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Purpose

HOLD OUT FOR THE REAL THING

Remember when you were young and you knew you’d be an artist, have it all, live your dreams, on your terms? When you never QUESTIONED if you were unstoppable?

This is about how you’re fucking that up, and you it’s time to stop.

The thing you gotta understand with hitting your money goals, is that it was never about the money, actually, and getting it won’t fulfil you.

I know that you know this, but theory is one thing, isn’t it?

Are you LIVING it? Or are you chasing dollars and cents and money ‘safety’ by doing shit that you don’t really wanna do, with and for people you don’t adore, and in a way that doesn’t suit you?

And you’d say to me –

“But Kat! I have to! I have bills to pay and rent to make and I gotta eat, right, and I need to feel SAFE!”

So you give.
Your life.
For the things.
That your life is now MADE of.

And let me ask you –

Are you getting what you want then? DO you feel safe? Do you feel REMOTELY fulfilled?

Of course those are two separate questions, but I know from my own experience at having focused on making money to LIVE and having had my purpose and soul work be the cost of that at the time, that no you DEFINITELY don’t feel fulfilled, firstly.

OBVIOUSLY.

But as for safety –
Which I agree – !
Is important.

Let’s be honest:

You can fill up every money need or hole you have, and you still.won’t.feel.safe.

Sure, you managed to pay your bills again. You’re staying afloat. You’re PROVIDING.

But what you feel?

Is not REMOTELY fucking safe.
You feel anxious.
Stressed.
And bound.

Can I tell you?

The MONEY is not, was never, will never, be, the thing which you are chasing.

THE MONEY WON’T FILL YOU UP.

It won’t EVER make you feel safe, secure, taken care of.

And for every SINGLE dollar you chase because you thought you just needed MONEY right now, you’ll feel a little piece of your soul drain away.

And another corner of your heart, break.

As you slowly but surely give in, to the idea that no.

YOU don’t get to do your purpose work.
YOU don’t get to make money that way.
YOU don’t get to be filled up, fulfilled, taken care of, in the way you actually LONG for.

Or even at all.

Because the crazy thing with getting money for MONEY’S sake, is it barely even provides short-term relief, does it? In a practical sense, I guess it does … but you don’t get the FEELINGS you’re chasing …

And all ANY of us are ever chasing, really, is a feeling.

I want to feel –

What? What DO you want to feel, really? If you put aside your FEAR based ‘needs’ and reactions, what is it you ACTUALLY want to feel?

I’m going to say:

Free.
Able to breathe.
In flow.
Aligned.
Fulfilled.
On PURPOSE.
A sense that YES –

All is as it should be.

I can tell you that you can ABSOLUTELY feel that feeling with not a penny to your name.

All by yourself.
Sitting on top of a hill.
And gazing at the stars.

If you KNOW you are giving your life for what matters.

On the contrary, you could sit in the biggest mansion –
With the wealthiest people –
And the fanciest things –
And ALL your money needs taken care of –

And feel oh so lost.
Helpless.
Floating.
In the breeze.

I’ve MET people like that, haven’t you? And anytime I myself embarked upon a path of BUT I JUST NEED MONEY and so purpose will simply have to WAIT, I started to BECOME one of those people?

Didn’t you?

And I want to tell you:

Please. If you’re being that person now, even in the smallest way, DON’T KID YOURSELF.

EVERY little piece of your life you give for the wrong stuff matters. It’s NEVER ‘just this one time’. This is what your life is now being made UP of.

It’s who you’re becoming.
It’s who you maybe are.

No time for purpose.
Safety first!
With the crazy awful terrible thing being it’s a fucking MYTH and you don’t even get to BE safe or filled up despite so desperately trying to grasp at it!!

Please stop.

And here is what you do instead, quite simply. You decide that you get to be good enough to hold out for the real thing.

You remind yourself that it’s possible, and so you hold out for the real thing.

You tune back in to the fact that ANYTHING you actually DECIDE becomes true, and so you HOLD OUT FOR THE REAL THING.

You give yourself a slap-up-the-face stern what the fuck are you doing TALKING to and you commit to HOLDING OUT FOR THE REAL THING!!!

You will never get to have what you dream of.
If you ACCEPT anything less.

This is what I believe.
This is what I live by.
I DID the whole ‘do what I gotta do for money’ thing. And eventually I realised, all of the above, and from that day forward I decided to HOLD OUT FOR THE REAL THING.

Wanna know something crazy awesome magical?

As soon as I committed to PURPOSE, I found that it was there for me.

All along.

And that everything I’d so desperately been chasing?

Was inside of me.

Wanna know something even MORE crazy awesome magical?

Stepping in to purpose.
Was also, funnily enough, the path to wealth.

I think I knew that all along …

It just took me however long it took me to admit it, and take the leap.

So you can keep waiting, if you want.
Hedging your bets.
Trying to be SAFE.
Letting your childhood dreams and POWER-
Fade.

Or you can take the fucking leap you ultimately know you’re going to HAVE to, if you want:

The real thing.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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