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Success Mindset


There is a ceiling for women in online business, it’s one that is real for just about EVERY woman, whether she knows or has thought about it or not, and it’s one that is entirely –

100% –


on us.

What, you thought I was about to get on some rant about women not being valued by men, other people, life? Hahahaha, don’t make me laugh. Life values you the way YOU value you sister, that’s just how it is. Besides – I’m not exactly known as the worlds biggest feminist, so it wouldn’t make any sense at all for me to go round implying that there’s BADDIES out there tryna keep us down! 😉

I’m talking about the cold hard possibly infuriating but actually very self-protective reality that a WOMAN, particularly a soul-led one, particularly one who has also committed to living in accordance with her own values, is pretty much guaranteed to start tapping out on her business once it reaches the high multiple 6-figure per year mark, and in most cases well before that. A rare few will make it to a million a year, but from what I’ve observed after nearly 14 years now in this whole online game, privately mentoring hundreds and hundreds of badass females, and coaching absolutely THOUSANDS of ’em in my group programs, odds are – probably not.

Sacrilege! Blasphemy! PHILISTINE!

Yeah yeah, I know I know, women can do ANYTHING they decide to, I get it! And wtf am I on about anyway with their being a ceiling for WOMEN, am I implying this doesn’t exist for men?

Well, actually, KINDA. Depends on the man. Depends on the woman! Depends on many things, and most of all, this –

In the end, it’s very very simple –

You’ll either continue to live a life of bullshit, giving every piece of yourself for what is NOT aligned, NOT soul-led, NOT fuck yes, and NOT allowing you to live even remotely in accordance with your dreams and values, OR –

You’ll say a big fat screw you to everything which is not the ALL that you know is available for you, and you’ll booty-sashay into the damn light with not a single glance back.

For women in particular, this tends to happen before the 7-figure mark, and it happens based on the fact that EVENTUALLY THE HUSTLE JUST ISN’T WORTH IT ANYMORE.

In the beginning, in the middle also, and in what has felt like the never-ending end, you were willing to hustle whether or not it felt like pure purpose to do so. Hey! Ain’t nothing wrong with a good old fashioned little chunk of hustle, or even a big one! I love it. But –

There comes a time, for even the hardest working ‘do what it takes’ badass when the relentless fucking DOING is just, well –


When all of a sudden, you find you don’t have it in you anymore to CONTINUALLY and ONLY push.the whole.thing.up.hill!

The sacrificing of sleep …

The caving on your health and fitness …

The phone time around your loved ones just a LITTLE bit out of alignment with what actually feels right …

And most of all, the fact that it feels as though if you take your eyes off the ball for even a second? The whole damn thing will fall apart.

What’s really happening of course is that your soul is just about done with waiting to be heard, and bit by bit its nudges, whispers, and flat out smacks on the face are getting harder to ignore. What the whispers are saying to you, REMEMBERING to you, really, is that THERE IS ANOTHER WAY.

A flow way.
An ease way.
There HAS to be.

And at this point?

You’re really not prepared to keep going unless you can figure the fuck out how to drop into it.

Basically your true soul VALUES have started to outweigh your desire to get ahead, make money, or just keep your head above water, and you’re at a line in the sand moment when either you WILL figure out how to flip into the next level with ease, screw the fears and doubts which say it can’t be possible, or?

You’ll blow up the whole damn thing and go work in a bookstore or something.

Look, obviously this can happen with men as well. Soul can override desire or so-called need to get ahead or stay on top for ANY human.

But (and yes, I do know I’m generalising here; deal with it!) women tend to reach this point a helluva lot faster than men. Whether it be programming, parenting, or just ’cause we like laying around all feminine and flowy in the sun, who knows and it doesn’t matter. It is a REALITY which I’ve seen over and over again that women will push their business to a certain level on the steam of their ‘do’, and then they WILL.TAP.OUT.

Not always on purpose, not consciously! Often higher self just takes over and starts messing shit up.

Of course there are exceptions, typically those who are better at ignoring soul and truth last longer, push it a little harder and a little further up the hill, but for those of us who know? We KNOW. We cannot UN-know!

And what we know is this:


So when we ONLY push, and we ONLY do, and we CONTINUE to ‘work’ against soul alignment, we do so with the sub-conscious knowing that there is a time limit on this. That sooner or later (and this is what I’m really talking about!) we will decide to BACK ourselves.

To say yes to soul.
Let go of ALL the rules and shoulds.
STOP doing the damn do that we think we gotta do.

As we FINALLY admit to ourselves that whilst we COULD keep growing in the way we began growing, we also CAN’T. We don’t have it in us. From an ALIGNMENT perspective, not an ability perspective. Duh.

Because deep down, where we’ve for so long not dared to look, where YOU for so long perhaps have not dared to look, we KNOW that the next level?

Is born from surrender, from trust, and from CHOOSING faith to be unapologetically all that we always were and that is IT.

Look, I get that you’re scared, and that that’s a big part of why you’ve come this far continuing to just grind shit out. You should be proud of yourself for the fact that you’ve had it in you to do that! You’ve built necessary strengths and talents in doing so. Resilience, tenacity, inner strength, gumption. Girl you got gumption by the truckload!


You KNOW you’re handcuffing yourself like a mofo. Letting fear tell you that the way to get further ahead is to work even HARDER, LONGER hours, sacrifice MORE.


The next level is you stop fucking trying

And you start damn well flying

And if you want to know how?



The woman who was born to have it all.
On her terms.
And show the world they can do the same.

Can’t very well inspire the millions you came here to lead if you refuse to do life in a way that inspires YOU, can you now?

Let’s not forget you KNOW all of this is available. For you. Already.

As for the ceiling? It NEVER EXISTED ANYWHERE EXCEPT YOUR OWN MIND. But there was no damn way you’re gonna break through it when you’re not doing life and you like the real YOU baby boo, was there now?

Fuck the ceiling.
And fuck giving a single ‘nother day to anything other than empire expansion ON YOUR TERMS.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.