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Live Your Passion

IF I WERE A RICH GIRL

When I was a little girl, and well into my teens, I was obsessed with the song from Fiddler On the Roof. I grew up with only limited access to television and movies (we didn’t own a TV for at least half of my childhood / teen years), and so much of what I DID watch was my Mum’s favourite old movies.

Never mind the story of the Fiddler (it’s good though!), what I was obsessed with, as mentioned, was the song. It was one of those tunes that just got in my HEAD, and I can remember humming and singing it over and over again, for YEARS! In case you’re not up on your old movies, here is what it said:

“If I were a rich man,

Yubby dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dum.

All day long I’d biddy biddy bum.

If I were a wealthy man.

I wouldn’t have to work hard.

Yubby dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dibby dum.

If I were a biddy biddy rich,

Yidle-deedle-deidle-deidle man.”

Anyway. lol! I was just reading all the lyrics of it online and he talks about filling his yard with chicks and turkeys and an extra staircase just for show, so I guess I can’t relate to ALL of it, but obviously something about this song stuck with me.

And I used to dream –

About being rich.

About having it all.

About all day long I’d la di da di dah, if I were a rich girl.

Do you remember dreaming, when you were little, when you were in your teens, when you were maybe even in your early twenties, and you hadn’t yet realised that life is NOW and you were already responsible for your outcomes?

When I was young, and singing this song over and over, honestly without even really thinking about it – I just thought it was catchy, I don’t know how much of my resonance with the song was related to actually consciously knowing I WAS going to be a rich girl – I think I had the idea that all of that was for the future.

I mean, c’mon! When you’re a child, a teen, even in your early twenties obviously getting to RICH, successful, having it all, is something you don’t have to worry about yet! Right?! You know that there is plenty of time for all of that, and so you can enjoy the process of dreaming, waiting, wondering, imagining how fabulous it will be.

There’s no pressure to ACT because obviously – duh – this is just future stuff, and the future can take care of itself? Right? Right?!

I’m sure I’m not alone in remembering years spent with a vague imagining that one day I’d live this incredible life. For me it was always just a given, I saw the future and it seemed clear that it was going to be GOOD. It seemed clear, quite honestly, that whatever I wanted was possible and so it would just happen.

I don’t remember every worrying about how …

I don’t remember daydreaming about what I was going to DO to make all this money …

I mean, I definitely remember dreaming and scheming to be a badass hustler, a leader, an author, a speaker, an entrepreneur, somebody who is KNOWN and SUCCESSFUL. But if I’m honest I considered those separate dreams from the dream of being RICH.

It wasn’t like I thought ‘if I do this then I get to have that’. Both things were in my mind’s eye separate concerns which would take care of themselves!

And do you know what? Even today I consider the creation of wealth and success to be a separate concern from that of what I DO. I do what I do because it’s what I’m called to do, I have a message to share, I was born to lead and perform and nothing will stop me, not now and not ever!

AND I am a rich girl who gets to have it all, on her terms, because I finally CHOSE to be, NOT because of what I DO.

What you have –

Is only EVER –

A reflection of what you choose and who you ARE.

But when I think back to all the years spent dreaming of being a rich girl the truth is I DID spend all of those years seeing it as a vague and mystical thing that ‘the future would have to take care of’.

I never asked myself HOW, and I think that’s a good thing as there IS no how, there’s only locking in your outcome and then BEING who you need to be in order for it to happen.

But I also never actually just decided.

I kept it at arm’s length.

I ASSUMED it was for the future.

I dreamed about it as being something for one day, for away, when, I don’t know? My life was sorted? I was a real grown up? I deserved it?

Actually I don’t think it was any of those things, I think it was plain and simple that I just assumed it wasn’t for now and so therefore it didn’t HAPPEN.

I look back now and I smile at all the years I consciously or not paved the way for who I am today. All the years I focused on and ASSUMED that wealth, success, impact would be part of my story. Those are years WELL spent, as the more you assume something will happen the more it will!

But they are also years where I could have, at any time, decided to stop waiting. Decided to just have it NOW. Decided to step into BEING instead of assuming I would ONE day.

This morning I was journaling on this topic in a different way. Asking myself, as I so often do, what I would be thinking and journaling and doing if I were already there.

If I were a rich girl …

La di da di da di da di da di da …

I’d travel all around … if I were a wealthy girl!

I wouldn’t have to work hard …

La di da di da di da di da di da …

I’d da di all the day … if I were a wealthy girl!

Do you want to know a secret? Pretty much all I do every day is try to act as who I would be if I were a rich girl. Rich is a bit of a flippant way of summing it up, as when I think about rich I’m thinking EVERYTHING to do with life on my terms. Money rich, YES, but also spiritually rich, emotionally, mentally, rich IMPACT, the works.

Can I ask you a question?

What would YOU be doing right now if you were a rich girl, in all senses of what YOU think about when you think about being truly rich?

I know for me, if I were a rich girl –

(La di da di da di da di da di da …!)

I’d travel all around …

I’d stay in amazing places …

I’d actively cultivate insanely high vibe environments in ALL my relationships both personal and professional …

I WOULDN’T have to work hard … because even though I hustle my ass off and never stop and yes I talk all the time about doing the fucking work and GRINDING the truth is all I’m doing is the work I can’t NOT do, the work I was born for, the work that FLOWS …

I’d la di da di da ….

If I were a wealthy girl!

I’d create from flow …

I’d step daily INTO being who I see in my dreams …

I’d actively embody the mindset, the beliefs, the habits, the everything of being …

(La di da di da di da di da di da …)

… a rich girl!

And here is what I’m trying to say, and what I eventually realised for myself and turned my singing and dreaming into my life:

If you want to achieve it.

You DO have to dream it.

You do NOT have to ask HOW.

You JUST have to live it.

You have to ask yourself –

Daily –

If I were a rich girl –

What would I be doing –

How would I be thinking –

Who would I be spending my time and energy –

If I were a wealthy girl!

How would I work?

What would I say?

What would today, this moment, right now, look like?

And then?

Well then baby you stop dreaming and you just shrug your shoulders and you stop CARING about how or what people will think or say or whether you’re allowed and you simply:

Be it.

And if you think that’s hard

Or you don’t know how –

Or you’re still confused –

I get it. I DID that. But here is what you need to understand:

You don’t NEED to know how. You DO need to keep adjusting though. Every day, pushing those boundaries. Reaching further. Stepping as best as you CAN into being that person. Release the how. Lock in the outcome. Act from FAITH. KEEP ON PUSHING FROM THE INSIDE OUT.

All I do –

Every day –

Is wonder what it would be like to have everything I dream of –

And then act like I fucking do.

THE WORLD WILL MOVE AROUND YOU.

WHEN YOU MOVE FEARLESSLY FORWARD.

AND YOU STOP QUESTIONING WHETHER IT WILL WORK.

Stop dreaming without being.

Stop waiting and assuming not yet.

And join me –

Today!

La di da di da di da di da di da …!

In being a wealthy girl.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/