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Live Your Passion

How to Follow Your Dreams Even When It Seems Pointless

Sometimes it is very wearying, following your dreams.

You have those days when you wake up and the very idea of pushing to further yourself along the road less travelled seems … exhausting.

And you wonder why you’re even bothering.

Why push so hard to be different, when it would be so much easier to capitulate; to be like everyone else.

Why get up early, spend time working to create your dream business and life when perhaps you will never get there anyway, when sometimes you’re not even sure where it is you want to go.

Why keep expecting more, looking for more, asking for more, when it’s just so damn hard?

And you ask yourself whether you’re the only one who feels this way, because everywhere you look you see either people who don’t care and don’t try, or else those who are already living their dream and seem to be doing so effortlessly; not floundering around and taking 2 steps back for every 1 step forward like you are.

Can I tell you a secret?

You’re not the only one who feels this way.

All entrepreneurs feel this way from time to time. I can tell you for a fact that even those women who are making over 7 figures in their businesses still feel this way from time to time.

Can I tell you something else?

Don’t expect to ever fully get past this point.

The downside to being a dream-chaser is that you are destined to question, forever. Your future is one of incredible success, freedom, and flow, but it’s also one of continual search. The never-ending search for something better, something more, something just a tiny bit different to what you have.

It’s how you got to where you are now.

It’s how you will get to the next step.

It’s how you can be sure that you never will be one of those who don’t care and don’t try; how you couldn’t be even if you wanted to.

And mostly, you will be energised by this; by the knowledge that you are different, that you look for more and expect more and ultimately find more. Mostly this is what will keep you going, and ensure that each day that passes is one that draws you closer to living your best life.

But sometimes, yes, it will be more tiring than anything else. It will feel pointless, hopeless, and like a complete waste of time and energy.

These are the days, beautiful, when it is even more important than usual to stop and question. These days are given to you like a signal, a reminder to look within; to listen to what you really want and need.

These are NOT the days to push through and ‘be productive’, or at least not until the feeling passes.

These are the days to go for a slow walk, and let your thoughts wander.

To reflect on what you want and need for your life to be ideal.

To look over your goals and see if they still feel in alignment, write them out again if they do and re-write them entirely if they don’t.

To open your journal and simply ask yourself –

What do I need?

What’s going on?

What is this telling me?

And what is next?

Always, always – what is next?

And as you do look within, you will gather energy you thought you’d lost. You will redefine your purpose and passion, and feel certain about what you do need to do next to get back into flow.

Problems that seemed overwhelming, even unsolvable, will suddenly have an obvious solution.

But most of all, the cloud will lift.

And with absolute clarity you will see, once again, why you do this. Why you chase your dreams. Why you insist on creating a business and life that is everything you ever could dream of, and more. Why you WILL persevere and you WILL continue creating this life on your terms. Why you couldn’t do anything but, or be anything but this person.

Why that, above all else, is the very best reason of all to keep following your dreams even when it feels pointless, exhausting, and filled with uncertainty.

And why despite feeling that way you will keep moving forward, you will not look back, you will not consider another way of living, but you will instead wake up every day and know –

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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