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Are You Scared Of What Might Happen If You Reach Your Dreams?

I read an interesting article yesterday on success, and it suggested something I’d never even contemplated before. The idea was that a key reason for people letting their life fly by might be a sub-conscious worry about what might happen if they reach their goals. Sure, it’s not a brand new concept when you put it like that, but have you thought about this –

What if you were continually sabotaging your efforts to consistently eat really really well or workout regularly, because you wouldn’t know what to do if you truly looked and felt your best all the time?

As a health coach for 13+ years now, I thought I’d encountered every possible reason for self-sabotage and certainly I think I’ve heard every excuse under the sun but this? The idea that fear of too much energy; of feeling or looking too good might stop us?

Huh.

To be honest, the very idea of it stopped ME right in my tracks.

But it kind of makes sense, doesn’t it? If you think about it maybe a LOT of sense. Stay with me here as I ask you to consider the ways your life might be different if when you actually become ‘that girl’.

  • More energy would mean increased ability to finish off projects you’ve been procrastinating on, or start on new ideas and dreams. Your ability to justify to yourself with being too tired or too busy would have to go.
  • And finishing off projects or testing new ideas would mean facing the possibility that they might not work out. You might fail at achieving something, which is surely worse than not giving it a go and therefore never knowing. Isn’t it?
  • People might treat you differently. Loved ones could become jealous, or derisive; patronising perhaps. They might tell you it won’t last, that you shouldn’t get used to it. You might have to believe in yourself rather than listen to what other people say!
  • YOU might treat you differently. If you were a bouncy, energised, and ‘healthy-inside-out’ kind of gal you wouldn’t be drowning your troubles in food or extra sleep that you don’t really need. You’d have to face your troubles head; maybe even deal with them and move on to the next challenge

Perhaps it’s as simple as you might just have no idea what to do with all the extra energy or good feelings

And I think that’s what it’s about, for the most part. We become so used to living at a certain level, to having the energy for a certain amount of output per week. We ‘know our boundaries’, even if we do abuse them some of the time.

think about this

You didn’t used to be as busy as you are right now, did you? 5 or 10 years ago, perhaps longer, you had less responsibility. Less financial concerns. Less people in your life to worry about. Being younger meant you could tell yourself that there was still plenty of time to do all the stuff you wanted to do.

And now?

You’re flat out, mostly. Your life is full of people and projects and errands and just, well, life. So, you’ve adapted. Wherever you were 5 or 10 years ago, you probably had no idea you could successfully take on all of the stuff you now take for granted as part of your everyday life.

Here’s a thought.

Imagine if what you took for granted a year from now (heck, a few months from now; perhaps even a few weeks) could be something as big and bright as your wildest dreams? If your so-called fantasies became your everyday life?

Imagine if you always felt ‘on’. If you no longer had to worry about what to eat. If daily movement was just who you were and if loving the life you lived was something you took for granted. If the stuff you spent your time on was the stuff that truly truly mattered; if you spent each and every day following your passions in one way, shape or form.

And then ask yourself –

Are you willing to do what you have to do to make this happen? Willing to admit that maybe what that takes is NOT about doing more but rather about recognising you need to stop dragging yourself back down to your current comfort level? When it comes down to it, ask yourself this –

Are you willing to believe it’s possible; that anything is possible? And can you accept that it’s just about whether or not it’s worth it or whether you prefer remaining comfortable and safe in whatever reality you now exist in?

You decide.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

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If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!