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Live Your Passion

Be Narcissistic, Egotistic, and Completely Idealistic About Creating Your True Work. Or Give Up Now.

Sometimes I feel as though everything I’ve spent so much money – time – and angst – to learn about succeeding in online business and simultaneously creating your TRUE work in the world can simply be swept away with one undeniable statement of truth:

If success is to be yours? You just have to keep going and you just have to keep doing the daily work.

I’ve learned from the best mentors and coaches I can find …

Spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in doing so …

Would never change a second of all of that, and am continually grateful for the lessons learned; the people I’ve been able to connect with, the strategies I’ve had a chance to deploy, the income and the impact I’ve been able to make in large part as a result of this.

And yet still when all is said and done and I ask myself what it’s really about, and how I can guarantee my continued evolved SUCCESSFUL progress?

Keep going.
Keep doing the daily work.

That’s really it.

Everything you might like to discuss or point to about making more money, reaching more people, getting more visible and building your brand with SPEED, power or finesse can in my opinion be swept aside in favour of the unbeatable power of consistently showing up.

Of course I’ve understood consistency for many years and have long said that it’s the only secret to my success. Not just in making several million dollars online, but also in staying in great shape, in publishing over 30 books of my true work, in continuing to bring more people in to my community and to impact them with said true work.

Keep showing up.
One foot in front of the other.
Every day, do something.

Too simplistic? Maybe.

Fucking true nonetheless? Absolutely.

Simple to actually implement and LIVE by?


Oh … I thought it was a joke question.

If it were as simple to actually LIVE by as it is to get RESULTS from if you do live by it then everyone would be walking around doing their true work in the world, making great money and a helluva difference from it, and looking hot as fuck to boot!

Now that being said I can happily, proudly and with unapologetic ego about the whole thing confess to you:

* I’m doing my true work in the world.
* Consistently (although still not as MUCH as I’d like, which I know may well boggle the mind if you are aware how much content I already produce, but there you have it I want to do SO much more!)
* I’m making great MONEY from doing that work … consistently having high 5-figure months.
* I’m making a HELL of a difference doing that work … again here yes I do want to expand SO much more, but unlike so many years gone by I can now say with certainty that I am 100% working with my ideal clients who I love and ADORE … my community and I are so on the page it’s FREAKY. I love them, they love me, and I’ve truly found my tribe.
* I continue to CONSISTENTLY attract new kickass fellow crazy mad creator leader revolutionaries (or something!!) into said community.
* I live precisely my ‘dream lifestyle‘, working from the most beautiful locations all around the world; completely by design.
And I look and feel hot as fuck to boot 🙂

So … let’s be honest. I am a living breathing example of the INCREDIBLE power of consistency, because all of this was created not due to a STRATEGY, or a PROCESS, or an intensive ‘bootcamp’ of quick fix work, but simply because, for as long as I can remember, my approach has been:

Keep going.
Keep doing the work.

Sometimes the work I do feels like rubbish … pointless … as though I have NO freaking clue what I’m doing and should probably not be allowed to operate in the normal world either … but the fact that I’ve kept going regardless?

Is why I’m here.

So let’s talk about what it actually takes to BE consistent then. Because if it were so fucking simple to DO this simple work, then like I said … EVERYONE would be a rich as fuck multi-millionaire with abs and a booty like a crisp new peach.

I’ve written a lot about consistency before, about how it can change your entire life and LITERALLY make you millions. But I don’t know that I’ve ever written about how to BE consistent and how to not NOT be consistent.

You ready? THIS IS THE STUFF YOU LET STOP YOU, and how to CONSISTENTLY move through it, dance with it, and learn even to love that it’s there.

— You’re a Narcissistic, Egotistic, Idealistic Crazy Person —

Let’s just jump straight into the good stuff! As a creator with a message you want to shake the world with it’s ALL ABOUT YOU, you know it’s all about you, you really could care less (deep down) what anybody else wants or thinks or expects, but yet that part of you that STILL WANTS TO BE NORMAL (so sweet) is jumping through hoops like nobody’s business, trying to prove to the world that you’re not in fact a self-absorbed, full of yourself, overly optimistic madwoman.

Look, I get that we’ve been taught these are BAD things, but here’s the reality:

Creators ARE self-absorbed, completely self-CENTRIC, completely head in the clouds crazy people and it’s ALL ABOUT THEM.

As a TRUE creator you create first and foremost and to be perfectly honest ONLY for yourself.

If you don’t allow this and instead you try to create outside of yourself you will never lead, inspire, or UNLEASH your true work and as such never do the good you were called to do in the world.

Trying to tell yourself you’re creating for an OUTCOME, for someone else, for how it might grow your brand or make you money is not only futile – as it stops you from being true to what needs to come out of you – but it will also never be true.

~ How to consistently move past the ‘problem’ of being such a selfish, self-absorbed DIVA about the work you really want to do? Stop looking at it as a problem. Own who you fucking ARE. You can’t make MAGIC and also be normal honey so EMBRACE THE CHAOS AND THE MADNESS, and all that comes with it.

In other words … get over WORRYING about it and get back to work; to doing your work for YOU and to heck with what anybody has to say or think about it OR about you!

— The Way You Do Your Work is Wrong —

What does this even MEAN?

Like, seriously now – WHAT DOES THIS EVEN MEAN?

Let me ask you a question … ARE you a creator? Are you somebody who has stuff within them to let out? Have you EXPERIENCED shit in your life (good and bad) and does that impact your reality, your beliefs, your passions, your choices?

Yes???! Good … me too … and good news! YOU’RE NOT A ROBOT and what you PRODUCE in the world is not supposed to resemble something off a freaking production line of internet or artistic musts.

So why do you let the ideas – opinions – RULES – of others impact how often you show up or whether you show up at all? Who are THEY to tell YOU how to do YOUR work in the world?!

Oh, what’s that now??? You want to grow up to be successful JUST LIKE THEM?? Then by all means … go build your little business in a box. Follow the rules. Follow the STEPS. Do exactly as you’re told, do it like EVERYBODY else is doing it, do NOT colour outside the lines and don’t you freaking DARE consider paving new ways forward in business or art.

Just don’t ever dare to call yourself an artist though … and don’t be surprised if it doesn’t work for you anyway, this whole follow a proven path thing. I can’t even be bothered explaining why; if it’s not smack-you-in-the-face obvious you and I can’t ever be friends and also if your thing IS to follow a path rather than create your own we really have NOTHING in common.

~ How to consistently do your work even though it might be breaking ALL the rules, norms, ideals and just be flat out WRONG!

Just fucking do it.

I can’t tell you how often I see whingy-moany bullshit on Facebook in Author groups and the like about how short Kindle books aren’t real books, how you’re not a ‘real’ best-seller if you’re an Amazon best-seller (so the fuck what, you’re an AMAZON best-seller, that’s – duh – what it means) and how shorter books ‘can’t’ be of value … what does that MEAN? According to WHOM? And so WHAT? Is there a universal LAW about how long a book should be to be allowed to be called a book or to be of value? Of value to whom, precisely? Has all creativity been set into a nice orderly set of ‘how-to’ rules for all time? Wait, nobody told me – ARE WE NOT ALLOWED TO PAVE OUR OWN WAY AS CREATORS ANYMORE???! Do we have to do it how EVERYBODY ELSE DOES it??!

So why do we listen to this shit! Who CARES whether somebody ELSE – or even EVERYBODY else – thinks your work is wrong. Does it mean something to you? Are you expressing what needs to be expressed? Then keep doing it! And I can tell you that YOUR way might one day just become THE way, because if you stay true to your path of creation what you create WILL be amazing (and awful at times as well; don’t worry!) and it just might change the world. But only if you let it come out as feels right for it to come out.

Honestly: I used an example that annoys and triggers the shit out of me, but yet one that has not STOPPED me doing the work I’m called to do anyway because I fucking KNOW my writing is amazing for ME (I’m priority, remember!) and also for MY true tribe. So … hat is getting to you and you’re LETTING it get to you and stop you showing up, hmmm??

— You Have to Figure it Out First, and Be Able to See the Path Forward —

This one had me by the short and curlies for years. Even up until very recently. Thinking that I’m nearly there … so close … I just have to figure out that next … something?! What was it now? Hmm … I don’t remember but I know I just need a LITTLE bit more clarity and then EVERYTHING WILL WORK LIKE MAGIC.

Well, no.

You’ll never be done, and that’s okay.

You’ll never know PRECISELY what you’re doing and whether it’s working, and that’s okay.

It never WILL just keep working even when it’s been working, and that’s okay.

Frustration will ebb and flow for YOUR ENTIRE FREAKING LIFE, and that’s okay.

Flow, even once attained, will disappear with no warning or rhyme or reason, and that’s okay.

~ How to consistently take action even when you’re not sure.

Commit to doing the work, not insisting upon it having ANY outcome. Trying to get the work right or MAKE it work is the fastest way to stunt creativity, to NOT follow through, and to ultimately not create change.

— Today’s Work Sucks so You Have to Get Better or Fix it First —

Plain and simple: no.

The purpose is not doing great work. The purpose is doing the work that comes out, today. And again tomorrow. If it’s great, great. If it’s awful, so be it. You can NOT get to great without riding the waves of WHATEVER ELSE COMES IN BETWEEN THAT.

Nor can you predict or manufacture great, so really – give up bothering and just DO THE WORK.

~ How to consistently show up even though what’s coming out is RUBBISH

Who are you to judge your own work anyway, REALLY?! How do you KNOW how it’s going to impact on somebody? And do you really think that NOT acting is the way to get to the gold? You wanna get to the gold you’re going to have to first sift through the crud … so, you know – just show up. What comes out is what comes out. LET IT OUT and then let tomorrow’s work take care of itself tomorrow.

You’re Waiting for the Struggle to Be Over — — People Think and Maybe Even Say Things About You! — — You Don’t Feel Like It Today

This post is getting too long or maybe I’m losing a little interest in it, because the answer to EVERYTHING is going to be do. the. work. anyway. So let’s just wrap up a few final points here, and honestly you can add anything you like to it and I’ll say the same thing:

You’re waiting till it feels easy and natural? THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN, even when it does you’ll go back down the rabbit hole of quicksand and pain sooner or later, so commit to doing the WORK not doing the work if it flows out of you like a unicorn slipping down a rainbow!

People might not like you and might even say bad things about you? Yes, that’s true. And? Is that a higher priority than doing your work and is it really ABOUT them?

You don’t feel like it, aren’t motivated, don’t know how … and? What’s that got to do with anything?

You’re worried that for all we joke about it YOU might actually be certifiably insane??! YES YOU DEFINITELY ARE, or it would not be POSSIBLE for you to be a true creator or to share a message that just might shake the world because it’s never been SAID, unleashed or done before, not in the way that you do it!

So I guess what this all comes down to, really, in the end, is simple.

Embrace who you ARE, choose to BE who you are, stop ANALYSING who you are and whether you have a right to fucking EXIST, and most of all??

Do the fucking work.



Is there really anything else you need to know??!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.