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Business Mindset

It’s When You Can’t Not

It’s when you can’t not that you will find yourself, know yourself, ultimately be yourself, and then have revealed TO yourself all of the ways in which life truly does want to dance with you and serve you.

All of these things you’re doing which are halfway there, mostly there, even almost completely there?

They don’t matter.
They never did.
Except in the sense that of course it fucking matters that you’re giving your life for the wrong things, creating a life from the wrong ingredients which can only have one outcome:

You wake up one day and realise you made the wrong fucking life.

Near enough is not good enough.
This will do for now is unacceptable.
“I don’t know how or I’m not sure” is not a valid excuse!

Your JOB here on this planet is to search for what you can’t NOT give your life for. I believe you already know what this thing is. It could be time to admit it, yes? And from the moment you find that which you can’t NOT, your new job is then to live INTO it.

Does this mean –
Walk away –
From everything –
You’ve constructed?

Maybe not.

But it does mean make fucking space. Lean towards that thing you’re called to do. Honour the fact that if you can’t NOT then you’d damn well better!

And really –

If you can’t not but yet you ARE not, then is it any wonder you feel like SHIT most of the time?

You are quite literally, killing yourself slowly –

And softly –

From within.

How this expresses itself? This silent scream of your soul?

You act out. You sabotage. You binge, on something. You escape. You’re so damn frustrated. You feel scared. You start to hate yourself. Desire not fulfilled turns into self-belief lost which turns into hatred and scorn, for yourself. You probably pour it onto others though. You become obsessive about things which really don’t matter. Anal, even. You try DESPERATELY to create an identity that proves you as being worthy, enough, cool, enough.

You know none of it fucking matters NOT ONE LITTLE BIT, not even if you do manage to cobble together some sort of so-called success as a result of all your misguided efforts.

And most of all and perhaps worst of all?

You are sad.

You are deeply –

Deeply –


Because you know that you were born for more.
You’ve ALWAYS known.
Your heart your souls your cells your very DNA has beaten and breathed and bled with this knowledge SINCE TIME BEGAN.

You know –

Deep down –

Where you very rarely dare to look –

That if you just fucking HONOURED that calling and lived into it, even a little, but yes daily, and let it grow?

You could be and do and have and create EVERYTHING you dream of.

And yet you choose not to.

And you damn well KNOW it’s a choice.

And you have to live with that every –

Single –


And I want you to know, that while I feel for you I really do, because I remember being there and that’s why I can write about it, I want you to also know you’re BEING FUCKING IRRESPONSIBLE.

Do you KNOW how many people have no.freaking.clue what they were born for? Do you REALISE how fortunate you are to even have that FEELING inside of you, never mind the leaning, the knowledge, the MUST of what you’re meant to do?!

Yes yes it’s a blessing and a curse, we all know that. The life of an artist, a creator, one who is called is one that is relentless and will NEVER END. You’ll never be done. You’ll never have done enough. You will never be content, not fully.

We are the ones who are called and we are born to wander, restlessly, for ever.


And that is a GIFT.

And when you squander that gift?

And you start to have to live with all of the inner and outer turmoil we just spoke about?

Well you DESERVE the fucking pain, and I hope you take it as the wake up call it’s meant to be. The REALITY, in case you’re not aware, is that those who are called and don’t live into it end up living a life of heartache and loss. They often find themselves with serious health complications. And mentally?

Not so great.

Just look around –
At how so many entrepreneurs. Artist. Leaders. Visionaries.

End up.


Because they did not allow their SELF.
To live.

You are risking your LIFE here, by not giving in. You think you’re doing what you have to do, for now, that you can’t leap until you know more about what lies ahead and HOW?



You are playing the most DANGEROUS game of all –

To give your life –

For ANYTHING less –

Than that which you can’t NOT –

When you know what your can’t not IS!

And even if you don’t, but yet you have that calling, that feeling, that desire, then don’t you see? The can’t not is to look until you find!

For how long?

Why, it’s obvious isn’t it? And easy, truly.

All you have to do –
Until you find your can’t not –
And then once you know it –
Is give it everything –
And all of you –
For the rest of your life.

If you’re not willing to die for your dream it was never your dream anyway, but also –

You’re already dying for whatever you are giving your life for.

And if right now you’re dying for ANYTHING less than what you can’t not?

You’re already dead.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


🔥🔥 FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE is here! Eeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk and a HALF! I have not been this, well, FIRED UP & READY TO EXPLODE in a LONG while.

You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?


this is that.


I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?


And that’s what we’re gonna do here:


– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.


The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.


I’ve included a Join Today Bonus!

Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉