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Success Mindset

Where Do Your Loyalties Lie?

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Here is what it comes down to gorgeous.

You have 24 hours in the day.

Whatever you do with them, the day will pass at just the same speed.

However you approach it, your life will pass at just the same speed as it was always going to.

So what are you going to do?

Who do you want to be?

Not just ‘one day’, but now.

And the toughest question of all – if you’re completely honest, and no matter how much it might hurt, where did you think you would be by now?

Reality: most people will talk about it, dream about, plan for it, promise it to the world and especially themselves and then they will never ever do it.

Not because they can’t.

Not because they don’t know where to start, or how to go on.

Not because they’re scared, or unsure, or overwhelmed.

Not because it seems an impossible dream.

But really, and only, because they don’t.

Because, quite simple, and despite what they swear to be true, their loyalties lie not with their dreams but with everything else.

With being busy.

With Getting Things Done.

With doing what’s expected of them.

With keeping other people happy.

With ridiculous standards about how their home or inbox or social schedule has to be.

They will fight and they’ll fight and they’ll fight to find success and happiness on the world’s terms, telling themselves that they too want this, need it, and that then they can follow that dream.

And they will one day, if they’re lucky and the end doesn’t come with no warning, have a chance to look back on a life that by most people’s standards is very well lived.

A home, perhaps several.

Children, perhaps several.

A marriage, perhaps several 🙂

The bi-yearly overseas trip; the annual summer holiday.

The hours and hours, well really years and years, spent staying up to date with the News, with their friends, with social media.

The cleaning and tidying.

The projects that were on deadline, that they’d promised they would do, that they can’t even remember now.

The right schools or education.

The keeping up.

The doing what they should.

The living the dream, without ever truly stopping to wonder –

“Yes, but is it MY dream?”

And most people, if they do look back, will look back with elements of joy and certainly gratitude but there will also, if that’s all there is, be massive massive regret.

Do you truly believe you’re going to one day be glad you climbed the ladder, telling yourself you love your job, when really you were born to create and what it actually came down to was fear of lack of money, fear of not having your work validated?

When really what it came down to was quite simply, that you didn’t. You didn’t even really try.

Do you truly believe you’ll be glad you bought yourself a mortgage and ‘security’ when you could have thrown caution to the wind and actually created more security by taking ownership of your own income by starting that dream business and damn well doing what you had to do until you figured it out and MADE it work, and at the same time been able to work, live and play from anywhere in the world?

Do you truly believe, when all is said and done, that it will have been enough for you to succeed on society’s terms? Perhaps the answer is yes, and if so that’s fine. This is probably, however, not really the book for you and it’s unlikely you’d be reading this sentence because you’d have given up by now.

But if you know, if you simply can’t ignore no matter how much you occasionally wish you could, the need to have more, be more, do more, than I can promise you this –

Even though it will be scary, terrifying, and at times you’ll have no idea where your money is coming from or what’s happening next you will never ever EVER regret having given your all to living your dreams.

You will NEVER regret putting those dreams ahead of the house, the ‘stable’ job, the ‘right’ schools or accoutrements.

You will NEVER ever ever regret that you took a chance. Made the leap. And that you finally, finally, stopped fucking around, figured out what you really want from life and then went out there like a bat out of hell and made it HAPPEN!

Whatever you do gorgeous,

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!