 5 years in this area. Write down even the small accomplishments or habit changes, even those you don’t feel especially over the top excited about but yet you still acknowledge you DID something, created something, got somewhere.

Now have a think about WHY you achieved those goals. Write down anything that comes to mind as a reason.

You’ll probably come up with things like:

* Learning how to
* Developing the habit
* Beating sabotages or resistances
* Getting support or accountability

These things are all true, but do you want to know what the biggest reason for your success was; the REAL reason you got there?

It’s not because of what you learned.

It’s not because you created the habit or discipline.

It’s not because of the battles you fought and win on the inside.

It’s not because of who was in your corner.

And it’s not even because you WANTED it badly enough.

If you took any of those things on its own it would categorically NOT be powerful enough to create change, but there is one thing we haven’t mentioned that would be and IS:

You believed you could, and you decided you would.

Write this down because THIS? Will fucking change your life. (And already is) –

—> You ALWAYS get the fastest and best results in the area you believe you’ll get results in <—

Believing it is ‘generally possible’ or ‘logically possible’ is not enough, you have to believe it is possible for you and also that it WILL happen.

But here’s the real kicker:

You ALWAYS get the fastest and most transformative results in the area you believe you’ll get results in.

Yeah yeah yeah, I know – I already said that, right?!

Well yes, but when I said it I’ll be you were thinking about it in terms of the GOOD things you want to create in your life. But did you consider that the not so great or even awful outcomes you’ve created in your life right now – and are continuing to create – are ALSO a result of you believing that that’s the path you were on?

You didn’t end up stuck here – fat or broke or lonely or regretting a lack of courage and action-taking, or whatever your shitty situation is – due simply to poor habits or lack of discipline or know-how.

You GOT here because of your beliefs.

And you’ll continue to get to wherever you go because of your beliefs.

Whatever you believe more, or stronger?

You’ll get more of, and faster.

So even though you might VERY badly want to get in shape, make more money, increase your net worth, find true love, and so on, and even though you may work hard to get there and to create habits that allow you to do so, if you don’t believe you’re going to get there you won’t, but also if you DO believe something that is in contrast then it will STOP you from getting there.

At worst it will set you completely on the opposite path, and at best it will confuse the issue for you so much that you’re not able to take action or any action you do take is simply not aligned and doesn’t work.

So if you really really really want to get in great shape, and you’re actively trying to do so, but yet you also believe that you are someone who is fat, unhealthy or just not ‘able’ in this area, then the RESULT you get will be that you’ll move more and more so down the path of being fat, unhealthy and not able. You’ll PROVE your own beliefs via both the actions you take and don’t take, and the practical outcomes you manifest as a result.

You will succeed, for sure. But what you’ll succeed at will be staying out of shape and feeling like shit!

Even if you believe it’s ‘in theory’ possible for you to get in shape, if your beliefs about yourself are that you are an unhealthy and overweight person, then those beliefs will override the positively angled ones which are not fully entrenched and therefore not your TRUE or dominant belief.

In business, you might show up each day and put the work in, and you might believe it is POSSIBLE for you to get the sort of results you dream of but if you also SEE yourself as someone who struggles for money, meaning, and the ability to make a difference doing what you love, then guess what?

You will SUCCEED at the continued result of struggle.

So what do you do about it, if your beliefs are heading you down a path you REALLY don’t wanna keep traveling?

Well it’s pretty fucking obvious, don’t you think?

You change your beliefs.

(Write this down!) —> Change your beliefs and you WILL change your outcome <—

HOW do you change your beliefs? It’s actually a lot simpler than you might think.

#1. Decide what the beliefs are that are necessary for you to get to your goals. Ask yourself ‘what would a person who has ‘x’ outcome believe?’. Write down as many answers to this question as you can.

#2. Commit to now believing these new beliefs. Yes, you really can just CHOOSE your beliefs, and you can choose new ones anytime you like!

#3. Reinforce your new beliefs daily, in as many different ways as you can, until they are fully implanted and you ‘actually’ believe them. Do this through journaling, through taking ownership and using statements like ‘I now choose to believe ______’, and ‘I now believe _______’, through speaking them aloud both privately and publicly, and through acting accordingly. So just as you asked what a person who is successful in the area you desire to be would believe you can ask yourself what they would DO, and then do it.

Let’s get fucking real:

What this is really about?

You always are who you THINK you are. So what comes up for you when you ask yourself who you are?

How would you complete the statement ‘I am _______’?

How would you LIKE to complete that statement?

If you ARE serious about change then write down your new CHOSEN ‘I am’s’ now, and then COMMIT to them.

From here on out it’s a simple matter of rinse and repeat.

Creating the life you want doesn’t happen by accident, or because you deserve it, or even because it’s your destiny. It also doesn’t happen just by doing the occasional success mindset or thinking exercise.

It happens when you are committed DAILY to mastering success.

It happens when you’re committed daily to thinking in a way that supports your continual progress towards your dreams.

And it happens when you’re committed daily to doing the fucking work.

Just make sure it’s work based on what matters, and on beliefs that serve you. Remember that either way you WILL succeed, but you get to choose whether you ‘succeed’ at the stuff you say you don’t want or whether you learn how to succeed at the things you actually crave and are born for.

Isn’t it time you got fucking real about success?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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