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I've Been Pandering To You. I'm Sorry.
Success Mindset

I’ve Been Pandering To You. I’m Sorry.

It’s true.

The stuff I’ve been writing lately, if I think about it and am honest about it, is largely a lot of BS type stuff based around revving you up, gearing you up, telling you that ‘you can do it’ and you’re WORTH it baby!

Which is true in theory, but also –

You probably won’t do it.

And you’ll probably spend your entire life acting as though you’re NOT worth it, which basically means that if that’s what you think, and what you base your actions on?

It’s true.

Of course I hope that I’m wrong but here’s the reality:

Most people will listen to the you can do it type stuff that I or anyone else out there puts on the big ole internet and even though my style may be of the uber-rev-you-up category (if you like that sort of thing) they will still proceed to smile, nod their heads, cheer loudly and say HELL YEAH! and then do precisely –

fuck –

all –

about it.

And when I say most people?

You KNOW I’m talking to you, right?

Because let’s be honest here just for a moment –

At the start of this year you said this was YOUR year, that you were going to make shit happen on your terms and nothing could stop you! That you’d do what it takes, no matter how long it takes and you’d give it EVERYTHING it WANTED to take of you.

But yet here you are.

Still promising that you’re going to go all out, no really, that THIS IS YOUR TIME!

Well –

I’m calling bullshit.

And I’m here to say that I’m sick of pandering to you, and to everyone out there.

Hell YEAH I believe you can do it and hell yeah I believe you’re worth it. I KNOW you’ve got a message inside of you and I KNOW IT’S BURNING TO COME OUT.

And God knows I would fucking LOVE to see that shit. Honestly I am – on a personal and purely selfish level – DESPERATE to find more awesome stuff to read online.

But day after day, I hunt around and what do I see?

Same old.

Boring.

Bland.

Baloney.

Bullshit.

I actively jump to attention anytime I see a post put up of ‘kickass women to follow online’ or ‘favourite emails you like to open’, and honestly?

Seriously?!

THIS is the best we can do?

For fuck’s sake!

So yes.

I’m done.

With the pandering.

With being your fluffer.

With telling you that you CAN do it, you ARE worth it and I KNOW you’ve got what it takes!

Of COURSE I know you’ve got what it takes but so does everyone else who went before you and is now fucking dead or forgotten because they never DID what it takes.

So let’s take just a moment to get really fucking real up in here:

ARE you going to DO what it takes?

No not fucking tomorrow, I mean NOW, and ALL in?

And NO NO NO NO! I’m not INTERESTED in your later today / this week / when I get my shit sorted LIES.

It’s now –

Or it’s never.

You either ARE that person (now!) –

Or you’re not.

And here’s what else. While we’re at it.

It’s not fucking easy okay? So when I talk about you can do it and you’re worth it that doesn’t mean you won’t have to SWEAT TEARS OF BLOOD for it. You want to be EXCEPTIONAL and to live a life most wouldn’t even dare to dream of?

You gotta work for that shit baby.

Yeah of COURSE it is good work, the best kind! I would argue that NOT doing the PAINFUL work is far more fucking painful and soul destroying then doing it!

But of course most people – and odds are, because odds just work that way, you also – would rather avoid pain.

Are looking for a quick fix, or an easy way out although of course you’d never term it like that, no way!

But your actions speak louder than words my dear.

And your actions are telling me:

You don’t believe in yourself.

Not really.

And you’re not willing to do what it takes.

Not fully.

And you’re hell fucking NOT laying yourself on the line.

Not yet.

Which is to say, not ever.

And since we’re on a roll here and everything and I’m probably already losing friends and NOT influencing people, let’s talk about this nonsense:

When are you going to start taking care of yourself?

As someone who ACTUALLY FUCKING CARES ABOUT THEMSELF?

Yes I get this whole entrepreneurs live on the edge thing, and we’re invincible, and work comes first! But really –

REALLY –

You look like shit.

You’re treating yourself like shit.

Your mental state is, well, questionable. Which is all part and parcel but also –

Enough is enough yeah?

At some point you’re going to have to stop and take stock and I’d be willing to bet you’re NOT going to be happy with the shit-storm you’ve created for yourself in the name of work.

BUT WHAT FUCKING WORK ANYWAY?!

Anyway.

My point.

I’m not here to rev you up, pump you up, and send you on your way with a you can do it attitude that translates to precisely fuck all.

I’m here to tell it to you straight, as best as I can.

And right now what I’ve got to say is really simple:

It’s about fucking time you grew the fuck up and realised that how you act today dictates who you get to be tomorrow.

You want to be exceptional?

Start acting like it.

You want to take care of your body?

Fucking DO something about it? Do my Look Great Naked Bootcamp! No it is NOT easy and yes it IS extreme but THAT’S THE FUCKING POINT.

You want to make a million dollars? Start laying yourself on the line then! Surround yourself with like-minded people and commit to a mentor who’ll kick your butt to get you there!

You want FAST results and no messing around? Then FUCKING GO ALL IN BITCH!

But whatever you do, WHATEVER you do,

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

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30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

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PPS.

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And!

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