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Success Mindset

HELICOPTER PARENTING YOUR OWN LIFE

If you truly desire to bring the things you see inside of you to life, to bring them to life in a way which is of the UTMOST alignment, causing your soul to sing a continual melody of YES, and the heavens themselves to open in admiration for you, then perhaps the greatest discipline for you to practice right now,

is surrender.

I’m talking about relaxing. Completely. Letting go. Fully. Trusting. Wholeheartedly. That who you are now and what you have done up til now and what you are doing in THIS now –

is enough.

That you are safe.

On track.

Taken care of.

EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE AND EVERYTHING IS EXACTLY AS IT SHOULD BE, and therefore –

you can be fully present, because there is nowhere else you need to be, nothing else you need to do, no possible way you can screw it up, and everything.is.GOOD!

(When I say good,

you know that I mean holy freaking INSANE / amazing. MINIMUM).

Yes.

I get that there are still OH so many reasons why you can’t possibly allow yourself to trust like this, live like this, let go like this, relax like this, because, well because – !

The money …

The time …

The responsibilities …

The places you were supposed to be by now …

The ENDLESSNESS of all that you’ve not yet done and really really have to, or else!

But at the same time –

How is this possibly going to serve you?

My LOVE –

HOW,

is this possibly going to serve you?

So you don’t have everything you want yet, you’re miles from so many things you feel you NEED, you’ve so far to go still to prove yourself, there is SO FREAKING MUCH TO DO and if you don’t hold it all over yourself it will never get done, so SHOULD –

is the very best way!

I get all of this. GOSH, do I get it. I have lived and breathed THAT sort of belief system for so many of my years that I should have got an award for it!

But at the same time,

WILL it be,

that you accomplish the things

achieve the things

tick off the things

become the thing

because you refused to allow yourself to BE the thing you ultimately aspire to one day be able to be,

you know – the relaxed and present and in her true BEINGNESS you –

and instead held all this stuff over your own head as some kind of never-ending stick to jump after in order to be allowed to deserve to be!

It’s exhausting.

It’s completely contradictory to everything you actually believe and stand for, perhaps even teach. (No wonder the sales don’t flow as they should; why should THEY believe you more than YOU believe you?!)

And,

it’s a trap.

When you live with a mindset of NOT enough, NOT safe, NOT there yet, NOT able to relax yet, NOT having DONE enough yet,

you will continue to experience all of that.

So let’s imagine! A CRAZY LITTLE GAME OF IMAGINE.

Let’s PLAY a game of imagining that right now, as of this moment, you decided to let go of all of it.

You decided to appoint yourself as having done enough, now.

As being enough, now.

As being ‘there’ enough, now.

And you made a new rule, that there is ‘nothing I have to do, EVER’.

You absolved yourself, in this little game of imagine, of ALL responsibilities and shoulds.

And you decided that the discipline you would now adhere to would be the discipline of TRUST.

Acting from it.

Choosing it on repeat.

Living INTO it.

And filtering every choice you make and every one you were about to make THROUGH it.

What would you do?

How would your day flow?

Who would you be?

I think –

there is a part of you which you could call out, shake out, and FLING out, today, which says – I CAN’T DO THAT BECAUSE I AM INHERENTLY A BAD OR LAZY PERSON WHO CANNOT BE TRUSTED TO BE LEFT ALONE WITH HER OWN LIFE, AND BESIDES I AM ALREADY SO FAR BEHIND AND THIS WOULD ONLY MAKE ME FALL FURTHER BEHIND!

When you listen to that part of you,

as I know you have for so long been prone to do,

you live a life of helicopter parenting your own SOUL!

And,

you WILL give your life for that. IT’S A ONE WAY TICKET TO DESTINATIONN SOUL CONTRACTION.

So if that’s what floats your boat,

what makes SENSE to you,

deeper down, beneath that surface and FEAR-conditioned part of you who thinks it’s just how life is,

then by all means – !

Drip drip.

It’s only your LIFE you’re playing with.

But if there’s a deeper part of you who KNOWS that you can be trusted to be left alone with your own life,

your business,

your money,

your art,

and the soul work which you have been gifted to gift on in return,

well then.

What exactly do you imagine are the consequences of continuing to not live for that?

And,

what exactly, if you’re HONEST, and refuse to let fear have a voice, do you imagine the consequences are of living FULLY for that?

I’ll leave you to sit with this. Think on it. Swish it around, and see if you like the taste, but I will say this –

HONESTLY.

Are you actually disconnected enough to believe that the pathway to create everything you see inside of you is one of denying everything that you actually are?

You know what to do.

I SUGGEST YOU DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO TRUST,

or bear the actual thing you should be scared of,

your life –

given for an endless list of shoulds.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!