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Fancy Yourself a Badass? Best You Stop Playing So Small Then!


You know, I love all of the terms that we throw around in the kickass women entrepreneur community.

I love WORDS basically, and certain words have I guess a fun or a cool or an exciting energy to them –

Words that speak to ME, at the moment?

Words like badass … kickass … revolutionary obviously! … epic … awesome … incredible … fucking … 🙂 … the list goes on and on.

I think though, that sometimes when we throw these words around on such a daily and ‘without really thinking about it’ basis, we don’t actually stop to remind ourselves that SAYING THE WORD doesn’t mean we embody the word.

And of course your version of what might be ‘exceptional’ or ‘amazing’ is going to be totally different to mine, and to the next person’s, so it’s not by any means about me critiquing you and giving you the nod as to whether your actions match your vocabularly and how you profess to do business (life – you!).

But here’s what does matter:

When you look at how you’re doing business – life! – you! – do you feel like you’re living up to your own hype?

Not in a ‘what people think of you sort of way’, not at all! Who cares what people think! Fuck people! They’re the WORST, as Jerry would say!

But in a what YOU think of you sort of a way.

Of course maybe you don’t really stop and THINK about what you ACTUALLY think of yourself, because even though it sort of niggles at you, bites at you and eats away at you, the truth is?

You’d very much rather not have to face up to that right now thank you very much!

Because the truth is that for as much as you throw cool words around like so much candy, and as much as you even rant and profess and ‘make a stand’, you still feel like you’re SO not letting the real you out in the way you really could, or perhaps even should, in the sense that we all SHOULD be whoever we really are and we all SHOULD give ourselves permission to dream our actual dreams!

Can I ask you something?

Do you actually dream your real dreams?

When you think about whatever it is you’re working on right now, trying to get out there or done, or even what you’re stating it’s all ‘ultimately’ about, are you actually dreaming as big as you want, as big as is within you, and are you then LIVING from a place of just knowing that those big dreams?

Are coming to life.


It’s okay, you don’t have to answer right now. But I will say this:

Most of what’s thrown around on social media or the ‘net is hot air at best. Not deliberately, of course not! Anyone who bandies around expressions of greatness BELIEVES in that stuff, believes it is possible, RESONATES with the whole idea of it, and is, for the most part, DESPERATELY TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO GET THERE.

But yet –

For the most part –

When you look at how they’ve progressed or changed, how they’re living their life, and to what extent they’re DOING THE WORK, over let’s say the past 30 or 60 or 90 days –

Doing actually fuck all to get there.

And when all is said and done you can have the coolest and most exceptional online vocab but if you’re not actually doing the work, then, well, you know what?

Your words mean shit.

And if you can’t actually look back over the past 30 days, 60 days, 90 days, YEAR, and say hell YES I’ve laid myself on the line for my dreams, well –


You’re not a badass.

And also, just based on the law of averages and HOW THINGS WORK?

It’s pretty unlikely that a month from now, a year from now, you’ll have changed anything.

So if you want to ‘be’ all of the stuff you talk about being, if you want to be able to define yourself by the stuff that you resonate with and LONG for, then at some point you’re actually going to have to start EMBODYING that stuff, you know?!

So let’s talk about how to do this.

Because the LAST thing I mean this post to be is just having a go at you for blowing hot air all over the internet, or trying to align yourself with something you’re not embodying.

The truth is?

I did this for years!

I ALWAYS resonated with words like the ones I used above, and you can add in a whole bunch more –

I wanted to be RAW, REAL, from the heart. I wanted to be fully AUTHENTIC. I wanted to be a LEADER. I wanted to start a fucking MOVEMENT. In fact all of the stuff that I embody pretty well now (although still ALWAYS and forEVER evoloving!) I dreamt of for YEARS first!

But was I doing it? Hell no, not really, and really if it’s not really then it’s kind of not at ALL, y’know.

You can’t be a kind of badass 🙂

But I was doing as best as I could, and the reality is I didn’t know what I didn’t know, and I was trapping myself with SO many rules most of which I didn’t even realise I was following along with!

It was all just a big old mess, and not one I regret at all, because ultimately my mess became my pathway which got me to HERE!

But along the way, at certain points, there were revelations or ‘aha moments’ or in some cases key people or ideas who helped me shift something big FAST and sometimes jump ahead by LEVELS instead of battling every little part of moving myself forward.

So when I write these posts every day, like I do, and I just tune in to what needs to be said, of course my first motivation is I NEED TO WRITE, but beyond that it’s with the hope that I can in some way help you jump a few levels, clear a HEAP of shit, and basically just move forward FASTER. Sure, you’re still going to have to learn your own lessons and you’ll still look back at the MESS you made! That’s unavoidable.

But maybe I can save you some of it, in some way.

So let’s talk about this.

Let’s say, you want to TRULY know you are being a kickass badass completely AUTHENTIC revolutionary fucking leader, creating an EPIC business and living an INCREDIBLE life, completely on your terms.

Or, you know, words to that effect 🙂

How would you do that?

Well the good news is we can actually make a plan for you to do that! Just think of it as your plan of badassery.

Step One: What Do You Actually MEAN?

Okay, so when you talk about ‘awesome’ or ‘kickass’ or ‘epic’ or ‘EXTRAORDINARY’ what does that actually mean TO YOU? When did you last FULLY define it? It doesn’t have to be scary, you know, to really own EXACTLY what you want! And by the way, it’s okay if you don’t yet fully KNOW what you want; the defining never ends! But you can sure as hell bet that if you don’t specify SOMETHING then you’ll pretty much end up with NOTHING, and stating how ‘badass’ you are will mean, well, fuck all!

Action: grab your journal and go hell for leather whatever comes to mind (no filter!) writing down what would truly ROCK for YOU, in your business as well as in your life.

Repeat it: Pretty much DAILY, in some form. Too hard? NO DREAM LIFE OF BADASSERY EPICNESS FOR YOU!

Step Two: Why Do You Give a Fuck?

Okay so I get the whole ‘wanna be a billionaire, so freaking bad’ thing, or whatever your COOL goals are, but why do you actually WANT it? Why do you give a damn, a fuck, a hoot? If you can’t define it you can BET you won’t create it, ’cause, well – it’s going to mean WORK you know! And you won’t do that if you don’t have a damn good reason to!

Action: For each dream goal, write out your WHY YOU GIVE A FUCK. Can’t come up with one? Delete the goal! Boom! See how I just saved you all that time and mental focus! YOU ARE WELCOME!

Step Three: Does it Matter More Than the Shit You Currently ARE Giving a Fuck About Instead?

It’s really simple: if you don’t have a particular goal already brought to life, then it just means you want whatever you’re currently focused on and therefore creating MORE! Of course doing the above steps can help. But in the end, you still have to decide: what do you want MORE, this or that? Sometimes you can have both! But there will still be SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP, always.

Action: Is getting to your version of #badassery worth whatever you have to sacrifice, struggle through, deal with in order to get there? Not sure? DELETE THE GOAL BITCH!

Step Four: Do You GOTS to Have it Now?

Look, if it’s not URGENT AND PRESSING AND YOU MUST MAKE IT HAPPEN NOW OR YOU WILL DIE BITCH DIE then odds are? You’re not going to make it happen.

Action: So let’s just be honest: Is it a must? It’s either a HELL YES or it’s AUTOMATICALLY a HELL NO so let go of it!

Step Five: How Would You Be Acting Today “If”

Okay, so you want the goal, you need the badassery, you have to have it and now if not sooner, and you’re willing to do ALL that it takes! So why don’t you have it? Let me make it easy:

Action: if you were ALREADY that badass bitch and you already LIVED that way and HAD IT ALL on your terms, then how would you NOW be acting? If you want to GET there you have to act FROM there, okay! Not TOWARDS there!

Step Six: Come Be a Badass With Me!

My latest #hustleofawesome is live and ready for you! Come join me and say yes to being a truly BADASS BUSINESS BABE, and having YOUR version of it all with your biz, your body and your LIFE! We’re going to get you truly BADASS on your terms, and loving it, and we’re going to get it happening STAT baby, ’cause once you know what you want? You better fucking own it.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x



As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my 12 month private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:


We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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