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Success Mindset


Yesterday I had the unfortunate experience of spending a few hours with somebody who I THOUGHT was going to be a cool and fun connection here in LA, but who instead turned out to be a walking and talking billboard for lack.

Nice person …

Easy enough to talk to …

No reason not to hang out again sometime …

But nonetheless I can tell you that I would run 100 miles in the opposite direction before I’d do so. Straight up, nearly every sentence out of this guy’s mouth made me just WINCE at the thought and belief processes that showed up through it.

On the surface of it they were innocent enough statements, the normal kind of ‘bitching’ that the normal kind of PEOPLE see AS normal, when it comes to money. Complaining about a drink price, outraged about parking fees, wondering at why anybody would want to travel in an Uber when a cab is so much more affordable! Etc.

There was a time when I myself would have not even registered these sort of comments, because it WAS my normal to live in constant fear around money and to believe that basically everybody asking an even moderately high price for anything was out to screw me or the world over. THAT was a time in my life when, needless to say (I hope!), I was BROKE.

These days, my environment is almost 100% filled with WEALTH CONSCIOUS people who are making a huge impact in the world, who see the TRUTH about money which is that you can choose as much as you like, and who never even LOOK at how much something costs, because what the fuck does THAT have to do with anything? Just have what you want, duh.

If anything I’d say my friends, peers, myself, we know that choosing to spend LESS or worry about having ENOUGH is a sure-fire way to limit money flow! We often deliberately spend MORE or invest in additional support, mentoring, etc purely in order to STRETCH OUR WEALTH RECEPTION ABILITIES!

AND it fucking works.

I’m so used to this way of thinking now, it’s how I live, breathe, AM, that when I on the odd occasion like yesterday encounter somebody who has such fear and lack-based thinking it seems SO WEIRD.

And make no mistake: SO unappealing. I feel an almost physical need to get.the fuck.outta there; before I get contaminated!

I’m not here to try and educate people who don’t already show an interest and actively seek to do so how to THINK properly, so long story short?

Thank you but no thank you not just to the friendship but to ANY future contact.

If you think that’s too harsh or extreme, then think about this:

Do you have any idea what you’re doing to your own chances of success and your ability to stay in alignment and POWER, when you allow yourself to be influenced by the negative or lack-filled thoughts of others?

If you did, I can GUARANTEE you – you’d learn to run the fuck away, fast, and for GOOD, from ANY person who does not know how to think for success, who does not live and breathe and EXUDE success, and no matter what role they may have played in your life, because here’s the thing:

You ABSORB whatever you put into yourself.

Just as when you choose to eat certain foods, you absorb the nutrition or lack thereof from those foods, and soon enough we can see exactly what you’re putting into your body, so it is with thoughts as well.

When you choose to ALLOW IN certain ways of thinking, even if from another person, you ABSORB the power or lack thereof from those thoughts, and soon enough we can see EXACTLY what you’re putting into your MIND.

Make no mistake: the dangerous thoughts of lack-minded and fear-driven people WILL influence you and there is NO WAY FOR YOU TO STOP THAT, except for to remove yourself from the situation.

I can tell you that I spent many years, during my business growth journey, in a relationship where the other person was EXTREMELY lack-minded. Now I’m a pretty strong-willed kind of gal (just a little!) so I was able to do a decent job of tuning it out and consciously carving out my own thought process. But common sense alone tells both you and I that, whilst that’s all well and good, of COURSE I was still impacted by it. Even if only due to the fatigue that comes with having to constantly ACTIVELY guard your mind!

And really, why would you want to put yourself in a situation to need to DO that, when you can instead just put yourself in a situation where you are AUTOMATICALLY elevated due to what surrounds you!

For me, one of the key reasons I will ALWAYS happily invest tens of thousands of dollars per month in being a first class VIFP Rich Bitch, in associating (travel!) with the right people, in mentoring where I need to, etc, is simply to put myself in the ENVIRONMENT OF RICH.

Think of it like transformation via osmosis:

I don’t even know at what point it became NORMAL for me to expect the best of the best in every area, but I sure as shit DO, and I can tell you I GET it, without question, and with ease.

Your life will ALWAYS, and can ONLY be, a reflection of your ‘normal‘, of what you expect and assume.

So as you elevate, and as you get serious about success, it becomes all the more critical but just NATURAL to want to remove yourself from any situation that would cause your wealth or success focus to be jolted, distracted, disturbed. Also it just plain FEELS yuck! Just like how if I eat crappy processed food I feel disgusting and INSTANTLY regret it, if I allow myself to be amongst any sort of crappy low-class thinking I feel disgusting and INSTANTLY regret it.

And ultimately, besides all of that: there is literally ZERO benefit to maintaining any sort of contact, let alone relationship, with these kids of people.

Long story short? If you’re serious about success you will RUTHLESSLY eliminate all thoughts, people, environments, EVERYTHING which is not elevating you to HIGHER than where you already are.

At the very most fundamental level, all I expect from everyone I give my time or energy or emotion to is 100 million dollar plus thinking and a mindset that KNOWS you can have it all, and you know what?

I sure as heck can get that, AND I deserve nothing less.

You too gorgeous, you too.

Lastly, here is the truth which we MUST take to heart whenever we feel uncomfortable about being a bitch or a diva or RUDE or removing ourself from something:

“Carefully guard your thoughts because they are the source of true life” Proverbs 4:23

Or as it’s been so many times paraphrased and perhaps better known since then:

Guard your thoughts, for they become your words –
Guard your words, they form your actions –
Watch your actions, they create your habits
Watch your habits, they form your character
Guard your character, for it becomes your destiny

Start paying attention, to what you’re allowing to go on inside you and to what you’re letting in, because it IS creating your future right now, and seriously, for the love of God –

Watch even the most SUBTLE of destructive thought processes. The person who bitches about a glass of wine costing too much. That potential client who makes choices based on what money they have available rather than what they commit to creating. The person in your LIFE who automatically assumes everyone is out to screw them over. The friend who winces at your ‘unnecessary’ lavish life or even the smallest indulgent choices. The one who tells you to be realistic. The one who tells you to be careful. The one who tells you not to get in over your head. The one who warns you you’re playing with fire, or that you need to make more logical choices. ANYBODY, anybody, and EVERYBODY at all who does not absofuckinglutely support you, dream WITH you, and lift you ALL the way up by mere virtue of who they ARE.

Really, it’s very simple:

Refuse to associate with those who won’t think properly.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.