Live Your Passion

How to Win at Being Normal, and Never Have It All

Do you ever have those when you wake up wishing that just for a DAY (and maybe more), you could be a normal person?

You find yourself thinking how NICE it would be not to have to do all the STUFF all the time … not to have this constant THING (business! life! all of it!) hanging over you … not to have to endure the repetitive fucking cycle of putting yourself out there, of hustling, of facing up to things when it didn’t work and of having to follow through and deliver when it does.

It’s the ENDLESSNESS of it all really, isn’t it? The knowledge that no matter how much you do or how far you go you’ll NEVER BE DONE, and that every day for the rest of your LIFE you’re going to wake up with the weight of your dreams, your potential, the knowledge of what is POSSIBLE and the reality of what it takes to keep it all going, sitting squarely and heavily on your shoulders.

Of course most of the time this weight – this knowledge – this POWER – is a good thing. The very thing that drives you, no less!

But sometimes … just sometimes … you imagine a simpler life. Where you didn’t have to WORRY or even THINK so much about this stuff. Where you could just get up, go about your business of being NORMAL, then switch off at night like a NORMAL person and go to bed.

How RELAXING it must be …

How straightFORWARD …

How NICE, really, to know that your path is already set and you just have to keep clocking on and off each day, not just to ‘what you do’, but to LIFE.


Don’t worry – you can. You CAN be normal if you like. Try it on! See how it fits! Maybe it IS the smarter path, at least some of the time.

Here’s how:

1. On Morning Energy, and Getting Up Raring to Go:

Don’t. Don’t get up until the LAST POSSIBLE second, because why on EARTH would you deliberately avoid extra sleep, extra escape, extra time avoiding having to face up to what’s ahead of you? You wouldn’t! The best thing to do of course is dull your mind and body the night before (we’ll get to that, don’t worry) so that you can enter the day as sloooowwwllly as possible and not FULLY aware of what’s going on around you or indeed who you actually ARE.

2. Fuel

Everybody needs fuel in the morning, duh! Normal people have very specific needs; be sure not to colour outside those lines! A nice big fat pastry of some kind should do the trick. To match your nice big fat butt, obviously! If you’re being ‘healthy’ (HAHAHHAHAHHA) have a bowl of cereal instead. Grab a coffee loaded with sugar and milk to wash it down.

Bonus points: repeat something very similar to this for a mid-morning snack. Wouldn’t want to put PREMIUM FUEL in that NORMAL body, would you now?!

3. The Day Begins

As a normal person you might be fortunate enough to have the 9-5 / 8-6 / 7-7 etc, depending upon your rank (the higher up the normal ladder you go the MORE YOU GET TO WORK FOR OTHER PEOPLE! Cool huh?!), fully taken care of for you.

This puts you in a very simple and straightforward position of knowing exactly what you need to DO with your time once you make it through steps 1 and 2. PHEW!

If you don’t have a job, no fear. You will have PLENTY to do. There’ll be errands … grocery shopping … important catch ups to talk about important things such as news or what your kids ate for breakfast or how hot that new Zumba teacher is. You might not think it possible (it does boggle the mind!) but this stuff will easily take up your entire freaking life.

Sorry, did I say life? I meant day.

4. Managing Your Energy

It’s important not to push yourself too hard as a normal person. The reason is, you don’t want to accidentally realise you’re alive and that you have the power of choice. It would DISRUPT THE WHOLE FUCKING SYSTEM.

So, be sure to regularly imbibe a solid mixture of:

With VERY little real food mixed through it
Daytime TV
Mindless social media
And if you do something like sit in a waiting room or go get your hair done ALWAYS read the trashy magazines. Don’t even THINK about, well, thinking for yourself or using that time to learn and grow or LIVE!

5. Do Things Just For You

It’s EXHAUSTING being normal, this is evident by the weary and hopeless looks on the faces of normal folks, and the practical reality of the fact that stuffing your mind and face with NOTHINGNESS all the time will zap you of anything even resembling normal human energy, so you should take time to build yourself up and do things for you.

If you’re a ‘healthy’ type normal person, go meet your friends for a nice long chat with a bit of bobbing around in between (sorry, what do they call it; group fitness?) where you can all pat yourselves on the back at Doing Something to be in shape, despite the fact that afore-mentioned ass IS in fact getting bigger each year.

REWARD yourself always, afterwards (and before!) with a nice ‘healthy’ (that sound was me trying not to choke) soy or low-fat smoothie. MUST ALWAYS REPLACE (TRIPLE) THE CALORIES YOU BURNED!

After this you can resume normal activities, errands, and Important Conversations at the Playground or Cafe.

Other options for doing things for you pretty much include repeating the stuff I mentioned in point #4, except this time you’re consciously giving yourself permission to treat yourself rather than just mindlessly stuffing it in.

6. Time Away From the Everyday Routine

Now I’m going to be honest with you here … and I know this is scary … but as a normal person used to knowing exactly what to do with their time and, this is going to freak you out a little. Here goes:

They WILL make you have a few weeks each year where you don’t get to come in to work or follow your daily system and watch the clock count the days till you die, and you’re going to have to think for yourself.

Normal people call these weeks ‘holiday weeks’. They tend to go places life by design folks would consider a place to go anytime of the year they feel like it, but they usually only stay a few days rather than however long they like.

DON’T WORRY: you can get through these weeks by drinking and eating everything in sight. It helps numb things, and it sends you back to your day to day normal life sufficiently ready to ‘get back to normal’.

7. When You Need to Make a Decision, or Veer From Your Daily Routine

I KNOW. This is terrifying stuff. You don’t normally have to think for yourself! WHY ARE THEY TRYING TO MAKE YOU?! That’s the whole freaking reason you’re IN this system!

But don’t worry – when in doubt, in ANY doubt, or whenever considering entering unchartered waters such as:

Buying a house
Planning a trip
What your next show to watch should be
How to eat right for you
Whether to vaccinate your kids
What your own opinion is on politics, or current affairs, or anything
Whether the rumours about sunscreen are true
What you should have for dinner
What time you should get up in the morning
What you should wear
Anything anything anything and everything at all!

There is a very simple solution that’s been long put in place for you:


8. “Downtime”

Normal people have to endure this thing they call downtime. It means the system has kicked them out for a few hours, usually in the evening or on Saturday and Sunday, which they call the weekend. They have to differentiate these times and days because these are the periods in the week typically designated as ‘free’ time, time when you’re allowed to choose your own life.

YES it is scary stuff, but it’s okay. As with everything in the normal world there’s a system:

Firstly, for as much of the ‘free’ or ‘down’ time as possible, DO THE THINGS YOU WOULD DO ALL WEEK ANYWAY. Never mind that you don’t ‘have’ to, it’s so much easier to win at normal when you just KEEP being normal.


* Do extra and unnecessary work, to keep yourself occupied.
* Sugar, gluten, dairy, TV, Facebook, mindless chat, news, etc – you know the drill. As much as possible!
* EAT MORE. When in doubt, ALWAYS eat more. You can get past a good few hours this way!
* Meet up with other people to do these activities if you like. ONLY ones like you!
* SLEEP MORE. When in doubt (and if not eating) ALWAYS sleep more. It’s a great way to numb things as well, which of course is kinda the whole point with this downtime thing.

9. Night time routine

Usually your ‘downtime’ activities should do the trick at numbing you smoothly into slumber. Sometimes though, the mind tries to remind you of what could have been and of what living is SUPPOSED to be about.


You can do this with:

More alcohol
More sugar / carbs
More mindless social media
Or just putting your head under a pillow and chanting furiously to yourself until the nasty voices go away and you can wake up again and begin again.

Whatever you do do NOT attempt anything thought-provoking like journaling about your dreams and goals, writing out ideas, or practicing gratitude and self-awareness. I didn’t even MENTION this in this stuff in the morning routine section as it would be the WORST THING YOU CAN DO IF YOU WANT TO DO NORMAL WELL.

10. Be Realistic, ALWAYS

And finally, know this:

Sometimes as a normal person you’re going to have LEANINGS. CRAVINGS … a desire to be different … a desire to be a REAL FUCKING PERSON who actually is ALIVE and thinks and creates their OWN pathway.


I know. It can be VERY tempting, the idea of living a life in which you:

Make the money you want.
In the way you want.
Doing what you want.
How you want.
With a hot body.
A life you truly LOVE.
Endless travel, fun and adventure; as much as you choose.
A lifestyle ENTIRELY by design.
And you actually wake up happy, excited, motivated for the day ahead and go to bed at night feeling SPENT in an AWESOME way not a ZOMBIE way.


But no, no, no, NO. BE REALISTIC. Be PRACTICAL. You can NOT afford to do that. Who the hell knows what might happen?! It’s not SAFE.

It’s not. for. YOU.

But look, if you can’t seem to pull yourself away … if it continually just PULLS at you … if you’re a rebellious so and so just MASQUERADING at living the normal life and the truth is you see yourself as a ‪#‎revolutionaryfuckingleader‬ and you not only WANT it all but believe you can HAVE it all, then know this:

~ Once you go down this pathway and you see what’s possible, you can never go back. YOU WILL NEVER AGAIN BE NORMAL (although you might try). So ONLY even CONSIDER it if you’re willing to kill and DESTROY all that we just talked about.

~ You will never stop. Ever. Forever. You will run faster, push harder, go further. You will fight. You will ENDURE. You will sweat and bleed and cry and scream and you will NOT get to back away from this in fact you must move INTO it, daily. IT WILL TERRIFY, CONFRONT and EAT YOU ALIVE AT TIMES.

~ You will have to think for yourself. EVERY DAY ABOUT EVERYTHING. Some people will hate you for it. This is not a fear this is a FACT.

~ You will have to make your own decisions. EVERY DAY ABOUT EVERYTHING. Some of them – MOST of them – will fail miserably. You will KEEP GOING – forEVER – until you find the one that works.

~ You will get up earlier than everyone else, stay up later, and basically operate at a minimum of 10x ‘normal’ speed when awake. You will get more done before breakfast than most people do in a week, and by the time they’re settling in with their lunch over a nice magazine or show you’ll be spinning the world atop your finger and wondering what’s next. Make no mistake: THIS WILL REQUIRE PAIN.

~ You will need to treat your self-care like a military fucking routine. You will not be able to AFFORD being physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually out of shape and if you think you can you’re fucking kidding yourself. Success CREATES success but it also REQUIRES success.

~ You will never switch off. Ever. Forever.

~ You will spend your every waking minute creating, hustling, pushing, or else thinking about creating, hustling, pushing, or else dreaming about it. You will still not get it all done, in fact the more you do the more you realise you’ll HAVE to do.

~ You will learn to eat fast, move fast, breathe fast and even sleep fast. You will operate at a speed you previously considered not possible.

~ You will at times fall completely to pieces, full foetal position meltdown, rocking back and forth like a crazy person and CERTAIN you can’t go on. You will go on anyway.

~ You will find yourself broke, and broken, almost with complete certainty. You’ll find your BEST IDEAS fall to pieces and it’s often the most random fly-by-night ones that sneak up on you out of nowhere that work. The only way you can FIND those great ideas is you show up, every day, and you do what it takes.

~ You will show up. Every day. You will do what it takes, no matter what it takes, until it takes and THEN YOU WILL KEEP GOING. Your mantra will be “Am I dead yet? No? THEN KEEP GOING”. You will do this when things are working, and when they’re not (mostly they won’t, at first). You will do this when you feel like it, and when you don’t. You will do it when you know how, and when you don’t.

~ You will, quite simply, LIVE AND BREATHE ALL OF THIS AND MUCH MORE BESIDES, and you will do it not only REGARDLESS of how much it hurts but BECAUSE of how much it hurts.

Because when it hurts, you know it hurts for a PURPOSE.

And when you stretch, you know you’re growing.

And when you melt-the-fuck-down and then want to tear the world apart with your bare hands, you, well. You have a little normal person numbing relapse, and then you get back to work.

Your TIME will never again be ‘free’ … but yet it will be COMPLETELY free …

Your MIND will never again stop … but it will be ALIVE in a way you didn’t realise possible …

Your GOALS and DREAMS will never fully be reached … but you will LIVE THE FUCKING DREAM, and completely on your terms.

You will suffer.

You will continue no matter how broken you are.

You will, quite simply, do what others won’t, so that you can live a life they can’t.


We call it life.

But that’s okay.


Go do your normal. It’s showing anyway …

And if you chose this life already? Join me. And get back to fucking work.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x





A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.


It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?


It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.


You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –



I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.


That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!




A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!


What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on


AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!



I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!


Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!


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