Business Mindset

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF, AND THE PATH THAT YOU’RE CREATING?

The thing which matters above all things and which it’s really all about is plain and simply this:

How do you actually feel about yourself, and the path that you’re on?

If you think back over all of the time you’ve spent so diligently straining and striving to achieve and perhaps even the joy or YES you’ve felt when you have indeed achieved, the only thing which actually MATTERS is how you feel about it, and whether it feels RIGHT.

Sure, achieving is great, achieving is awesome, achieving shows you’re a fabulous go-gettin’ PERSON but here is what it does not do, can not do, will NEVER do, and the sooner you wrap your head around this and p’raps make some changes accordingly?

The better.

Achieving can not make things RIGHT.

Achieving can not make things PURPOSE driven.

All of the achieving in the WORLD really has very little to do with whether or not you’re actually creating the right LIFE.

Wanna know what does?

How you feel about it.

When all is said and done and you strip away all of the ra-ra and the glitz and the glamour or alternatively the struggles with self-worth and acceptance which cause you to chase certain things the truth is you KNOW in your heart of hearts what is right –

And what is not.

So when I say it’s how you FEEL that matters I don’t mean do you feel motivated or ready or excited, etc, to do the work. Often times pursuing FLOW and ALIGNMENT comes with struggle, and certainly it close to ALWAYS comes hand in hand with resistance and fear; at least at the start.

So no –

It’s not about whether you feel LIKE it, that’s not what I mean.

It’s about whether it feels right.

Whether YOU feel right.

When you look around –

(And you can do this right now, by the way, I suggest indeed you do!)

– at the life you’ve created, at your “accomplishments” big and small

– at the tasks you spend your time on, how your days go and flow, what it is you’re giving your energy, your emotion, your YOU, yes your LIFE for

– at the people who surround you, who you let into your life, who you allow yourself to give to and also receive from and be fed INTO from

– at the thoughts and beliefs you allow yourself to entertain

– at the ideas and ideals you have for yourself about what next, what matters, what you MUST pursue

– at the money

– the VIFP STUFF

– the ‘fame’

– and most of all at what it is you’re MOST allowing to define you and what you ultimately ARE already dying for

When you look around at all of this and any of this the ONLY thing which truly matters?

How do you feel about yourself?

And how do you feel about this path you’re ON?

IS IT RIGHT?

Because here is what I can tell you for SURE:

The money doesn’t actually matter, it’s not what you really want.

The fame doesn’t really matter, it’s not and never was the POINT.

The ‘achievement’ of having a partner or a house or status, that was never what would make you FULFILLED.

Heck, even the hot as fuck body doesn’t actually MATTER, not when you get to the core of it.

You can have any and all of these things and so much more, and far be it from me to tell you not to chase ’em. God knows I CHASE ’em and I unapologetically achieve ’em and will NEVER stop, but where I very nearly screwed up the ENTIRE FUCKING THING (aka my LIFE) was when I chased these things without PURPOSE.

Because here is what ELSE I can tell you for sure and what SO few people chasing SUCCESS actually get even a LITTLE bit, or can even bring themselves to BELIEVE, and so therefore will never HAVE:

It starts with purpose.

It starts within.

It starts with alignment.

It’s NOT ‘achieve all the stuff’ and then somehow mold your life so it also feels RIGHT and AMAZING and YES.

It’s the other way around baby.

It’s the other way around.

And I know –

That you’re scared and you’re not sure HOW and you worry that you’ll fall on your face and that people will point and LAUGH or simply not LIKE you, if you start showing up as who you really are, or if you start actively and consciously and daily walking away from what’s not right in order to go FIND and SEARCH, eternally if need be, for what IS.

And you know what?

You fucking WILL fall on your face and you WILL feel you’re failing and you WILL be TERRIFIED as you embark, perhaps for the first time fully, on the path of actually FINALLY pursuing your YES life.

NOBODY SAID IT WOULD BE EASY!!

Stop trying to avoid the pain, the struggle, the facing into the chasm which you MUST endure and indeed GROW from in order to get to FLOW and to living a life which is ENTIRELY purpose driven!

If it were that fucking simple everybody would live this way …

But actually it IS simple, truly. There’s nothing COMPLEX about facing into your truth and then making choices accordingly. And indeed if you want to know how to truly achieve wealth, success and yes EVEN glitz and glamour never mind the body the life the love the ALL of it in a way that actually feels AMAZING then just look WITHIN baby.

Just look WITHIN.

It’s where the answers are and have ALWAYS been.

And you will endure whatever you have to endure in order to get there and you will not only suck it the fuck up but you will also learn to like and LOVE the fact that you went through this.

PURPOSEFUL pain baby.

GROWTH through the push.

INNER STRENGTH built the only way it CAN be, which is by repeatedly –

Repeatedly –

For as many times as it TAKES –

Picking yourself the fuck back up.

And getting on with it.

And if this all overwhelms you or you wonder where to start or HOW then allow me to share with you a question which will make it the easiest thing in the WORLD to bring to life your EVERY dream:

“How do you feel about yourself right now, and the path you’re on?”

Another way to say it, and a question I ask myself EVERY day and will never stop asking in fact it is THE guiding question for EVERYTHING:

“What is the aligned thing to do right now?”

The thing with success, with having it all, with being a badass with a hot ass and having the entire world KNOW you for your message and who you are, the thing with ALL of the things you dream of is you already KNOW, you’ve ALWAYS known, you can’t NOT know –

Who you’re really meant to be.

What matters.

What success for YOU would actually look and feel like.

And what you need to run the fuck away from and stop giving your God damn LIFE for.

So today, just check in.

Just take a moment.

And answer honestly –

How do I feel about myself and the path I’m on?

Who am I REALLY meant to be?

What actually MATTERS, really?

What would TRUE success look and feel like?

And what do I need to run the fuck away from like WOAH?

What would be in alignment to act on and live for NOW?

And then?

Get to fucking work gorgeous.

You’ve got one life to live.

It’s THIS ONE RIGHT HERE.

You can talk about it and think about it and ready yourself for it all you like but in the end it’s VERY freakin’ simple –

You either gave your life for what matters and you CREATED the life you were born for.

Or you lived a life of excuses and bullshit.

Either way, just remember:

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