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Desire


I’ve started working through Danielle LaPorte’s program “The Desire Map”. I’ve heard of this program many times around the traps but hadn’t really looked into it, despite the fact that I follow (and love) Danielle’s blog.

 

And then, for some reason, as I trawled around the internet on Saturday not being inspired by my usual hangouts, I was just compelled to go and properly check it out.

 

Further compelled to buy it, instantly. Without even reading what it was all about. I’m a big believer in following your intuition and something inside of me was telling me it’s time to be okay with the concept of desire.

 

So, I got the program. Joined the group. Checked out the online portal. Downloaded the first 2 books and put some of the snazzy thinking music that Danielle provides on to play.

 

I’m only about halfway through, but it feels like something that needs talking about, this concept of desire.

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And it feels like it’s important to use that word. It’s juicy. It sounds a bit indulgent, maybe even naughty. It sounds like it might mean being selfish.

 

And whilst I’ve always been big on figuring out your feelings and innermost wants before you figure out your goals, I’ve also always resisted the idea of designing my life and my business around pleasure.

 

Consider your own goals, your own plans and dreams for this year.

 

Are they wanton, based wholly on what you truly and deeply crave (even if you think it’s selfish or a big wrong)?

 

Or are they more earnest? Exciting to aspire to but based mainly around what you think you have to do to create the life you want?

 

Even when you understand and know absolutely that you do create your own reality, it’s so easy to think you need to take the tricky road to get there. Surely, you say to yourself, getting to me dream can’t be easy? Surely it can’t be completely aligned all of the time? Surely I don’t just get to feel good while I’m on my way. After all –

 

You gotta do the hard yards, right?

 

Right?

 

Well.

 

If you acknowledge the concept of creating your own reality, you must also acknowledge that the way you go about that creating is very much up to you.

 

But, but, but, you say –

 

But taking the so-called easy path might be a trap!

 

But it just can’t be that simple.

 

But I have responsibilities, I can’t just do as I please.

 

But isn’t it a little bit –

 

Wrong?

 

No. No. No.

 

Your life, is a choice.

You may choose hardship, and struggle – and perhaps there’s a certain enjoyment or satisfaction there, but how long do you want to trade living your dream life for continuing to fight the good fight? Aren’t you getting a little tired?

 

Or, you may choose pleasure. Alignment. You may choose to live fulfilled.

 

To give in to your deepest desires.

 

Say it with me –

 

I have permission to give in to my deepest desires.

 

It feels a bit cheeky, doesn’t it? But also exciting, yes?

 

Here is what I desire.

 

I desire to feel free. I desire to feel open, expanded. I desire to feel energised and light on my feet. I desire to feel light-hearted, joyful. I desire to feel empowered. Aligned. In flow. Certain. I want to feel that I am doing the right thing.

 

What is the right thing for me to do be doing?

 

Inspiring.

Influencing.

Motivating.

Pushing myself and others, pushing to see and accept and then live that dream life.

 

How?

 

Writing.

Being honest, true, authentic in my communication. (Like this).

Talking, speaking, filming, presenting.

Following emotion – mine and perhaps the energy of others – and saying what needs to be said.

 

When it comes to money, business, what do I desire to feel?

 

Safe. Certain. Excited. Confident. Honest, true, right. Like it’s a fun game that I know I can win. Like I’m doing the right thing. Happy. Free. Joyful. Allowed.

 

How can I make this my reality?

 

Create only those programs and books which come from my heart.

Avoid ever doing anything because I think it will make good money.

Believe that when I follow my deepest desires in my business and creation, that is when my best work appears.

Give generously of my thoughts and inspiration.

Let my light shine.

Consider my spending and investment choices – is it in alignment or does it feel a little off.

Accept money as something that I have permission to have, use, share and enjoy. In abundance. 

Know that there is enough for everyone and it’s okay for me to claim my share.

 

As I was continuing to read Book 1 of The Desire Map program this morning, a particular sentence that Danielle wrote struck me –

 

“If you want to feel free this year, do something to feel free today”

 

Desire, the concept, is so simple. It’s following your heart, listing to your gut, believing that it’s okay to be you, in your own beautiful way. It’s accepting that success and pleasure can go hand-in-hand. It’s mapping your life out your own way, perhaps using a tool like Danielle’s The Desire Map if you don’t know where to start.

 

But most of all, it’s being willing to step off that ledge. Away from the people who are clinging so tightly to the need to live life ‘the right way’.

 

Me, I’d rather live a life of pleasure and joy and alignment to my true self than a life of should and eventual regret.

 

That is what I most desire.

 

You?

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Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/