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WHAT IF YOU JUST FUCKING DECIDED … RELEASED THE HOW … AND SHOWED UP LIKE IT WAS DONE?

I’ve been journaling on manifestation, on the amazing and epic things I have manifested, and doing kind of like a ‘recon’, I guess, into how I’ve done that.

I know it’s funny I just wrote that, when the title of this blog includes releasing the how, but there’s how –

And then there’s how.

Which I’ll explain.

Anyway, I was journaling.

And I had a problem.

It’s been bugging me for weeks … even months.

It’s caused STAGNATION, because mostly, how I have dealt with said problem, is by not.

I’ve ignored it.

Put it aside.

Decided it wasn’t urgent, and I didn’t have to.

And, conveniently used the end of the year as a get out of jail card.

“I’ll deal with it then”

Problem with using a timeframe as a get out of jail card, is that said timeframe tends to roll the fuck around at some point.

Annoying.

But true.

Well, the end of the year came.

And it went.

I had other things to focus on instead.

Sorry –

Can’t look at that right now!

Eventually, it got to the point where I HAD to actually figure this shit out. My team had been postponing things for long enough. It was time to give them an answer.

Eventually is right now … like, on the current flight I’m sitting on. lol.

So, I did what I had to fucking do, didn’t I?! I opened my computer to dive into my thoughts and make a DECISION, got side-tracked writing a little love note to a man, which I may or may not send, and then decided I needed a nap.

I did need a nap! I had the WORST sleep last night, sleep demons were beating me WAY up, and I dreamt that 3 of the people I loved most died.

It was full on.

WHEN KAT NEEDS A NAP SHE GETS A NAP.

Problem-solving had to wait…. again.

Two hours later, I woke up, sat up rather like the Dormouse, all at once, and half frightened the steward who was passing by, asking for a Cab Merlot when he thought I was passed out and snoring.

I grabbed my laptop.
ACTION time!

Somehow ended up writing a full analysis of a time when I needed 114k in 2 days and had ZERO fucking clue of how that could possibly happen, but yet did it.

I’ll definitely share about THAT soon, actually it’s the exact sort of foundational ‘how to manifest like a motherfucker’ stuff I’m going to share in my 300k in 5 Days case study this coming week. More on that below!

So, that was IMPORTANT to work out. I love looking at that sort of thing! How did I just create an EPIC result, from TOTAL flow, when it was COMPLETELY not on the cards?!

Super cool to analyse, and more deeply understand what I already know about manifestation.

Still wasn’t me addressing said problem though!

So, I decided to sternly pose myself the question at hand –

Enough was enough already!!

“What do I actually want to happen with XXX?”

Just so you know, XXX is something entirely related to my business.

My mind spat out the following:

“An incredible hot, fun, funny, SUPER sexy and successful TALL man appears in my life. He desires me sexually and in all the ways, and he shows it no apology. He is available, he is on the Gold Coast, this happens fast, he tells me straight up what he wants and he makes it happen. We connect instantly and DEEPLY, in multiple ways. He is amazing … and a total King. He treats me like a goddess and a Queen. We also have insane amounts of FUN together. So much! He meets the kids and is great with the kids, as well. This all happens this week. 0 to 100!

IT IS POSSIBLE
I know it may not happen
I have asked and stated
I now get to show up from flow, in all the ways

OMG!!

Back on point!! XXXX!

fast forward fast forward fast forward
what is the outcome I desire

so
what do I want then?
I DON’T KNOW!
but there’s always an answer
what is it

ok.

alright
XXXX! Really now!”

I then followed this on, randomly, with the following statement:

“I CAN’T WAIT TO SEE REGAN!”

(I’m seeing her in LA in a few weeks … we haven’t seen each other for ages … it is going to be a LOVE AND MARTINI FEST EXTRAODINAIRE. Stay tuned for THAT!)

BUT –

None of these statements, while powerful and also verrrrrryyy manifest-y (ask for the things!) –

Really had any fucking thing to do with what I was meant to be figuring out!

Grr!

Finally I wrote –

“Even though I feel like I don’t know what the answer is, if I DID know, it would be – “

This is a technique I ask my clients to use often, when stuck. Your SUB-conscious mind always knows. This way of asking helps to clear the bullshit.

And, it helped a little bit for me … I had to ask it a few times … but it still did NOT feel like I knew. I identified what I did NOT want, which was helpful. But I couldn’t see what I DID want.

Some things were coming up which I noticed did NOT feel good … fears … basically underlying reasons for why I’d been stagnant in this area.

Why couldn’t I figure this out?!

ugh
ugh
ugh

!

And finally, something just clicked –

I wrote:

“What if —— (shit relevant to outcomes I want relevant to XXX) and it got to ONLY feel amazing?

What if I just detached from the how and DECIDED …

What if gave my FLOW energy and just trusted and knew …

What if I also decided … (other thing I just want DONE) …

Yes.

This is the answer.”

And suddenly I realised, that all of the evading I’d been doing, well, maybe not the past few months, but certainly on this flight, was part of it, and perfect, and needed.

I needed the nap … like, for real though, I passed out INSTANTLY when I put my beats and eye mask (purple!) on … and just before I did, I set an intention:

– The answer will be shown to me.

I also needed to randomly dive into analysing some of my best manifestation stuff, and reminding myself of JUST HOW FUCKING POWERFUL I AM, and that ANYTHING can be created simply by DECIDING it, even if you don’t believe it WILL happen, you know it is POSSIBLE, and so you state it as done, then surrender the HOW, and get back to flow.

Anything!

I needed even to test out that by writing a man manifestation statement …

Reminding myself that if I just ask clearly for what I want, and put it out there OF COURSE IT CAN HAPPEN.

And the Regan thing was just ’cause I looked at my wrist, where every day I wear my Louis Vuitton bracelet which she gave me, and it made me think of her which got me excited, as only girls can about soul sister catch ups 🙂

When I was diving into the ‘how’ of the 114k in 2 days thing, and also at the same time thinking about the 300k in 5 Days Case Study Workshop I’m running this week, the shortlist ‘reminder’ I wrote down was this:

– decide exactly what I desire and require
– be specific
– write it down as though DONE
– I must believe it’s possible
– and surrender that it may not happen though
– then show up from FLOW
– and also being honest with myself / accountable what I know I need to be doing

You know, I think that no matter how far down the success pathway we go, we can never be too often reminded of what it actually takes to receive.

So today, this is me reminding me AND you –

Just fucking ask.
Surrender the how.
And then show the fuck up for the now.

How would that look for you?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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