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Success Mindset


Everything you have, everything you are, everything you do, everything you are becoming and WILL Everything you have, everything you are, everything you do, everything you are becoming and WILL have or be or do or be SURROUNDED by and also feel –

Is a result of energy.

I don’t mean energy in the sense of MATTER, although obviously that’s true as well.

I’m talking about perception energy. Being-ness energy. Soul energy. FLOW energy. Basically, I’m talking about the fact that regardless of what you have as ‘proof’ you are enough, have done enough, have enough money, or whatever else it is you think that you need, your ability to enjoy your life and ACTUALLY feel all is enough and perfect just as it is, is totally, and 100%, an energy thang.

You could have millions of dollars flowing to you monthly, and still not feel enough or that you’ve proven yourself TO yourself or the world –

Or you could have NO money coming in, but feel 100% abundant and blessed.

SUCCESS, in every sense of the word, is an energy thing.

And the energy thing? Well, the awesome news on THAT is that you get to choose!

Right now, in this moment, regardless of ALL circumstance, you can literally choose –

To be enough.
To have enough.
To have done enough.
And to be safe.

This doesn’t mean you wouldn’t then still strive and push; of course you would!

The growth never continues …

And there is ALWAYS room for MORE!

It’s a beautiful contradiction, that we’re going for, and that I’m suggesting you choose into.

The contradiction of simultaneously being enough and COMPLETELY whole and happy, whilst also knowing you will NEVER stop, there is ALWAYS more, you will uplevel for the rest of your LIFE, and that nothing’s going to stop you!

And I think …

I think we, when I say we, I mean US, the high achievers, the crazy ones, the artists, the 1% within the 1% who DOES do the fucking work, I think we are scared of ALLOWING ourselves to be enough and to feel that everything truly IS perfect, right now, just as it is.

If we weren’t beating up on ourselves or shaming ourselves, WHAT WOULD DRIVE US?

If we were ENOUGH and all was amazing, then what would we DO?!

Well –

Great question.

I posted this question just yesterday, actually, on my weekly Inner Circle Hotseat Mastermind ‘stream which we do in my private client group.

“What if you were completely enough –

And you had NOTHING to prove to anybody, or yourself –

And you were fully WORTHY –

And you also knew you were SAFE, with money.

THEN what would you be doing?”

We talked about it a little, and I set it as a journaling question for later.

This morning, I dug into it myself. You can NEVER ask the right questions too often, and for me the most powerful question I’ve asked myself, probably over 1000 times in total, considering my daily decades-long journaling habit, is some version of the question of ‘what would I be doing right now if I were fully in alignment’?

These questions are along the same lines.

They’re about getting to the TRUTH. Removing ‘should’ and ‘fear’ and doubt and that all-too-frequent thing we do of taking action in order to somehow prove ourselves, or for reasons of ‘what if I don’t?’.

So, I dug in.

‘What would I be doing right now if I knew that I was good enough and also had enough and that there was nothing to prove to anybody OR to me?’

It’s funny that I always act so curious about these sort of questions, when I ask them of myself. As if I haven’t already answered AND acted on them for so long now. As if I haven’t already for years now actively and day by day turned up the dial to PURPOSE.

I have to laugh at myself sometimes, as my answers always come back to some version of exactly what they did today:

I would write.

The end.

I would do my posts and streams and content that I already do each day.
I would have fun and play.
I would do random crazy / funny stuff.
I would maybe THINK less about selling.

Hmm, okay, that last one was interesting. I asked myself – ‘would I be selling less, or selling something differently then; is that what it means?’

But no, not that.
For years now already, I only sell what I truly can’t NOT, what excites me and what I want to.
Long ago I DID the whole ‘do shit you don’t really wanna do, for people you don’t love, and in a way that doesn’t really suit you’ thing …

(Spoiler: it didn’t work. It doesn’t work. It will NEVER work. Stop doing that!)

So no problems there!

Well, then why did that come up; what did that MEAN, ‘think less about selling’?

And I wrote –

‘It’s an energy thing …’

I realised that, even though my business has made over a million dollars a year for several years now, and over SEVERAL million dollars the last few years, I still hold fear and scarcity and worry around money.

I was over 100k in debt, and broke as FUCK, for years before I broke through to where I am now.

Even when I was MAKING money, I was broke as fuck because I let it slip away … I never had anything to show for it … I FELT broke, I FELT unworthy, I FELT not good enough, I FELT like having money leftover was ‘too good to be true’, and certainly too good for ME, and so I continued to not be abundant, and to remain broke,

Broke is a feeling, remember that …

Just like abundance is.

There are multi-gajillionaires who feel broke and scared.

And there are penniless people who are totally in flow and in the now and have ZERO fear of not having enough.

I know people from both those groups of people.

And for me, what I realised this morning, with CURIOSITY, even though I admit there was a mild grumpiness about it there as well, is I still carry feelings of scarcity and ‘what if I’m not okay’, relevant to money.

We know that money work ain’t money work …

So no doubt this plays out in other areas of my life as well, the thing of not feeling enough.

I know it does, as even when I’m in PHENOMENAL fucking shape I tend to still pick on bits and think I need to be better. CAN be better, and positively wanting to improve, is different to SHOULD be better, and ‘have to’ in order to be safe or accepted.

You know?

So, how to shift the lack energy?

Firstly, acknowledge that you desire to. For me that’s a no-brainer. Either way, I am fantastic at making money, and my income increases each year, always getting easier and more effortless and flow based, too.

From a PRACTICAL sense, I am making millions of dollars each year and truly ONLY doing what I love and am passionate about at this point!!

I have the team, the systems, and the ‘don’t give a fuck’ attitude and way of showing up which means that if I don’t wanna do something –

I don’t.

You’d wanna hope so, after 11 years of building this life, and consciously directing my vision to that!

But what I HAVEN’T yet got, is that total feeling of being enough and feeling safe.

Money stuff from years back is lingering.

I CHOOSE to acknowledge and release that today, this post being of course my own personal journaling deep dive to explore all of that – and I trust it helps you too!! – because I know that when I FEEL wealthy, and enough, and totally perfect just as I am, I will also create and ALLOW even greater wealth, flow, happiness, etc.

Broke is a feeling.
Wealthy is a feeling.
HAPPY is a feeling.
In the NOW is a feeling.
Being ENOUGH is a feeling.
HAVING enough is a feeling.
DOING enough is a feeling.

And it’s all a fucking choice.

So, decide.
And choose.
And then what?

Well, then it’s simple.

For beliefs to become part of who you are, there are really only two main things you need to do each day:

1) Practice the beliefs daily
2) Take action based on what action you’d take if you did believe the beliefs

So, that’s my practice for now.

And my mantra to go with it, will be:

‘I am good enough, I have enough, I’ve done enough, I’m doing enough, and I am completely and fully safe, now. Everything is perfect just as it is, and I am wealthy beyond measure!’

I’ll probably shift and change that over the coming days, as I journal on it daily; as it becomes part of me.

That’s just what came up for now.

And then, from that place, well – what would I be doing today? NOT just relevant to business, but relevant to LIFE. If I fully knew and felt all of that, what would I be doing?

Turns out –


But not just DOING this, also knowing I am ALLOWED to do this and that this is exactly what I am MEANT to be doing, this and only this, in order to grow to the next level.

By this, I mean in a literal ‘right now’ sense, writing this blog for you.
And by this, I mean in each coming moment, doing whatever it is I feel called to do.

Knowing and trusting that when I follow my soul’s desires, I always make the right choices, everything IS perfect for me, and I am happy, successful, in flow and free, and also abundantly rich and SAFE.

Which could indeed be another affirmation

Your thoughts?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.