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Purpose

MY WHOLE FUCKING LIFE IS ABOUT SELF-PLEASURE

I went to an incredible women’s event last night, centered all around elevating connection to self, to our bodies, to LOVE, to sex, to romance, and more.

I guess you could call it a conversation about self-pleasure, but you could also call it one of alignment, purpose, flow, passion, joy, or just, perhaps – LIFE.

It’s interesting, don’t you think? The idea that pleasure could be separate from life?

It was kind of fascinating to me, actually, to tune in on the fact that a lot of the women in the room there seemed to feel GUILTY about self-pleasure, or feel that it was something they didn’t have time for, shouldn’t do or dive into, for a number of reasons.

By self-pleasure yes I do mean self-pleasuRING, but actually I’m talking, and really WE were talking, about self-pleasure as a concept.

Taking time for you.

Connecting with you.

BEING with you.

You know?

I wonder … when did you last do this?! For a day, an hour, a week, or even, at all?

I wonder … how do you feel about it, actually, the idea of life being about YOUR needs?

I say it was fascinating to me, but actually it took me aback; I’d forgotten, to observe that the way I do life, and also the vast majority of my clients and friends … with those who are not yet, ACTIVELY stepping into it and shifting that shit, of course … is, well –

Not normal.
Or spoken about, apparently!
Or even KNOWN!

Okay okay, so I DO know that my way is SO different from the norm, but actually I think I forget that. I live in a bubble, it’s a bubble I used to fantasise about stepping into, and it’s a pretty damn good bubble!

It’s a world where we do what we want … we create what’s inside of us … we follow flow, ONLY, and self-pleasure?

Well –

As I said to a friend this morning on audio, when talking about it –

My whole damn LIFE is self-pleasure!

To be honest, it wasn’t so much that it was fascinating to me to be in a space where this wasn’t just HOW IT IS, but more so that it was sad, and shocking.

It’s SO good to see incredible events such as this one, with such amazing speakers, bring to life a topic of conversation that is obviously DEEPLY needed.

And for my part, here is what I am called to add to such a conversation –

Self-pleasure, in ALL forms, a LIFE of pleasure, is not just something you are ALLOWED.

And, OMFG, no, not just for a scheduled set hour a week!!!

Hearing that some women allow themselves a set hour a week for pleasure made me feel roughly how I’d feel if someone said they allow themselves a scheduled hour each week for breathing, or for water intake! Pleasure is LIFE … literally!

And the more you allow this, let it wash over you, YES, get triggered by it if need be, go ahead! But then ultimately come BACK to its truth and begin to step into it –

The more the heavens will open to you

And no, I don’t just mean ’cause you’re cumming so hard by LIFE 

ABUNDANCE is an outcome of being in an expanded, open, superflow, PLEASURE state …

Dial up your PLEASURE, and you dial up money-baby, and that’s just an obvious one to point out.

REALLY, you dial up all things which actually fucking matter.

REALLY, you dial up being fucking ALIVE.

Here’s what else. Before you get all up in the MYTH OF NOT HAVING TIME.

I get it. I ran that story HARD. I was SOLD on my own bullshit, and I wouldn’t have listened to a word of somebody telling me that my busy and stressful life was FULLY my choice, and had NOTHING to do with so-called need to live that way in order to survive. Hopefully you are more evolved than I was, and you can listen, when I say to you, as a fellow (perhaps) solo Mumma whose kids Dad lives in another STATE, busy as fuck entrepreneur, driven crazy-ass woman who wants to DO IT ALL AND PRETTY MUCH DOES –

Time is a motherfucking choice.

You expand it when you CHOOSE to, and also?

The more you follow flow
The more you follow alignment
The more you follow SOUL TRUTH and DESIRE
The more the whole entire thing WORKS

When I say yes to my soul …

Life says yes to ME.

THIS IS HOW IT WORKS!

I know you’re scared.
I know you don’t know HOW.
And I know you’re battling SO much of the conditioned rules, about what a ‘good’ woman or a responsible one, gives her life for.

I know.

But I also know you’re curious …

And I know that somewhere beneath the fear YOU know –

It’s not supposed to BE about doing shit you don’t wanna do, in a way that does NOT really serve or suit you, for people who you don’t really love and adore, and then you DIE!

When did we as a SOCIETY decide that the road to success is paved with pain, suffering, NON-alignment.

YES, facing in to your truth and living for what matters can be uncomfortable as FUCK, terrifying at times, and even painful.

THAT is purposeful growth.

Living a life that does not however feed your SOUL, and honour what you desire and also know is REQUIRED, is.not.NECESSARY.

Worse, it will also have the precise OPPOSITE effect of what you’re actually seeking to do here.

Want it all, want it on your terms, want it NOW, where life just gives and gives and gives to you and OHHHHHH YESSSSSSSS?

Then start showing up for you.

All day.

Every day.

You may choose not to trust in this.

Perhaps fear will win … again … and again … and then you die.

But imagine …

Just imagine –

If today you said yes to faith. To flow. To SOUL DESIRE. To. honouring what you crave and LONG for. To trusting in the fact that from that place not only will you do your best work and be your best self, but also you will RECEIVE purely for being ALL of you.

It’s what you were born for, actually 

And then imagine you just repeated

For the rest of your life

I wonder what you’d create
I wonder how you’d open up, and EXPAND
I wonder who you would BE
How you’d serve, and impact others
What you’d LIVE for
And unleash

Not to mention …

I wonder what a damn good time you’d have!

It’s time to let go of the RIDICULOUS notion that self-pleasure costs.

It fucking CREATES gorgeous.

Dial it up.

And watch the INCREDIBLE awesome which life then serves up to you 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

🔥🔥 FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE is here! Eeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk and a HALF! I have not been this, well, FIRED UP & READY TO EXPLODE in a LONG while.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

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30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

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PPS.

The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.

And!

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Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉

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