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Purpose

LOVE IS

If I say ‘I love you’ to you, I mean it, deeply, and it is unconditional.

It is literally not possible for me to feel differently, no matter what you do or don’t do, and regardless of who you ‘really are’. We’re so used to living in fear that if people knew the truth about us, we’d lose their love.

That’s not love.

If love can be lost, if it’s conditional, it was never true love in the first place.

Not too many years ago, it was very very hard for me to tell somebody I love them.

In my first serious relationship (he became my first husband), I DID say ‘I love you’ a lot, we both did, but that relationship went down a not so fun pathway … love started to feel like pain … it seemed safer to not express it and eventually to not receive it, either.

From there, mostly I stayed in a place of feeling that love is high-risk, painful, not safe, and that it’s too scary / vulnerable to SHOW love as it somehow exposes or weakens you.

This impacted my ability to love in all areas.

I don’t remember saying ‘I love you’ to friends … I said it only sparingly with my parents … not really with my siblings at all … and certainly not with clients.

Now ‘I love you’ or ‘I love you so much’, these are phrases I use daily, often.

I truly and deeply love my friends, and I tell them often. One of my besties mentioned to me yesterday how important this is to her, how much she appreciates it as not everybody she cares about is able to say it to her … I feel the same way and I easily now RECEIVE love from the people in my life.

But, it took some practice.

There have been many times friends have said ‘I love you’ and I kinda just didn’t respond. It felt so uncomfortable, scary, I felt like it made me, yeah, I guess somehow weak or something to say that. I don’t know. I couldn’t even analyse it, no need to.

It was just hard to say.

For some reason it still feels a little hard to say to family (!!), but I do. I’m noticing as I write this I could / desire to express it to my family more, as it’s definitely TRUE.

Maybe I feel … hmmm, here’s something coming up right now … I think I feel that my FAMILY might love ME conditionally, and therefore it feels unsafe to show love to them.

Or it feels like it’s not fully true.

Yikes.

This may or may not be based on truth from their perspective. I do know I’m deeply loved by them … but at the same time, yes – I still feel there are rules of behaviour and I’m not living up to them.

Something to work on 

So I suppose for me, receiving as well as giving love has to be based fully on complete love and acceptance in both directions.

Which of course begins with complete love and acceptance of SELF… in fact my ability to give love unconditionally woke up when I first began to practice giving it to me. Of course.

I tell clients often I love them as well – and I say it ONLY when I feel and mean it.

I feel like a lot of mentors say this as a throwaway statement. I do not do that.

If I tell you I love you I fucking MEAN it, it’s real, it’s what has come through me and I say it WITHOUT CONDITIONS.

I even say it collectively at times, to my community – this is because I collectively FEEL it. It’s REAL.

At some point, I fall in love with every single one of my private clients.

If I didn’t see that happening when we first met, you wouldn’t have become a private client 

So, when you worry that maybe you message me too much … or that I think this or that about you and how you’re showing up, or that I judge you, or am impatient for you to be this or that or the other thing …

I don’t.

That’s not love.

And, of course, it’s the same romantically.

Love doesn’t judge.
It doesn’t have rules.
It’s not based on ANY sort of conditions.

Of course, if how somebody lives their life doesn’t feel good for YOU, you may opt out of that / have boundaries / etc. But, if you loved the person / love them, then that love is still there.

The biggest thing I’ve learned about love is that it just IS.

There’s nothing else to add to it, and it’s based on nothing except that, well, it’s there.

It’s the most freeing thing in the world, actually, to love with full abandon and no expectation or requirements in return ..

Try it

You are safe to try it

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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