I BELIEVE IN YOU
Yesterday a client commented that she sometimes wonders if she believes in herself as much as I seem to.
It was an interesting comment, and one that got me thinking. The truth is I have NEVER doubted this woman is going all the way to the top, despite the fact that I’ve been many times aware of her own doubt or even, at times, lack of action. It’s never occurred to me before that it’s possibly odd to have someone else believe in you more than what YOU believe in you, either!
My response to her was simple, and I want to share it with you because I think this is something you need to hear for YOU, if you do know, deep within, that you were born for more and that more WILL be your story.
I wrote –
“That’s an interesting comment … I definitely DO believe in you completely. I suppose I’m coming from the point of view of seeing an earlier version of myself in you, and knowing that I did make it through and that I put myself through so much despair / limited thinking on occasion / and some wasted time etc … same as you do sometimes!! … and yet here I am. I don’t doubt you for a second. You are one of the people who I’ve always known will make it 100%.”
Sometimes I think we all need somebody to remind us:
The stuff you feel inside of you? Is real.
That calling you’ve had for so long? Is REAL.
The fact that you KNOW you were born to make millions, impact millions, change the world? Is freaking REAL baby, and then some.
I KNOW this stuff, I know it so deep within my soul, I am now also living PROOF of it, so when I look at my clients … or at you … and I see you struggling with self-doubt, with fear, with sabotage, honestly on the one hand it does frustrate me because I see how much harder you’re making it on yourself, but on the other hand?
If I see that you truly ARE one of the called ones, and I know that no matter WHAT your fearful or crazy mind may try and tell you that you TOO know you are?
What I really see, when I see your fear, your self-doubt, and how you STOP yourself, is just part of the inevitable pathway we all walk on the road to success.
Because baby when I see YOU, I do NOT really see that stuff. I’m aware of it. It’s annoying, at times infuriating, because I know that you don’t need to hold on to it. But really what I see when I look at you is a warrior.
I see a revolutionary fucking leader, born to change the world.
I see the empire you WILL build.
I see the lives you ARE going to change, so many of them you couldn’t count them if you tried.
I see you having EVERYTHING your heart desires. Releasing your TRUE message into the world. Creating and embodying and BECOMING all that you dream of and joining me, in living a life on purpose, filled with passion, from flow, and where we PRESS the fuck play day in and day out.
I look at you, and I see my own reflection. I see somebody who was born to rule and lead and I truly have zero fucking doubt that you’re going to get there.
How can I be so sure?
Because when I look at you and see my reflection I also see all the ways I fucked it up. Screwed it up. Wasted SO much time. Refused to go all in. Followed everything BUT the path of alignment at times! Let resistance and fear RULE me.
AND YET HERE I STILL AM.
Because ultimately everybody gets here, NO. No, I don’t believe that, not for a second.
I believe some people who were born for more, plain and simple. Leaders, entrepreneurs, high level creators, those who WILL change the world are born NOT made. We are the 1% within the 1%, we were BORN this way!
Most people were born to EXIST and chase mediocre.
We can’t be mediocre if we try. And ultimately NOTHING will get in our way, INCLUDING OUR SELVES.
So here is the thing.
The thing that it took me so many years to truly realise, and which I hope I can save you some time and heartache, in passing on to you.
Sooner or later, you ARE going to get there. You damn well know it, don’t be so self-indulgent as to at times pretend that maybe you don’t, maybe you won’t, maybe you can’t. You ARE going to do what it takes, no matter what it takes, until it takes, and just.keep.going.
It’s in your fucking BLOOD.
You can’t turn that shit off if you TRY.
In the end, NOTHING is going to stop you and you will NOT take no for an answer, AND YOU KNOW IT.
So when you stumble, when you fall, when you QUESTION, firstly know that you’re not alone. That none of that means you won’t get to here.
Why don’t you just get the fuck over having to make it so God damn hard on yourself already?
You have the advantage of getting to learn from others, like me, who have paved the way for you, and each and every one of those you in some way aspire to be like will tell you the same thing.
WAITING TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF IS NOT NECESSARY.
Yes you CAN still get there, if you insist on dragging it out, as I guess we all DID. And maybe that’s just how it has to be! But I don’t think so.
I think that you and I both know that in the end you’re going to lay it all on the line, and step FULLY into creating the empire and the life that was ALWAYS GOING TO BE YOURS.
You can mark your calendar for a few more years of struggle and beating up on yourself if you WANT!
Or you can make that day today.
You may think that I don’t know you, not really, that if I knew how weak-willed or minded you are, if I knew how you screw yourself over or how you just fail to go all in, that I wouldn’t believe in you like I do …
You may think that you DO know me, that I’m stronger than you are, more disciplined, in some ways have more ability to make it …
You and I are cut from the same fucking cloth gorgeous.
EVERYTHING you’re hard on yourself about I have lived and breathed, and yet HERE I AM.
And EVERYTHING that is inside of me which has brought me here is ALSO WITHIN YOU, despite all the bullshit you THINK might stop you.
You look at me, and you wish you could figure out how to succeed like this.
I look at you, and I just want you to know that it’s 100% done.
Let’s be honest:
You may at times tell yourself that maybe it’s not for you.
But the truth?
You’ve never really believed for a second that you’re NOT going all the way.
Might as well start living accordingly!
Don’t forget –
Life is Now. Press Play.