Live Your Passion

HELL YES AIN’T HELL YES UNLESS YOU WANNA RIP THEIR CLOTHES OFF RIGHT.THAT.SECOND

(The not-actually-secret-at-all Key to Success in All Things)

So I had this experience a week or so ago which kind of shocked me.

It felt like a bucket of cold water actually … a slap in the face, a wake up call, all those things at once!

And it reminded me what HELL yes actually means, how we DO in fact get to have that (always!) and how OBVIOUS it freakin’ is when it really comes along … also how EASY it freakin’ is to then act on / bring to life / etc. It just flows, works, gives you the result because it HAS to, you know?

I went on a Tinder date with a dude in Santa Monica on the Friday night. He was nice. Pretty engaging conversation. He seemed cool. I didn’t FEEL anything for him, not even a flicker, but ’cause he was nice and also interesting and also looked good I found myself thinking “well, maybe I AM into him and I just don’t know it yet / need to give it more time”

lol. I know. It sounds level as fuck STUPID when I say or write it out loud. But this is something we all do in multiple areas, if you think about it!

Like, say, launching or pushing on with an offer which is just not working … and you don’t absolutely ADORE … and is calling in not quite right clients … but yet you tell yourself “maybe I should just keep trying to GET it working … maybe I’m just MISSING something!” … not realising that what you’re missing is that THIS AIN’T YOUR SOUL WORK, and soul work flows!

Anyway, homeboy invited me out again the next day, which was St Patricks Day, he invited Kelly and my brother and me to come to a party at his house at noon the next day … “we’ll be drinking from 10am” … um … nope. SO not interested in spending my morning / day doing that! And so I basically ghosted on his messages (classy as fuck sometimes), but then by about 10pm and we were wrapping up dinner and he was still messaging me to come out, I thought “why not? Maybe there COULD be something there! We’ll go for an hour”

So, we get to the bar.

We walk in, he comes right up, off his HEAD, clearly … and then turns to gesture at his friends who are at the bar, who look over at us.

And this guy … his FRIEND (although I worked out later it was his ‘friend’ who he just met at the bar, not an actual friend luckily) … the second I saw him I was like FUCCCCCCKKKKKK. Why aren’t I on a date with YOU? I want to have sex with you RIGHT NOW RIGHT AT THE BAR I DON’T CARE. It was just that INSTANT magnetic attraction, you know?

I was devastated. Maybe that’s too strong of a word, haha, but seriously – I’ve been doing this dating thing for over 18 months now, and I can count on two fingers how many men I’ve met (and I’ve met a LOT) who I actually have / had an energetic connection with that you KNOW is real.

Mostly it’s … let’s be honest … let me think about how desperate for sex or male energy I am and whether or not I will allow myself to continue giving you any time and energy.

An approach which I have in fact not chosen to follow by the way  … didn’t take me long back on the market to figure out that most of the time I can have better sex by myself and spend the 3 hours of annoying chit-chat making money or something instead 

Anyway.

So we’re at the bar. We’re all talking. Everybody’s a bit tipsy. And MAGNETIC AS FUCK GUY kind of has his arm around everyone, all the time … and my body seems to just be not doing what it’s told and basically accidentally on purpose bumping into him more than what would really be natural. I’m trying to get my shit together … I’m supposed to be there to see other guy, who clearly by this point I have realised I will never see again, and thank God I never indicated any romantic possibility with him. Who by the way is MIA anyhow. Good.

Kelly, meanwhile, is laughing at me – “yeah right, you are SO not interested in him!” (original guy) and later … “um yep, that was obvious from the second we walked in”, about me and bar guy.

It was ALWAYS GOING TO HAPPEN.
Or, as I felt, the second I walked in – it HAD to happen. There was no availability for it not to.

When you REALLY know – 
You really know.
And it just BECOMES, so.

IF IT DOESN’T FEEL LIKE THAT … BUSINESS, LOVE, LIFE, ANYTHING … THEN IT AIN’T HELL YES.

Which is kind of the whole entire point of my story.

So here’s what happened next:

DIVINE INTERVENTION. Which may or may not always occur in a hell yes MUST happen situation. But REALLY – of course always does. Because that’s what was MEANT to happen! It’s how you know, actually … the universe conspires to work with and for you.

Which reminds me of one of my favourite quotes of my OWN – “when I say yes to my soul – life says yes to ME!”.

And my soul damn sure knew what it wanted to say yes to that night 

So –

OF COURSE:

Original guy, who you might remember was off his head, got kicked out. Or just left. Not sure which, but he was pretty fried; we think he got removed.

AHMAYZING

A little bit of time passes, we’re all having a good time, and I’m becoming increasingly fixated by bar guy … and he’s pulled me in to dance. I can feel that the kiss is coming, it’s a given. By the way –

I can’t dance for SHIT.
But yet somehow, in this FLOW situation where everything is just magnetic … I am dancing with perfect rhythm. Or at least it feels that way  which is the same thing as far as I care.

Also.
By the way.
For EVA now I’ve been telling myself I’m ‘not good’ at being feminine and sensual.
And wondering HOWWWWW I do that.
Turns out.
When you’re magnetised as FUCK by a guy and just drawn IN to his masculine energy … you just become feminine sensual sexual flow.
No how required.
I forgot that 

And it makes me realise how FORCED things are, with pretty much EVERY SINGLE GUY I’ve connected with since being single; nearly every date I’ve been on. In fact – with 100% of PLANNED dates, as opposed to situations which just happened, i.e. app-based meet-ups vs random RL meet-ups – it’s been forced / not flow. How much I’ve TRIED to make things work … without even realising it, without even noticing … truly believing my own bullshit that maybe it could go somewhere!!

The only other two connections I’ve had since becoming single which were really SO good, one was a one off and the other continued on, both cases the SOUL and energy thing was the thing. I think that’s what makes it magnetic. And so far for me that’s only happened when I wasn’t looking.

Anyway
As for forcing myself to feel something for someone –

Crazy.

That sound you can hear right now? It’s me banging my head on the tray table in front of my airplane seat right now. Note to self! Remember this shit! Be in flow and let flow and results show UP! THAT IS ALL!

And this … this is just … like your feet aren’t even on the ground. Even just for a moment, or a night, whatever.

So the kiss is coming … it’s like we’re melting together, it’s a force, you know? Do you remember?! The last time? That happened?!

It’s only the MOST amazing feeling in the world.

BUT, there’s a problem still.

My BROTHER is there.

Inappropriate
on
all
levels!

Well.

As I said to him at the time – OVER THE SHOULDER OF THE GUY WHILE KISSING – sorry … !! I couldn’t help it!

Kelly was HORRIFIED that I would make out on the dance floor with Ash right there.
My brother was APPALLED.
Honestly?

I really don’t see why it had to be a fuss, and besides, we didn’t stay in front of them for TOO long, but it’s kinda besides the point anyhow, you know?

And the point is this:

Later the next day, I’m messaging with this guy, and just having a laugh, and talking also about manifestation and stuff (of course when I randomly pick up a Irish man in a bar on St Paddy’s day I manage to energetically find the one who is into the same stuff as me!), and I was thinking about how FULL ON the connection was, and how INSTANT, before we even met, and it hit me –

When was the last time I felt like that?

I don’t mean even in the love area. I mean in LIFE.

I felt like I’d been slapped in the face, HARD, and I was damn happy about it too.

How could I REMOTELY have been kidding myself that what I have felt in various dating situations has been worth a single ‘nother minute of my time, and yet I’ve gone on SO many NOT amazing repeat dates … trying to convince myself that maybe I just don’t really know my own mind or something.

Madness.

And I thought –

THIS is now the new standard.

If I don’t feel THAT level of passion … like I wanted to crawl into his skin … in the non-weirdest way … then why would I even THINK about it?

And I know, I know, it was an in the moment lust thing, and I may never see that guy again … he lives in Ireland anyway … will just keep talking visioning and manifestation on FB lol, but the point is that now I’ve been reminded, after the past however many few months of honestly only BLAH dating connections, that THAT energy is available?

Means I’m now no longer available for anything less.

PLUS (of course) getting to have all the other things I desire and require!!

And I guess I just wonder –

What might happen if you went ‘all in’ to THAT level, with the rest of your life? And what might happen if you reminded yourself of what TRUE hell yes felt like?

And then refused to accept anything less.

That’s all.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Fucking Play.

Kat x

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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