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Money Mindset, Success Mindset

Stop Living in Fear – THIS is How to Make the Money You Want.

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Be honest now – is the way you’re running your business (and therefore your life) exactly how it would be if you had no fear and KNEW you couldn’t fail? Or are you settling just a little … maybe a lot?

It’s impossible to fully avoid, isn’t it? Or at least it feels that way at times. I’m talking about you. Making choices for your business and life. Based on what you think you SHOULD do or NEED to do, rather than on what you’d really LOVE to do or (perhaps more tellingly) what you really freaking do NOT want to do.

I’m talking, quite simply, about fear.

About fear telling you that you should put together that not-quite-right program because hey! You need to do something NOW and hey! This is what people seem to want, so hey! You gotta make money, right?

About fear telling you that you can’t do THAT, not that WAY, because you’re not ready, not good enough, not BIG enough.

About fear telling you to take the client you don’t really want …

To do the hours you really resent …

To say no once more to the time spent with your kids or on your creative work …

To accept it when people try to negotiate with you on price …

To ‘give in’ on the times you’re available, the way you’re available …

To tell yourself that this is how it has to be for now … that you can’t say THAT … it would be too harsh! Or mean! Or you’d lose clients!

The crazy thing about all of this is that if you are a woman who believes in even the POSSIBILITY that you can create a business and a life on your terms, and who is in ANY way either practical or internal trying to DO that, then giving in to this fear-based thinking even a LITTLE is, quite simply, insane.

And it will destroy your chance of ever having that biz and life TRULY on your terms.

Don’t you see? You can’t claim you believe in your right to have a business and life on your terms and then simultaneously undermine that belief by SHOWING yourself (and the world) that you don’t REALLY believe it.

You can’t pick and choose! Either you FULLY believe you can have a business and life FULLY your way, and therefore you act ACCORDINGLY … or you don’t. Act accordingly. Which means you don’t. Believe it. At all.

And you can argue the point however you may please but you know that this? It’s the truth baby. And sometimes the truth hurts, but if it does? It is USUALLY for your own good.

So. Truth time, yeah?

DO you?

Do you believe that it is POSSIBLE for you to create a business and life COMPLETELY on your terms?

Is it POSSIBLE?

Yes? Good, okay then, next question –

Do you believe that it is not only possible but that it is your RIGHT to live a life completely on your terms; that you are ALLOWED to and that you DESERVE it?

Yes? Awesome! Last question –

Do you believe that it is not only possible, your right, something you are allowed and deserve but also that to NOT live your life completely on your terms would result in you NOT living the life you were born for, your purpose, your destiny, being the YOU who you were born to be both yourself and for others!

Well?

Heavy stuff, I know! And no fear – if you DON’T really believe that’s true, then all power to you. Go back to your life of one foot in one foot out, maybe I can maybe I can’t, I’ll pick and choose what I’m ‘allowed’ to do totally on my terms vs what I have to put up with because ‘that’s just how it is’.

Personally I’ll think you’re fucking stupid (and scared), but hey, that’s just me. You don’t have to like me for my opinions but it ain’t gonna stop me telling it how I see it. I guess you don’t have to listen either though, so either way? You’re safe.

In a you’re fucking up your CALLING sort of safe way.

But if you DO. If you DO believe.

That it is POSSIBLE for you to live life on your terms (fully and in ALL ways!)

That it is your RIGHT to live life on your terms (fully!)

That you are ALLOWED to live life on your terms (completely!)

That it is your DESTINY to live life on your terms …

And that to FAIL TO DO SO would mean you are NOT living the life you were born for and that you are therefore failing yourself AND others …

Then why the fuck aren’t you doing it?!

On the one hand, don’t feel bad – you’re not alone! We all do this thing where we undermine our biggest dreams on occasion, where we create rules about how things have to be, where we shut up and put up … I know I find myself doing it from time to time still despite how my dominant thought processes are about this stuff!

But on the other hand – maybe we SHOULD feel bad enough about it that we actually DO something about it! I mean c’mon – this is your LIFE. This is your ONE SHOT. You don’t GET a second chance, and you can’t take back the time that’s already passed by. So there’s no point worrying about that but there IS a point to THINKING about this. About now. About the daily choices you’re make, the you who you’re being, the message you’re sending out into the world about what you stand for, what you stand against, about who you are.

And who you are not.

So who are you?

What DO you stand for?

And are you standing for it?

Fear has NO place in the life of the TRULY successful, of those who are living completely on purpose and from a place of passion and flow.

Fear simply can’t co-exist with flow. With RIGHTNESS. With ALIGNMENT.

So which are you giving more power to? To alignment and doing what you KNOW is best for you and your business even though THAT might feel scary (good scary!)?

Or to fear which is telling you that no, you don’t get to DO that. You don’t get to SAY that. You don’t get to BE that. You don’t get to have it.

Not now. And maybe not ever.

And here’s the thing. The fear? It’s right. It is WINNING. If you are OBEYING it then it is right, and you WON’T get ‘there’, not now and not EVER.

Because life is now. And the choices you are making EXIST only in the now.

And one day never comes.

So look around beautiful! Look ALL around, because this, this life you’re living in, this is the life that YOU created.

And everything that pisses you off, makes you resentful or frustrated because it does not FEEL awesome – YOU CREATED IT.

And everything you don’t yet have that you swear you want, yes really, yes truthfully, yes you’re going to ‘make it happen’, well you DIDN’T MAKE IT HAPPEN. Did you?

So you probably NEVER will. Your now is your future. Your now is your future. You are creating your DESTINY with this now.

But is it the one you were born for, called for, KNOW you are SUPPOSED TO HAVE?

Just because you’re supposed to live a certain life doesn’t mean you will baby. You have to stand up and TAKE it.

So stand up.

Turn your BACK on fear.

[pq] For once in your goddamn PRECIOUS life decide to play ALL out, like you MEAN it! [/pq]

And tell fear to fuck the hell off.

Your life baby. And it’s happening now.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/