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Success Mindset

EASING INTO FLOW

One of the greatest misconceptions about ‘going hard’, going all IN, doing the REAL work to achieve the standard of YES-ness which you know you get to have in business, fitness, life, is the idea that the harder you actually go AT it – or, let’s say, the faster – the more you’ll create killer results.

This kind of mindset believes that ‘so long as I do the most intense or obviously outcome-generating bit of the work, I’m good.

This?

Is incorrect.

Example: you decide you want to produce a consistent daily piece of valuable messaging for your peeps. Could be a blog, a livestream, a story, a rant, whatever. All of it rolled into one, perhaps!

So, you figure that if you allow 30-40 minutes for this, you’re could, you can just ‘go at it’ like a bat out of hell and you ticked that shit OFF, then you can get back to the hustle and bustle of your day.

‘Nother example: you want to ‘smash out’ a great workout every day, and you figure you can squeeze that in in between this, and that, and the other thing, and that 30 minutes of HARDCORE intense training will get the job DONE.

So you rush in, throw some heavy shit around or jump around or hop around or bounce up and down, sweat sweat sweat, heart rate up up up, go, go, go, DONE!

On with your busy day.

Day in and day out you rush from this, to that, to the other thing, you’re like a speed demon getting SO MUCH DONE!

But yet somehow –
Infuriatingly!
And you just can’t really figure it out!

Day after day after week after week after month after month passes, and you really don’t seem to be ROCKING biz | body | life the way you’re meant to, or really feel you should be, after so much effort!

Can I tell you something?

I used to feel the same way. I have OFTEN felt that way. I am a GENIUS at doing a million things any given day, and I always have been.

There’s been times where it’s absolutely CRUSHED for me (which I’ll explain the ‘how’ of in a moment).

And there’s been times where it just, well, starts to feel as though I’m never actually fully IN something.

I’m just whirling and whirring and twirling and swinging from one activity to the next, always doing something, but never really getting anything DONE, certainly not to the point where I actually feel like I have the damn RESULTS I want, y’know?

I decided a while back, to stop living that way, and to MAKE SPACE FOR EASING INTO FLOW.

Now, before you get all excited about the idea of me talking out against the hustle (never!), or alternatively you start feeling worried because you don’t have TIME for easing into SHIT, let me explain something to you:

I am absolutely still, and always will be, one of the fastest moving peeps out there.

I create content and LIFE at the speed of light.

I DO whirr and whirl and twirl and practically just time-hop, from one activity to the next.

Sometimes when I wake up I’m not sure if it’s even a new day, my mind is INSTANTLY switched on, ding! And I just pick up where I left off. Sometimes I feel like I’m running so fast through my life I can barely breathe! ACTUALLY, that is one of my favourite states to be in – when it comes from flow, when it’s CONNECTED, when I am present.

What I do NOT care for, is that feeling of FRENZIED and DISCONNECTED energy, the rush rush rushing that comes more from a place of not being good enough, never feeling you’ve done enough, living in constant fear of having to DO more in order to somehow BE enough.

There’s a very big difference between doin’ all the DO because you’re THRIVING on it and it’s SUPER-CHARGING you, and doing all the do ’cause you feel like you HAVE to or else, or else, or else – who knows? Bad things will ensue!

Not super good for the nervous system, your sleep, your stress, your digestion, either!

So let’s talk about EASING INTO FLOW, why it matters SO much, and also how how HOW to have that be part of your life without needing endless amounts of time that you just don’t HAVE, and without ending up as one of those slow and BORING as FUCK peeps. As if you could be anyway 

Firstly.

When you try and ‘jump straight in’ to the ‘get shit done’ bit, without having WHAT YOU NEED IN PLACE FIRST, it’s virtually impossible to connect. There’s an energy to YOU that says ‘I have to hurry, I have to rush, or else!’.

Hormonally, there’s a slew of reactions which follow on from this, basically putting you into some kind of anxiety or panic state which STOPS you from accessing soul.

I know you feel this 

So, on the surface of it it may appear that you’re getting a lot done, but REALLY what’s happening is you’re just busy being busy, and never really coming from that deep place where the magic flows out of.

Your nervous system is in flight or fight, basically SCREAMING at you that you need to get moving to the next thing already or else you will DIE.

What do you need to have in place first then?

Freakin’ CONNECTION, baby!

You know those times when you have ALL the time in the world – 
And you have NOWHERE to rush to or get to – 
And you’re ALSO not putting silly pressure on yourself to go INSTANTLY from 0 to 100, but instead you’re allowing yourself to slowly but surely drop into it, connect to it, connect to the pulse of what you’re DOING, the rhythm of the movement or art, the beat of the day – 
And all of a sudden – 
Kind of from nowhere – !
You just drop – 
Slip –
Into flow
Superflow
NEXT level energy and soul guidance ON

You’re flying, you’re floating, you can’t stop moving, you’re on FIRE, and it’s SO.DAMN.GOOD!

THOSE times, I don’t have to tell you, do NOT FUCKING COME ABOUT FROM TRYING TO JAM EVERYTHING IN SO YOU CAN JUST GET TO THE NEXT THING!

THOSE times, I also want to remind you, are the times when the REAL life-changing magic occurs.

The content which CHANGES things comes out of you
The message which leaves people BREATHLESS pours forth
The workout which drops you back into YOU, FULLY, just flies and floats and IS, and you can’t even BELIEVE how good it is!
It’s like a slow slow build up to ABSOLUTE PERFECT FUCKING, rather than a quick fix against the wall.

Mind you –
Both certainly have their place! In all areas, this is true!

But if all you’re EVER getting or making time for, in your love life, in your business, with your fitness, and by GOD, with your ART, is that quick fix / let me get it DONE nonsense –

Then it’s no surprise at all that you’re firstly not ever getting the RESULTS you want and crave, but secondly you just never seem to really FEEL, well –

Happy.
Connected.
In flow.
CERTAIN.
And most of all –
YOU.

Let’s get real here –

You may well be the busiest person in the WORLD, and you want to have it all, at once, now, fit it all IN, too, and still have time for kids and play and sleep even! The nerve!

But nonetheless –

If you want a life of FLOW, and the results that come with this –

You ARE going to have to make space to ease INTO that shit, okay? Okay.

Do you want to know how I do it, and how it just works?

It’s very simple –

1) Get out of the FEAR MINDSET of living that says you’ve never done enough. Start to PRACTICE believing that you’ve already done enough and ARE enough and also HAVE enough now. I know this is hard to do, especially when you want to shriek at me that it’s not true! But, you still have the choice to practice it. Yes? Yes.

2) Start to pay attention to the times when the magic happens for you. For me, this often REQUIRES me to turn away from everything and every person, to not even LOOK at (for example) messages, notifications, emails, my own task list, and instead to ALLOW THE TIME AND SPACE to do first things first.

The things which ‘move the needle’ most for me, and which I KNOW that, if I just do them day in and day out, will result in motherfucking RESULTS. For me these things are – my inner work / journaling, my messaging (blogging as top priority, but also livestreaming), sales activity (tack a PS on the end of my blog; email all that shit OUT!), and my fitness / gym or yoga.

I am DISCIPLINED at ignoring EVERYTHING until these things are done, but even more than that – I have learned to allow the space for the art to come up, or to ease in and warm up into the workout ’til the ‘click’ happens and the beast comes out! So to speak 

This is a PRACTICE, to, rather than telling yourself you have to rush, go straight into it, get to the end goal, to let what needs to happen, happen! For example – my blog posts are POWER PUNCHES when I journal FIRST, and wait for the message to be shown to me, as opposed to just try and push some writing out to ‘get it done’, or just for the sake of content.

What works for you? What do you KNOW you need to be making time and space for? Pay attention, and IMPLEMENT!

3) Flow flow flow! Here’s where I manage to get SO MUCH FUCKING DONE, every day, 365 a year, across all areas of my life, and still have INSANE amounts of time left over!

I STACK my habits based on what works, and I allow the flow to build up through this. For example, journaling leads into blogging, which opens up the trance-like other-worldly power state I like to be in for working out, and so I do these things in this order.

Listening to client Voxers often sparks ideas for a livestream, and so I do it in THAT order.

Getting my CONTENT out, and creating creating creating heavily in the morning (as well as working out), leads me to being mid-afternoon or so in a place where the LAST thing I want to do is be online, which is perfect, as that’s when I’m usually picking the kids up from school and such, and so it is exactly what I feel like doing to goof off with them, or do arts and crafts or whatever.

In the evenings, doing a live training in a group at 9pm after the kids go to bed is often the last thing I feel like doing, but yet I kick my ass on that (ass whuppin’ is definitely a required inclusion for maximum life flow!), and then after the training I FEEL like staying online and being in the vibe of getting all my niggly tasks and admin and emails which I ignored all day done.

Do you see?

YES, you do need to make space, you do need to be PATIENT, you do need to consciously DROP the fear mindset in order to take the time for art, flow, RESULT BASED ACTION to come out.

But, you can also give magic a helping hand. And why wouldn’t you? You got one life going’ on and it’s this one right here!

Flat out, if you don’t have it all?

It’s on you, it’s a CHOICE, and it’s really quite ridiculous.

I guess what I’m trying to say is simple:

Your excuses are no longer valid.

It’s time to admit where you need to change, and uplevel the fucking work. Not necessarily by doing more work! But by being willing, and disciplined, to give the work what it needs to work FOR you, the way it’s meant to be.

Do this, and you will realise just how EASY it is to be in superflow, and feel like the whole universe is conspiring FOR you.

Fail to? And you may well continue to ‘make things happen’, but it will continue to be slow-going, and #struggleasfuck.

The great news?

It’s up to you, always.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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