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Success Mindset


There is a ceiling for women in online business, it’s one that is real for just about EVERY woman, whether she knows or has thought about it or not, and it’s one that is entirely –

100% –


on us.

What, you thought I was about to get on some rant about women not being valued by men, other people, life? Hahahaha, don’t make me laugh. Life values you the way YOU value you sister, that’s just how it is. Besides – I’m not exactly known as the worlds biggest feminist, so it wouldn’t make any sense at all for me to go round implying that there’s BADDIES out there tryna keep us down! 😉

I’m talking about the cold hard possibly infuriating but actually very self-protective reality that a WOMAN, particularly a soul-led one, particularly one who has also committed to living in accordance with her own values, is pretty much guaranteed to start tapping out on her business once it reaches the high multiple 6-figure per year mark, and in most cases well before that. A rare few will make it to a million a year, but from what I’ve observed after nearly 14 years now in this whole online game, privately mentoring hundreds and hundreds of badass females, and coaching absolutely THOUSANDS of ’em in my group programs, odds are – probably not.

Sacrilege! Blasphemy! PHILISTINE!

Yeah yeah, I know I know, women can do ANYTHING they decide to, I get it! And wtf am I on about anyway with their being a ceiling for WOMEN, am I implying this doesn’t exist for men?

Well, actually, KINDA. Depends on the man. Depends on the woman! Depends on many things, and most of all, this –

In the end, it’s very very simple –

You’ll either continue to live a life of bullshit, giving every piece of yourself for what is NOT aligned, NOT soul-led, NOT fuck yes, and NOT allowing you to live even remotely in accordance with your dreams and values, OR –

You’ll say a big fat screw you to everything which is not the ALL that you know is available for you, and you’ll booty-sashay into the damn light with not a single glance back.

For women in particular, this tends to happen before the 7-figure mark, and it happens based on the fact that EVENTUALLY THE HUSTLE JUST ISN’T WORTH IT ANYMORE.

In the beginning, in the middle also, and in what has felt like the never-ending end, you were willing to hustle whether or not it felt like pure purpose to do so. Hey! Ain’t nothing wrong with a good old fashioned little chunk of hustle, or even a big one! I love it. But –

There comes a time, for even the hardest working ‘do what it takes’ badass when the relentless fucking DOING is just, well –


When all of a sudden, you find you don’t have it in you anymore to CONTINUALLY and ONLY push.the whole.thing.up.hill!

The sacrificing of sleep …

The caving on your health and fitness …

The phone time around your loved ones just a LITTLE bit out of alignment with what actually feels right …

And most of all, the fact that it feels as though if you take your eyes off the ball for even a second? The whole damn thing will fall apart.

What’s really happening of course is that your soul is just about done with waiting to be heard, and bit by bit its nudges, whispers, and flat out smacks on the face are getting harder to ignore. What the whispers are saying to you, REMEMBERING to you, really, is that THERE IS ANOTHER WAY.

A flow way.
An ease way.
There HAS to be.

And at this point?

You’re really not prepared to keep going unless you can figure the fuck out how to drop into it.

Basically your true soul VALUES have started to outweigh your desire to get ahead, make money, or just keep your head above water, and you’re at a line in the sand moment when either you WILL figure out how to flip into the next level with ease, screw the fears and doubts which say it can’t be possible, or?

You’ll blow up the whole damn thing and go work in a bookstore or something.

Look, obviously this can happen with men as well. Soul can override desire or so-called need to get ahead or stay on top for ANY human.

But (and yes, I do know I’m generalising here; deal with it!) women tend to reach this point a helluva lot faster than men. Whether it be programming, parenting, or just ’cause we like laying around all feminine and flowy in the sun, who knows and it doesn’t matter. It is a REALITY which I’ve seen over and over again that women will push their business to a certain level on the steam of their ‘do’, and then they WILL.TAP.OUT.

Not always on purpose, not consciously! Often higher self just takes over and starts messing shit up.

Of course there are exceptions, typically those who are better at ignoring soul and truth last longer, push it a little harder and a little further up the hill, but for those of us who know? We KNOW. We cannot UN-know!

And what we know is this:


So when we ONLY push, and we ONLY do, and we CONTINUE to ‘work’ against soul alignment, we do so with the sub-conscious knowing that there is a time limit on this. That sooner or later (and this is what I’m really talking about!) we will decide to BACK ourselves.

To say yes to soul.
Let go of ALL the rules and shoulds.
STOP doing the damn do that we think we gotta do.

As we FINALLY admit to ourselves that whilst we COULD keep growing in the way we began growing, we also CAN’T. We don’t have it in us. From an ALIGNMENT perspective, not an ability perspective. Duh.

Because deep down, where we’ve for so long not dared to look, where YOU for so long perhaps have not dared to look, we KNOW that the next level?

Is born from surrender, from trust, and from CHOOSING faith to be unapologetically all that we always were and that is IT.

Look, I get that you’re scared, and that that’s a big part of why you’ve come this far continuing to just grind shit out. You should be proud of yourself for the fact that you’ve had it in you to do that! You’ve built necessary strengths and talents in doing so. Resilience, tenacity, inner strength, gumption. Girl you got gumption by the truckload!


You KNOW you’re handcuffing yourself like a mofo. Letting fear tell you that the way to get further ahead is to work even HARDER, LONGER hours, sacrifice MORE.


The next level is you stop fucking trying

And you start damn well flying

And if you want to know how?



The woman who was born to have it all.
On her terms.
And show the world they can do the same.

Can’t very well inspire the millions you came here to lead if you refuse to do life in a way that inspires YOU, can you now?

Let’s not forget you KNOW all of this is available. For you. Already.

As for the ceiling? It NEVER EXISTED ANYWHERE EXCEPT YOUR OWN MIND. But there was no damn way you’re gonna break through it when you’re not doing life and you like the real YOU baby boo, was there now?

Fuck the ceiling.
And fuck giving a single ‘nother day to anything other than empire expansion ON YOUR TERMS.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x


I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!


You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,


What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!


1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!