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Success Mindset

It’s Time To Trust That You Being You Is Enough

When you think about becoming famous, and making your fortune, do you get excited about the idea of it happening because you followed a bunch of rules and jumped through some big hoops, did what you were told and did it well?

Or do you get excited about it happening because you got the fuck over yourself and started FULLY being you?

I know which one excites me more 🙂 … and not just FOR me, but for you.

Sure, it’s impressive – I suppose – when you see people who’ve ‘made it’ because they joined the dots properly. But isn’t there something also a little sad about it? I’ve spoken to so many people who are at the top of the ladder in business, in their niche, and the most recurrent emotion I encounter is one I’d associate with no other word than the word TRAPPED.

I don’t know about you, but it just doesn’t feel like I’d ACTUALLY BE SUCCESSFUL if the way I’d created said success was to trap myself into doing stuff not fully on my terms.

And here is the reality:

You being you? Is enough.

It’s time to TRUST that you being you is enough.

Not just because you deserve to create fame! Fortune! Freedom! in a way that excites you but also because (get ready to WRITE THIS DOWN!!!!) –

You being you is the WAY you will create your fame, fortune, freedom.

Disclaimer: if your CALLING is to be a successful MARKETER and the way you want to DO that is simply to follow a PROCESS and plug in the gaps and conform and PERFORM then the whole YOU BEING YOU THING ain’t gonna work out for you.

And also – I’m not TALKING to you so please, stop reading, and for the love of God, get off my list if you happen to be on it.

Go join the B-in-a-box-schools and courses that abound so plentifully out there.

Follow the formulas.

Rinse and repeat.

I’m talking to the MESSENGERS here.

To the REVOLUTIONARY FUCKING LEADERS who know they were called.

To the TRUE artists and creators who have powerful work to unleash, who can’t NOT let it out, who would in all honesty FOREGO fame and fortune in order to do their true work but who also believe that the wealth side of things will work out when they DO finally commit to being who they are.

Is that you?

Do you know you are called?

Do you know you have a MESSAGE to share?

Do you want to finally put your creativity and true expression FIRST, even though yes you’re still scared about money and ‘making things work’?

If that’s you then let me tell you:

For YOU (and for me) the money is not going to COME until you follow what’s inside of you.

It just doesn’t work that way, for us.

On the one hand it’d be nice if you could go and join some dots and make some money so that you could then do the work you really want to do …

But on the other hand if you WERE able to make ‘serious’ money by conforming in that way it would be the WORST FUCKING THING IN THE WORLD, because you’d get addicted to it and bound by it.


So if I were you (and I kinda am) I’d be THANKING MY LUCKY STARS that you don’t seem to know how to make money by following the rules.

This is a BLESSING and incredibly self-protective, not a sabotage or you ‘doing something wrong’ as I know you at times imagine it to be.

But here is what you need to understand and really GET INTO YOUR HEAD:

It’s never – NEVER – going to work until you trust yourself.

It’s never – NEVER – going to work until you FULLY trust yourself.

And it’s never – NEVER – going to work until you also ACT LIKE YOU FUCKING TRUST YOURSELF.

Saying it really don’t cut it, you know?

Here is what this means, practically speaking:

– The ways the internet-at-large does list building won’t really work for you
– Conventional marketing and advertising won’t really work for you
– Following launch formulas won’t really work for you
– Following ANYFUCKINGTHING that has ‘must do this way’ steps to it WON’T REALLY WORK FOR YOU

You MIGHT get some sort of short-term results doing any or all of these things but those results won’t last and you’ll hate it anyway.

The feeling of your soul being sucked out is not really one you can force yourself to enjoy, you know?

Here is what will work:

Following your heart.

Following your heart.

Following your heart.

Doing random or silly or crazy or without rhyme or reason stuff, just because you were called to.

Doing what FEELS right.

Doing it because you can’t NOT.

Doing what COMES to you, in a fleeting moment of madness and you think ha! THAT would be fun, exciting, cool, that I have to do! Even though it’s COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT to what you’re “supposed to be doing”.

Can I tell you something?

There are certain people, in the online world, in the celebrity world, in the author, speaker, entertainer worlds, who stand out.

Because of their crazy, whacky, weird, random, irrelevant or just plain ‘not doing it right or the normal way’ approach to being who they are.

That chick on the show Girls, which I HATE (the show, not her) on a side note, augh comes to mind.

Rebel Wilson.

Chris Crocker (comedian).

That girl who is on Pitch Perfect and says some really fucking funny weird shit online.

Molly Sapp.

I’m sure I’ll think of about 20 others when I stop writing this.

The STRANGE ones.
The ones who sometimes make you want to cover your eyes because you can’t believe they WENT there.
The ones who you hear stories of epic diva-like proportions about because they JUST WANT TO DO THEIR WORK – BUSINESS – LIFE – ART – AS THEM.

Don’t you want to just do your work, business, art, LIFE as you?

And don’t you realise you CAN?

The THING is, that these crazy ones are the ones who stand out and we look to them and even if we don’t like them we MARVEL AT.

We wonder how they can be so audacious!

How they can be so bold!

How is it that they manage to be so damn cool and attract so much ATTENTION?!

And if we’re particularly stupid that day we try and take note of what they’re doing so we can model it in some way.

“That must be IT!” we think to ourselves!

“It’s because they’re doing THAT crazy ass shit!”


It’s because they’re being who they are.

And they don’t give a fuck.

Except they give all the fucks for themSELVES.

You know?

So here is the REALITY of what you need to understand right now, if you EVER want to actually MAKE it, where you do not only make the money you wanna make and know you can but where you also get to fucking live the LIFE you dream of living:


Because let’s be honest … it’s never going to go away, this need within you.

Is it?

You know you weren’t born to be a marketer.

Stop trying to climb into a box you’ll never fit in, were never born for, can never conform TO.

You were born to do great things.

To unleash something amazing.

And if it’s going to make you a lot of money, great, because why the fuck not?

But it was never about that.

Stop trying to make it about that.

And start pressing play ALL the way on being you.

The world is waiting!

But more still than that –

Aren’t YOU tired of waiting?

So if you are –

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.