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“It’s always just going to be the thing that you wish it could be.”

^^ I said this to a client of mine last night during a conversation about what she’s calling in to creation in her business. What she WANTS it to be, as opposed to, well –

what she thinks it has to be.

As I said it, I came to a sudden internal stop because I started to think about my relationship. My upcoming re-marriage to my ex-husband.

In the 5+ years we were apart I existed at every point on the spectrum from “I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!” to “could we / would we ever”, but one thing I remember coming back to again and again, every so often, and it would never fully go away, is that I would find myself thinking –

“I just wish. I just wish there were some way it COULD have worked”.

And then I would shake my head, wipe away a tear, feel the heavy sadness in my heart and get back to what I was doing, back to trying to convince myself again into whatever half-hearted maybe dating situation I had going on, or even the more maybe serious ones.

I don’t think a single friend of mine who also had split from their spouse or co-parent EVER related to my thoughts of “I wish there COULD be”. Quite the opposite, they were horrified when I expressed this. “No way would I EVER!”

What’s funny is … it’s not as though I walked around wishing we could get back together, because I GENUINELY believed we had screwed it up beyond un-screwing.

“The only way this could ever work would be a straight up miracle of God”, I said.

But I didn’t really believe that would happen, at least not on the surface of things.

So no. I wasn’t WANTING, and I certainly wasn’t TRYING. But,

I was wishing. In some part of me. That what I believed already WAS done could have played out a different way.

Once or twice I got so ANGRY about it. “This wasn’t how it was meant to go!”

“But, it just is”.


As I mentored my client last night on one of the things I so DEEPLY know to be true, that what gets to come to life for you if only you’ll claim it, hand it over, tether or anchor it in and then refuse to be available for anything else and also surrender the HOW,

is always in the end THE THING YOU JUST WISH IT COULD BE,

I found myself dumbstruck.

In this whole time of our RE-coupling, getting engaged again, now on the precipice of our second wedding to each other, it never hit me that, once again, it WAS just ‘the thing I wished it could be’.

Even though I didn’t act on it,

nor actively claim it!

But on some level, I obviously did tether it in and the miracle I kept wondering about did happen. A gradual adjustment, the way it always goes in the end, because I EXPECT it to, in all areas of my life,

To God’s will.

To truth.

And it just got me eyes-wide-open EXCITED, you know. About everything ELSE in my life – and yours! – that is being WISHED for, maybe with sadness or ‘that wouldn’t work’, that is actually THE thing.

With Enzo and I, I didn’t really directly claim it but I absolutely was on some level open for it. Open, whilst largely disbelieving, because there were just too many reasons why not and I had NO idea how!

But God doesn’t care about your reasons why not, and He doesn’t need your how.

He just needs that opening.

In business I’ve seen again and again that when I also lean INTO that opening and say, “you know what? I WILL say yes to ‘the thing I just wish it could be'”, I automatically then start dialling myself into the receiving of or BECOMING of that thing.

There is not a single part of what I’ve created or received which is epic and aligned which came from a place of SHOULD.

EVERYTHING wonderful I have or am was at some point just – the thing I wished it could be.

You’re always going to have an idea of what you think it – your marketing, your offers, your entire business, your entire life – has to be, and your mind will fight hard to retain and prove that reality.

Why? Simple neurological pathways shit. A road already traveled is easier to travel, than what it would be to create and travel a new and unchartered terrain. Ergo, a belief system already established is easier to keep believing than what it is to create a new belief system and then live into that.


in actual fact that has absolutely sweet FA to do with whether or not the idea of what you think is true or real IS indeed true or real, beyond the truth and realness that YOU keep feeding it with.

Which means –

the thing you think it CAN’T be, but wish it just COULD be, is in ACTUAL (certain!) fact not at ALL difficult or tricky, it’s just … not established.

Not established in a physically manifested sense,

and not established in an energetic / belief system sense.


what do you just WISH it could be?


for how much longer you wanna keep on trying to tell yourself it has to be something else?


at any point you could just give in. Admit. And OWN –

You know what? I actually just wish it could be this. AND THAT MEANS IT CAN JUST BE THIS.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x


I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!


You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,


What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!


1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!