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HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF, AND THE PATH THAT YOU’RE CREATING?

The thing which matters above all things and which it’s really all about is plain and simply this:

How do you actually feel about yourself, and the path that you’re on?

If you think back over all of the time you’ve spent so diligently straining and striving to achieve and perhaps even the joy or YES you’ve felt when you have indeed achieved, the only thing which actually MATTERS is how you feel about it, and whether it feels RIGHT.

Sure, achieving is great, achieving is awesome, achieving shows you’re a fabulous go-gettin’ PERSON but here is what it does not do, can not do, will NEVER do, and the sooner you wrap your head around this and p’raps make some changes accordingly?

The better.

Achieving can not make things RIGHT.

Achieving can not make things PURPOSE driven.

All of the achieving in the WORLD really has very little to do with whether or not you’re actually creating the right LIFE.

Wanna know what does?

How you feel about it.

When all is said and done and you strip away all of the ra-ra and the glitz and the glamour or alternatively the struggles with self-worth and acceptance which cause you to chase certain things the truth is you KNOW in your heart of hearts what is right –

And what is not.

So when I say it’s how you FEEL that matters I don’t mean do you feel motivated or ready or excited, etc, to do the work. Often times pursuing FLOW and ALIGNMENT comes with struggle, and certainly it close to ALWAYS comes hand in hand with resistance and fear; at least at the start.

So no –

It’s not about whether you feel LIKE it, that’s not what I mean.

It’s about whether it feels right.

Whether YOU feel right.

When you look around –

(And you can do this right now, by the way, I suggest indeed you do!)

– at the life you’ve created, at your “accomplishments” big and small

– at the tasks you spend your time on, how your days go and flow, what it is you’re giving your energy, your emotion, your YOU, yes your LIFE for

– at the people who surround you, who you let into your life, who you allow yourself to give to and also receive from and be fed INTO from

– at the thoughts and beliefs you allow yourself to entertain

– at the ideas and ideals you have for yourself about what next, what matters, what you MUST pursue

– at the money

– the VIFP STUFF

– the ‘fame’

– and most of all at what it is you’re MOST allowing to define you and what you ultimately ARE already dying for

When you look around at all of this and any of this the ONLY thing which truly matters?

How do you feel about yourself?

And how do you feel about this path you’re ON?

IS IT RIGHT?

Because here is what I can tell you for SURE:

The money doesn’t actually matter, it’s not what you really want.

The fame doesn’t really matter, it’s not and never was the POINT.

The ‘achievement’ of having a partner or a house or status, that was never what would make you FULFILLED.

Heck, even the hot as fuck body doesn’t actually MATTER, not when you get to the core of it.

You can have any and all of these things and so much more, and far be it from me to tell you not to chase ’em. God knows I CHASE ’em and I unapologetically achieve ’em and will NEVER stop, but where I very nearly screwed up the ENTIRE FUCKING THING (aka my LIFE) was when I chased these things without PURPOSE.

Because here is what ELSE I can tell you for sure and what SO few people chasing SUCCESS actually get even a LITTLE bit, or can even bring themselves to BELIEVE, and so therefore will never HAVE:

It starts with purpose.

It starts within.

It starts with alignment.

It’s NOT ‘achieve all the stuff’ and then somehow mold your life so it also feels RIGHT and AMAZING and YES.

It’s the other way around baby.

It’s the other way around.

And I know –

That you’re scared and you’re not sure HOW and you worry that you’ll fall on your face and that people will point and LAUGH or simply not LIKE you, if you start showing up as who you really are, or if you start actively and consciously and daily walking away from what’s not right in order to go FIND and SEARCH, eternally if need be, for what IS.

And you know what?

You fucking WILL fall on your face and you WILL feel you’re failing and you WILL be TERRIFIED as you embark, perhaps for the first time fully, on the path of actually FINALLY pursuing your YES life.

NOBODY SAID IT WOULD BE EASY!!

Stop trying to avoid the pain, the struggle, the facing into the chasm which you MUST endure and indeed GROW from in order to get to FLOW and to living a life which is ENTIRELY purpose driven!

If it were that fucking simple everybody would live this way …

But actually it IS simple, truly. There’s nothing COMPLEX about facing into your truth and then making choices accordingly. And indeed if you want to know how to truly achieve wealth, success and yes EVEN glitz and glamour never mind the body the life the love the ALL of it in a way that actually feels AMAZING then just look WITHIN baby.

Just look WITHIN.

It’s where the answers are and have ALWAYS been.

And you will endure whatever you have to endure in order to get there and you will not only suck it the fuck up but you will also learn to like and LOVE the fact that you went through this.

PURPOSEFUL pain baby.

GROWTH through the push.

INNER STRENGTH built the only way it CAN be, which is by repeatedly –

Repeatedly –

For as many times as it TAKES –

Picking yourself the fuck back up.

And getting on with it.

And if this all overwhelms you or you wonder where to start or HOW then allow me to share with you a question which will make it the easiest thing in the WORLD to bring to life your EVERY dream:

“How do you feel about yourself right now, and the path you’re on?”

Another way to say it, and a question I ask myself EVERY day and will never stop asking in fact it is THE guiding question for EVERYTHING:

“What is the aligned thing to do right now?”

The thing with success, with having it all, with being a badass with a hot ass and having the entire world KNOW you for your message and who you are, the thing with ALL of the things you dream of is you already KNOW, you’ve ALWAYS known, you can’t NOT know –

Who you’re really meant to be.

What matters.

What success for YOU would actually look and feel like.

And what you need to run the fuck away from and stop giving your God damn LIFE for.

So today, just check in.

Just take a moment.

And answer honestly –

How do I feel about myself and the path I’m on?

Who am I REALLY meant to be?

What actually MATTERS, really?

What would TRUE success look and feel like?

And what do I need to run the fuck away from like WOAH?

What would be in alignment to act on and live for NOW?

And then?

Get to fucking work gorgeous.

You’ve got one life to live.

It’s THIS ONE RIGHT HERE.

You can talk about it and think about it and ready yourself for it all you like but in the end it’s VERY freakin’ simple –

You either gave your life for what matters and you CREATED the life you were born for.

Or you lived a life of excuses and bullshit.

Either way, just remember:

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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