HOW DOES IT FEEL, TO LIE TO YOURSELF LIKE THAT EACH DAY?
How does it feel, to lie to yourself like that each day, tell yourself a story like that each day, run around with a smile on your face and nod nod nodding your head like that each day, such a good yes man, yes lady, you!
How does it feel, no REALLY –
To get up each day,
KNOWING that this could be the day you flick the switch, make the change, BECOME the person, say FUCK it, and show up ALREADY as that next level version of yourself, and then you just –
Don’t.
Too busy.
Too under the pump.
Too distracted.
Too scared.
Too UNCONSCIOUS, more like, because if you actually woke the fuck up and faced the situation head on, you’d be horrified.
Appalled.
And TERRIFIED, and rightly so, of what’s to come if you don’t change NOW.
Does it feel like I’ve written this before, even recently? Yes? Well, I guess you needa hear it again then!
You need to hear – don’t you?! –
That the way you’re showing up right now is a joke.
That it has NO chance in hell of getting you to where you want to go.
That you’re living in a delusion, and while I’m all bout dat fantasy life, I’m about making the fantasy life come TRUE, not lying to yourself that you’re doing jack shit when you’re NOT.
Doing?
Doing the damn job of being you, the you who you’d be if you actually GAVE a damn; what else could there possibly be to do –
Except be you?!
And it’s bullshit, isn’t it?
SO much bullshit! The stories you tell yourself. OH, the lies!
That it doesn’t matter, the way you flake out.
That it’s not a big deal, the compromises you make.
That it can’t hurt just this once, to avoid like that, stuff down like that, mistreat yourself like that, except it’s NOT FUCKING ONCE, is it?
It’s become a way of life …
And yet you ACTUALLY dare to wonder how it is you’ve shifted so far off your true path! Really?! Don’t make me laugh …
Do you know what one of the GREATEST lies of all is, that you tell yourself every day?
The lie that you could change it all ‘just like that!’, if you really wanted to.
‘If I just went all in for a day, a week, a month – !’
‘If I just had some uninterrupted time to myself!’
‘If I could just get over this energy slump!’
‘If I REALLY decided to!’
Well –
Yes.
Sure sure.
That’s all true in THEORY, but life ain’t about theory baby. Life is about the REALITY that who you’re being NOW, who you were YESTERDAY, the habits you’ve created and how you’re living no matter HOW much you might insist you could change it all on a dime, THESE are the things which dictate the way the world is for you, the way YOU are, everything from how you look and feel to how money shows up, soulmate clients, soulmate people, more.
Your FUTURE is a product of who you’re being today; how’s that looking for you?
The LIE is believing that your outcomes can possibly have anything to do with a change you could make anytime other than THIS MOMENT RIGHT HERE.
There IS no – if I just did this, or that, or the other thing, for a day, a week, a month, a lifetime!
There is only ARE YOU DOING IT NOW?
Plain and simple, you’re either being the person –
Or you’re not.
And there’s no need to say or try to prove which it is, your outcomes already do that for you! WE CAN SEE IT WRITTEN ALL OVER YOU.
So while it’s true –
That instant manifestation and change is available to all of us –
That there is nothing you need to DO in order to get a result, as far as follow a strategy, a plan, a process, and join some motherfucking dots –
It’s also true that you DO need to be you, period, the end, no exception, and NO hall pass on THAT.
Here’s the thing about you being you, too –
There’s gotta be some INTEGRITY in that!
It’s not about what you ‘could’ shift in an instant, and it’s also not about focusing on the outcomes you’re so DESPERATE to get to.
It’s about:
WHO WOULD YOU BE RIGHT NOW IF YOU WERE FULLY IN ALIGNMENT WITH YOUR SOUL?
Would the aligned version of you who HONOURS his or herself be avoiding like that, numbing like that, not doing the true WORK like that?
If you were FULLY respecting yourself, and playing all out, tell me:
How would you be eating?
How would you be working out?
How would you be messaging; unleashing your art, your purpose work?
How would your energy be, in terms of how you show up, market, sell, BRAND FUCKING YOU?
How would you bounce and FLY through the day?
What would your emotional state be?
How would you take care of your inner state?
What sabotages would just not be present anymore?
What practices WOULD be?
Who would you need to walk away from?
And what would you KNOW it’s time to run towards?
These are just a FEW of the questions you could ask yourself,
If you were committed to being fully you.
And here is what else –
NO IT’S NOT GOING TO FUCKING BE EASY!!
Duh, if it was easy, everybody would live like THIS, and have results like this!
Except –
It’s surely a hella lot fucking easier to be the real you than NOT be, isn’t it?! Isn’t it?! Seriously!
SERIOUSLY, it’s time to wake up.
SERIOUSLY, it’s time to slap yourself in the face.
SERIOUSLY, it’s time to pour a bucket of cold water all over yo’ ass!
SERIOUSLY, and perhaps most of all, it’s about bloody time you also just ADMIT that when you’re HAPPIEST is when you’re doing the WORK!
And perhaps THAT is the greatest lie of them all instead –
The lie we bought into –
Which they TOLD us, taught us, and they (the zombies!) perpetuate –
The lie that the end goal is somehow to get to less
Do less
And ideally even, nothing at all!
The lie that work is BAD BAD BAD and to be avoided at all costs.
That we should fear pain, or hardship.
That CHALLENGE means you’re not flowing.
Well, guess what?
FLOW inherently includes struggle, challenge, confliction, the opportunity to OVERCOME and become one WITH the current.
The ULTIMATE in flow is to be riding so damn high ON the high of having faced into the fray and WON.
THIS is what you were made for.
THIS is who you are!
THIS is how we DO.
We’re not LIKE the normal people, and we’re NOT EVEN LIKE THE OTHER ENTREPRENEURS.
So, stop trying to use THEM as some kind of baseline for your life, when the truth is they BORE YOU SILLY.
Enough.
Enough with being ANYTHING LESS THAN ALL THAT YOU ARE, and you know what else?
Enough with thinking you need to or SHOULD wait for another fucking second to become the person you’re already longing to be.
The way to be that person –
Is to be that fucking person.
THE END.
