The BIGGEST difference between those who are insanely successful, on purpose, doing the work, and those who are NOT, is that those who are doing the damn thing are doing it in SPITE of fear, resistance, self-worth shit, etc.
If you think that because I, for example, make multiple millions of dollars online each year while living in a badass apartment on the beach, my whole life fully supported as a the #VIFP I am, and also having the body | lifestyle | all of it ETC, that I am some kind of fearless uber-confident superwoman, well –
Just today, an hour or so ago, I felt almost listless with self-worth stuff which was coming up for me BIG time. I felt sad … unworthy … HEAVY … NOT motivated … annoyed at myself over so many things big and small. And also pissed at my kids Dad for living on the other side of the country and never being there for them, or to take the load off me. On top of all that, I was feeling guilty and ashamed that I don’t think I do a good enough job as a Mum. So often things seem stressful, or we’re rushing in the mornings, and I get frustrated or impatient with them, or I just feel worried that I don’t spend enough quality time with them.
That’s a lot of stuff to be feeling before 9am!! But it’s also pretty NORMAL stuff … and no matter what my money or business results might be I’m STILL A REAL WOMAN. lol.
I sure as FUCK didn’t feel like doing anything. And because I had no appointments booked, what I NEARLY did after dropping the kidlets off, was go back home and get into bed!! Surely I deserve a day of REST … but REALLY what it would have been is mindless social media scrolling … probably eating crappy foods … and wasting an hour or so masturbating. Ha! #realtalk.
What I did instead? Grumpily got my ass to the gym in my building. Every step of the walk there feeling HARRRRRDDDD. Put some Britney on. Cardio sprinted my ass UP.
FLICKED THE FUCKING SWITCH.
Fast forward to now, and I’ve sat here and written today’s blog and now this. It’s 11am … do you think I feel happy that I chose aligned ACTION, rather than responding to my inner drama? Of course I do! And that’s my point –
Some days are not as heavy as this one felt of course, but either way, and no matter what I’m thinking or feeling about whether I am ‘good enough’ or people like me or I’m really going all in, or whatever, I STILL SHOW UP.
That’s the only reason I have the life I do, and the business.
This is to do with discipline, to do with habits, to do with knowing your values and your true DRIVE, and to do with living according to that stuff.
Isn’t it time you started to spend your time – your LIFE – on the things that will help you to purposefully CREATE it?
I’m going to show you how to be that person. You KNOW she’s inside.