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Success Mindset

Success is a State of Mind

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Think back to a time this year when you achieved something really spectacular in your business or in your personal life. It might have been a relatively small (but still exciting) win, or perhaps it was something you’d been aiming towards for a while; something that significantly changed the direction of your life.

Got it? Good. Okay, tell me this –

In order to achieve that goal, was your primary thought pattern one of ‘I can and I will and I am and this is gonna be awesome’, or was it one of ‘I HAVE to do this, I just have to, if I don’t bad things are going to happen and oh my God this is so hard and what if I don’t make it and I don’t know if I can’?

I’m guessing the first was your primary state yes? Sure, you might have had those self-doubting and fear based thoughts pop in from time to time, but overall you were able to override them and focus on how you COULD achieve your goal. And achieve it you did 🙂

Have a look at the two thought patterns again. Do you notice how the first is very expansive, open, it feels light and positive? Whereas the second feels dark, constricted, surrounded by fear. It feels ugly.

Next task.

Thing of a goal or dream that you are currently working on achieving. It might be paying off a credit card, establishing a certain amount of savings, finishing a book, launching a new product or project, getting your house in order, losing weight, achieving recognition or positive feedback for your work.

Really think about your goal. Think about the sort of actions you will need to take to achieve that goal; even write down a few of them. And then answer me this –

Over the past day, week, month, what has your primary thought process toward that goal been?

Has it been expansive, open, light and positive or has it been constricted? Dark? Shrouded in fear and ‘what if’?

If you fall into the latter camp, you’re not alone. For many years my attitude towards money (specifically clearing debt and accruing savings) was VERY constricted and fearful. I felt that it was impossible but that I HAD to but that I COULDN’T and yet that bad things would DEFINITELY happen because I couldn’t. What a positive mindset to try and achieve a goal with, hey? No wonder it didn’t work 🙂

If you are trying to ‘beat yourself’ into achieving your goals and dreams, or if you are so caught up in the awfulness of what might happen if you don’t achieve them, I gotta tell you –

That goal ain’t coming true for you. Matter of fact, the situation is probably only going to get worse.

If you want to guarantee your success around any goal in life, whether it’s getting in shape physically or financially, completing a meaninful project or task in your business, bringing to life some part of your ‘dream life’ lifestyle, anything at all, you have to find a way to have a mindset of positivity and excitement around achieving that goal.

Essentially this might mean you need to ‘fake it till you make it’, give yourself a daily pep talk and get yourself into that positive state every day. It can also be helpful to break the goal down. You can’t pay off 40k in credit card debt today, you can’t lose 20kg in a day and so on.

But you can save $5 today.

You can say no to something that is an unnecessary spend.

You can eat one healthy meal.

You can write 100 words.

Find a way to achieve easy wins that bring you closer to achieving your dreams. Make doing so a daily habit and what once felt overwhelming, scary, impossible will start to feel exciting, doable, expansive and you will find your natural motivation increases as well.

Success is achieved entirely in your mind so do what it takes to cultivate a mindset of I CAN and I AM and I promise you that you WILL!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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