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You Only Have Today

"dream life"It’s impossible for you to control or direct your future. It’s time to stop hoping that one day you will get there, that one day life will be awesome.

You can invest all the time you like in making sacrifices now so that you eventually get to enjoy the rewards. You can skip all your favourite foods, force yourself to rigidly follow strict diets that don’t make you feel at all happy or whole, hoping that it will ‘pay off’, that if you do it properly and for long enough you will wake up one day with that perfect body. You can train your little butt off always with one eye on the future, always with the idea that if you just push that little bit harder or for that little bit longer –

Then eventually you will get there.

You can spend the next week, month, year and even decade chasing the idea of who you want to be. Pushing yourself. Putting dreams on hold as you’re not yet ready for them – or not yet worthy for them.

Or –

Or you can look back and realise that you’ve already spent the past week, month, year and even decade chasing the idea of who you want to be and yet you haven’t yet got there.

You only have today? No, actually.

You only have this moment.

The Future Doesn’t Exist

I want you to realise that the future doesn’t exist, except in your mind. And if in your mind it is a wondrous and magical place where you look freaking hot all the time, where you never eat emotionally or binge, where you have your dream body and life and job and where you’ve finally paid your dues and can enjoy your life –

You are most definitely never going to get there.

Do you see how you set yourself up for failure by always looking ahead, always promising yourself that if you only do this, if you only stop that then one day, one day, one day –

You can be happy.

Don’t you see how illogical that is?

I don’t mean to be depressing. I am going somewhere with this. But I just have this feeling that we all need a bit of a wake up call sometimes. A call to follow our dreams NOW.

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And I know – it’s easy for me to talk. It’s easy to stand here and tell you that life is now, that you have to press play right away. In so many ways I’m still just as guilty as ever of projecting my dream life into a far-off time.

I still find myself often making food decisions based on what I think it will do to my body tomorrow or next week rather than what feels right for me now.

I sometimes sacrifice time with my daughter so that I can ‘get ahead’ with my business, even though I know that no matter how hard I work I will never be done. Which is actually a good thing, I realise – when I stop to remember that I do actually enjoy what I do, that it doesn’t have to be ‘checked off’.

How about you?

Look at the way you spend your days. Are you living for the moment? I don’t mean in a reckless way, but I think you know that.

What I mean is, are you engaging NOW? Are you enjoying what you do NOW? Are you present? Are you saying yes to things that make you happy, that feel right and in alignment, even if others (or you) may think you’re not yet ready for those things; that you haven’t earned it or simply don’t have time.

Are you?

Are you saying no or no more to things that are shoulds or musts, things that society or your own busy mind have told you simply have to be done. Things that you actually – if you can stop and be honest – don’t care about at all and that certainly are not part of your dream life.

Are you?

Or are you trapped by what you have to do each day?

Are you so used to paying your dues that you can’t see any other way to live, and perhaps don’t want to?

The Secret to Your Deepest Success

It’s not about who works the hardest, the longest, the most strategically.

Perhaps those things count on some level.

But only if you can find a way to enjoy them now, to be fully present and engaged and feel in flow.

The secret to your deepest success is to find a way to love what you’re doing now. Right now. Not this afternoon. Not when you’ve completed your tasks or chores.

But now.

This means, in some areas, letting go.

Is it really so important to have the house spotless or even half-tidy before you are allowed to enjoy your day?

Do you have to answer all your emails and get up to date on social media before you do the stuff that makes your heart sing?

Must you always delay creative or joyful pasttimes like writing, drawing, painting, exploring until you have time?

Just think about it.

In other areas, it means starting now.

Why can’t you wear the beautiful clothes you’d love to wear ‘if only you had the right body’?

And who said you can’t spend a day doing absolutely nothing without yet having completed every single thing you said you would do. Are you ever actually likely to have done so anyway? Have you yet?

How about the way you make a living? Do you really have to know where to start to just – start? Do you actually need a business plan or even an idea of what your business could be? I’ve written a business plan for 2013. It’s the first time I’ve ever done it. When I started online – in 2008 – I literally just started writing. No plan. No purpose. Just a desire to write.

What’s your desire?

What do you want to do ‘one day’?

What sort of life would be just so amazing and incredible that it would be ‘too good to be true’.

And why can’t it be true, now?

Don’t give me excuses. Don’t even give me reasons, or musts.

The truth is that you have complete responsibility over how you live your life. However you pass your time is 100% within your control. And you can always change things. And you can do that NOW. Those things you consider valid reasons for putting your life on hold and not yet living your dreams –

Isn’t it true that others before you have gone out and done it anyway?

And isn’t it true that if you suddenly had a month to live you’d do things vastly differently?

So why not now?

Why not today?

The truth is that it’s impossible for you to create or direct the future.

But you can create your now.

You can choose your now.

Just imagine .

If you were already living your dream life, in your dream body, doing what you loved, what would be different about today? About this moment?

It’s time for a mindset shift beautiful.

It’s time to stop putting off what you really want, who you truly long to be.

It’s time for you to face up to the fact that if not now –

Probably never.

If you choose to keep living for the future then you too, like the vast majority of people out there, will look back on a life never quite right, filled with wishes and one days.

It’s time for you to realise that there IS no other time but now and that if you’re willing to step up and choose to live and love your life today –

You probably never will be.

I want the best for you. I want you to live an incredible and magical life.

I hope you want that for you also.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.