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RELAX INTO YOUR NEXT LEVEL OF RECEIVING

I met somebody who has such a deep level of appreciation and honouring of and wanting to give to me for just being me that I noticed it actually unsettling me a little bit.

I dug into that this morning, and noticed some pretty hefty parallels between this and (of course!) various business lessons and learnings, most of which I already know since long ago, indeed it’s how I BUILT this thing –

And all of which I still of course get to learn again, and deeper, prompting me to ask myself in my journal just now and to now ask you –

Have you made a soul contract with blood and sweat and tears?

Do you feel like you can’t trust something if you didn’t get there through grind, and only-push hustle, and paying a price, and PROVING your worth through expending your energy, your soul, and bits of your life?

Does it seem as though you can’t possibly trust in RECEIVING if it didn’t come through massive exertion and action, and ‘earning’ it in the sense of your physical doings?

Do you think that maybe all of this is just a teeny bit of bullshit, when you really stop, and pause, step away from your fear mindset and ask ‘but what does my SOUL really believe here?’.

I met somebody – literally just met, so don’t go expecting a story from me on this haha, just stay calm – who has such a deep level of appreciation and honouring of and wanting to give to me for just being me that I noticed it actually unsettling me a little bit.

The level of what I am RECEIVING without having DONE anything (except for be me) feels … well, fucking amazing, frankly, but also –

A bit scary.
A bit curious.
A bit DISRUPTIVE.

And I found myself questioning this person last night, just slightly. I went out of my feminine and into some kind of semi high-court lawyer status as I demanded (lol okay I didn’t demand; I asked) to know what this was all really about and WHY.

Why should I be receiving SO much when I’ve done nothing?

What’s that about?

What does it mean?!

It only took me a minute or so though, to consciously see what I was doing, and put the stop sign up in my mind as I said to myself –

“It is safe to trust in this”.

It is safe to receive.
It is safe to be taken care of.
It is safe to open myself up and ONLY be.

I exhaled, dropped back into my feminine, and let go.

This morning when I woke up though, I got curious about why this was coming up in me.

Okay, I know why it’s coming up! I made soul contracts with romance in the past that said it HURTS me, it COSTS me, it in fact ATTACKS me and tears off pieces of me.

The idea of relaxing –
Letting go –
Being HELD –

Is the thing I have wanted most but also the thing I have most felt wary of.

And my fear mind asks –

“If I didn’t do anything to earn it, how can it be real?”

“How can I trust it if it didn’t come through blood and sweat and tears … maybe especially, based on previous experience, the tears?!”

Interesting and obvious side note:

Do you really WANT something which came through tears? Is that what success in business or life is supposed to be built on? Hmmm? Hmmm!

Anyway –

I answered my fear mind (which of course is not my SELF, although I acknowledge I may have allowed myself to imagine it to be) thus –

“But Kat. What if you were worthy just for BEING?

What if there was literally nothing else you had to do?

What if in fact the more you that you ONLY be, the more you open up receiving because actually anything you add to it stops you being?!”

Hmmm?
Hmmm!

What’s hilarious here, so funny, so duh, of COURSE, is that THIS IS PRECISELY WHAT I TELL YOU IN BUSINESS.

The more you just be and ONLY be –

The more it all works.

I make millions of dollars per year based on my BEING!

Anytime I slip into DOING, cashflow goes down and gets harder!

100% of my clients who have gone beyond 50k months, 100k even 200k months will attest that that came from letting go and doing LESS. It came from BEING.

And yet still I forget that at times, I fall back into the old ways, or perhaps I go into doubt at ‘how can this really be real, how can I trust it, fuck, I better go GET MY BUSY ON!’

And I asked myself, thinking about romance and about next NEXT level business at the same time –

What would happen if I allowed myself to just be?

Well –

I would relax.
I would let go.
I would stop holding on so tightly.

WILL that allow more magic to just flow?

Well, what do you think?!

Of.
Fucking.
Course.

More magic will flow and I will be more of you!

So (I continued) –

What does that mean as far as how I’ve been blocking receiving?

– Reminder: EVERYTIME I try to DO in order to receive I take myself out of alignment.

EVERYTIME.

Therefore –

In business
In love
In life

The ONLY thing I have to do is BE.

The more I relax into BEING –

Feed my own soul in order to FLOWER more, basically!

– the more my ME-ness is a gift to the people I am here to give to!

Meaning –

My #1 job is to take care of my own soul needs so I can flourish and flower!

^^^ this is hardly new information.

I literally have my own handwriting tattooed onto my ribcage saying ‘When I say yes to soul, life says yes to me’.

I preach on this all the time!

And yet –

I had not acknowledge it relevant to romance.

So much so that when I started to receive just for being I questioned it! Only for a moment, but still.

And I now see how much deeper I get to go with this in business as well.

How the old patterns have crept up, where parts of me feel bad for not DOING more.

When in actual fact the more I do the more I ROB you of being able to receive what I came here to give you!

Because it blocks me from only BEING, and being fully in the depth of accessing and also allowing through my magic.

And here’s the rub –

If you know that the next level is ease and flow and of COURSE doing less –

Then why the fuck do you keep thinking you gotta do more?

The way to get anywhere is to go there.

Notice where you’re scared to let go, or trust, or accept that it could be this good.

And then decide to do it anyway.

It’s REALLY that fucking simple.

And faith?

Is always a choice.

How bout dis:

If you refuse to accept and trust your wave a magic wand dream life scenario when it shows up –

You’re pretty damn unlikely to actually get it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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