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I DON’T BELIEVE IN RELATIONSHIP CONTRACTS. I NO LONGER SIGN THEM, AND I HAVE NO DESIRE FOR YOU TO EITHER

A few weeks ago, I celebrated the first ever renewal in my 12-month 1:1 Inner Circle Mastermind. Badass Katie Henry, who was the first ever person to join, on the day I opened the doors, said “hell yes, of course I want to continue on”, and moved into her first payment of second year playing biz + life with me at that level.

It was exciting for me for so many reasons – first and foremost, I love my client Katie, we have (of course!) become soul sisters and friends through this work together as well, and I’m THRILLED she is staying in the space I created for women and men like us. Not that it would have remotely impacted the CONNECTION we have on a soul level, had she chosen not to; to be clear!

The other reason I was excited, is it confirmed and validated for me what I wanted my private client mastermind to be about; namely, a place where people don’t want to leave!

Just this morning one of my badass clients commented into the group about “feeling super honored and excited to be part of anything going down in this group”.

THIS is what I wanted, and what lights me up. The soul sister connections formed … the fun and the shenanigans … the hilarious badassery which goes on on the repeat either in person or online … and, of course, the killer money and biz / life results too!

Here’s the thing though. Even though Katie ‘renewed’ her Inner Circle membership, actually, if it had have been aligned for her to move on sooner, that would have been fine. Perfect. And done.

I don’t believe in relationship contracts. I will never again sign a contract to work with somebody in a mentoring / healing capacity, and I will never ever ask clients to sign one with me.

I don’t have contracts.

Not even a single page.

I don’t desire to.

It feels ICK to me.

Kind of like asking somebody to sign to say they will always love you. Um … how about if you love me and it’s aligned for us to continue playing life together in some way then we do, and if not, we don’t?!

What DOES feel good to me is energetic and soul commitments to the now, and what I mean by that is simple –

Something aligns now. It is RIGHT now. It is HELL yes now. It is flow and ease and perfection now. Perhaps we both have an expectation or intention, that it will continue going. We discuss that and are excited about and so it is some sort of energetic commitment in that sense, based on a soul connection.

And then?

Well then we simply keep flowing.

We flow more together, and we’re both receiving epic value, OF COURSE WE WOULD KEEP GOING; DUH.

And if not?

Then not.

And either way is perfect, and as it is meant to be. Alignment to the NOW.

I’m so grateful I get to support such high-level driven badasses and creators, and I am so grateful to ME for being bold enough to call that shit in even when I wondered how I could be good enough to lead or show up that way …

To me it feels abundant as fuck to know that those relationships are there because we choose each other every day, and that it comes from a place of truth, desire, maybe confrontation at times for SURE as we go deeper, but ultimately, flow.

This is how I always wanted it to be … and how it gets to be.

What feels amazing and aligned when it comes to mentoring and agreements with my clients is to treat it the same way that I would ANY relationship in my life.

When I first designed my Inner Circle I thought about what would feel completely freeing, exciting, fun and empowering for me to do, and also, as a client what would I love and desire –

And to me, what feels perfect is to imagine it the same way as I would any friendship, or any personal relationship.

For example, I wouldn’t cap how often I would see somebody in my life, I wouldn’t say …

‘sorry, I can’t have lunch with you because we already had coffee last Tuesday and you’re not scheduled in again yet’

This is why I just went with unlimited access to me for my mentoring and my private clients, it just made sense, and I only attract and call in clients who are just like me and would never take advantage of that.  It’s always just perfect and in flow.

It’s just like my personal relationships in my life. In fact, my client relationships really don’t feel that wildly different from my personal relationships. It’s very hard to tell what’s purely personal and what’s purely business. The truth is it does just all mix together.

It’s for this reason as well, it seems really odd to me to put my clients into a contract – it doesn’t feel like it would be right for me or for them and feels unnecessary.

In and outside of business life we would never have some kind of agreement with a friend that we have to see each other for however long or that we have to stay friends for a certain period of time.

I really just wanted it to feel open and free as that feels abundant and that’s exactly how it’s meant to be.

I’d be curious to hear your thoughts on this.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

🔥🔥 FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE is here! Eeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk and a HALF! I have not been this, well, FIRED UP & READY TO EXPLODE in a LONG while.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/firedup

30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/firedup

PPS.

The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.

And!

I’ve included a Join Today Bonus!

Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉

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