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Purpose

JUST DECIDE TO DO THE THING

For as long as I can remember I always knew I wanted to be a writer.

I was on this pathway of being the GOOD student and girl, I was top of every class academically, always, and the PLAN was to become a lawyer.

Got the grades for it, too, started studying Arts and was going to switch into Law/Arts, but within less than a week at University it hit me:

I’m not going to do this, actually.

Nobody is watching to make sure I show up.
Nobody even knows!

I look back now, and it’s clear that a big part of why I pushed myself so much to ALWAYS be the best, at school, was because I wanted the validation of being TOLD I was the best.

At Uni I didn’t get that instant feedback right away, and to top it off I guess I just realised:

Huh.
I don’t think I WANT to actually do this whole normal life thing, actually.

Growing up it wasn’t ALWAYS about becoming a lawyer. That basically became a pathway because a) I liked to argue and win (haha, what a shock), and b) it was a good EGO goal to chase.

If I’m a lawyer then I must be SUCCESSFUL!

The other thing, though, which I remember thinking about doing a LOT, was being a writer. By writer I meant ‘journalist’, since in school that’s the logical career outcome version of wanting to write.

I mean, really – you don’t get a career as a writer like an AUTHOR or something, do you? That’s not very practical! And what other ways are there to write anyway!

So, simple:

Become a lawyer, or become a journalist.

Going back further still than that, and now as far as what I can remember, since I was very very small, it was artist.

Funny…

How we always end up back where it was we started, where our dreams began, where WE began.

If you think about it, you’ve ALWAYS known what it is you’re meant to be doing!

Haven’t you?

Of course when we’re young and we have these dreams, these desires, this calling, and this thing that says –

“I just want to create”

We don’t know HOW on earth to DO that.

How do I be an artist, what does that even mean? Okay, I don’t know how, so maybe I want to be a writer, but how do I do THAT?!

Be a journalist, hmmm … okay be a lawyer! That’s a fancy job! Career counsellor approved, and everything!

Let’s do it.

And then …

Well, then.

You embark, don’t you, upon the normal life. Trying so DESPERATELY hard to actually get it to work!

And it just –

Doesn’t.
Quite.
Seem to FEEL like it should.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve just never been that GOOD at following through on things that don’t FEEL good, y’know?

And I might tell myself ALL the stories in the world about how I’m GOING TO DO IT THIS TIME NO REALLY FOR REAL!

I’ve done it with study.
I’ve done it with jobs.
I’ve done it with RELATIONSHIPS.
I’ve even done it with diets and training regimes!

And in the end, but ONLY 100% of the time, if it’s not a FIT for me and I mean a SOUL fit, I find myself –

Walking away.

And when I say walking? I mean RUNNING LIKE A BAT OUT OF HELL, #stealthexit style, normally.

Now you see her –
Now you don’t!

lol.

I always did love that movie … I always did love ANYTHING that was about DISAPPEARING, escaping, whoosh –

buh bye.

Still do 😉

And what it was, REALLY, was that deep inside of me I did just KNOW –

(As I know you do too)

– I wasn’t born for this whole … LIFE thing. NOT LIKE THIS. I’m going to do it MY way ... somehow! Even though I don’t really know what that is or how it would look or ANY of it.

But I’ll figure it the fuck OUT, just TRY TO STOP ME!

Of course here is the truth. The truth which it too me some time to admit to myself, and perhaps you too. PERHAPS YOU’RE LYING TO YOURSELF THIS VERY SECOND ABOUT IT!

And the truth is this:

The ONLY thing, the only PERSON, who ever tried to STOP me, was me.

Because other people, with their well-or-not-intentioned suggestions or even COMMANDS, do not actually get to choose how you play life. The GREAT news is that YOU get to do that.

The sobering news, perhaps, is that YOU GET TO DO THAT AND ALSO YOU MUST.

It’s actually not optional, y’know …

EITHER way you’re choosing! So if you look around right now and you don’t LOVE WHAT YOU SEE, or if you look inside right now and if you don’t ADORE how you feel, or if you look to the future right now and you’re not just so GEE-DARN excited and gleeful and grateful about it, then get a fucking grip baby.

You did this.
You did ALL of it.
The ball was squarely in your court since the day you were FORMED, in fact, because God gave us the gift of INFINITE choice.

It’s a blessing.
It’s a responsibility.
It’s EXCITING!
And it’s just motherfucking FACT.

And here is what else:

This idea that you have, which perhaps you’ve not really stopped and thought about or else you’d realise how non-sensical it is, that there should be somebody TELL YOU HOW TO PLAY LIFE – your life! – telling you how to travel your own pathway, well –

That idea is gonna have to go.

You’re not a child anymore.
Dreaming of being an artist.
Knowing that somebody someway you will be.

And you’re also not a teenager being told by the world – and LISTENING – that there is a right or a wrong way to do life ‘properly’.

Are you??!

So why are you acting it?

You’re an adult now, and if you want it to happen you damn sure KNOW you can make it happen but you also gotta go DO that.

What it takes.
No matter what it takes.
Until it takes.

Yes?

YES.

And you get to choose to keep the childlike wonder and the dreaming and the playfulness, or you get to choose to bring it in NOW, that’s the beautiful thing! Life just gets better and better the further along you go.

I think that one of the most powerful lessons we can each learn about life is not how to go out there, learn to succeed or achieve, find or build a roadmap to wealth, acclaim, respect, worthiness!

It’s that the answers were already there.

The entire freaking time.

I know for me, I spent so many years wandering and looking and trying to try, all of the things I was told I should.

And then?

I just decided to write.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

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30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/firedup

PPS.

The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.

And!

I’ve included a Join Today Bonus!

Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉

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