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Purpose

YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIE IN A BED JUST BECAUSE YOU MADE IT

Just because you committed yourself to a particular avenue of business or messaging, perhaps even built an entire brand around it, have let the whole world know that this is who you are and this is what you do, it doesn’t mean you have ANY obligation to stick with it.

I think that one of the saddest fucking things that exists in business, and I see this a LOT in the online space, is to keep on creating a business (and by default therefore a life) which is out of alignment and not based around doing your purpose work and what you were truly BORN for.

The thing is …

And I know you’ve probably figured this out by now …

(But you might not have acknowledged it to yourself or even really thought about it, consciously!)

… the only way to GET into that flow-based purpose space where you just KNOW that this is what you’re meant to be doing and what it’s supposed to be ABOUT is to work through all the shit that comes before that.

All you can do is the best you can do to make the aligned choice for the NOW, but that doesn’t mean that what you thought was spot on, perfect, just right and how it had to BE won’t tomorrow show itself to be simply a lesson or adjustment you had to go through along the way.

If I look back over the history of my business there were SO many times that I was SO sure this was it. I can’t tell you how many times I excitedly told friends that this was THE program, everybody was going to have to do it, it was the one I was always MEANT to make and my WHOLE business was going to be about that now …

… and then, often, before I even got halfway through running the damn thing I’d feel my heart sinking as I realised:

Fuck.
I still haven’t figured it all out yet.
And I don’t think I can REALLY see myself running this thing on repeat for EVER, after all! I still have so much MORE inside of me … I’m definitely not going to have my business and life be about THIS!

Of course every step along the way was a critical step along the way, and even the things which I would in some way have said were screw ups or mistakes still taught me more about what I’m really here to create and how I am supposed to message and serve.

But the point is …

At any point in time …

If I had have allowed myself to be ruled by pride (around not seeming flaky) or fear (around what if I never really figure IT out and I’m just eternally searching and never THERE!) …

Then I would have turned what was only ever a piece of the puzzle into the whole damn thing.

And trust me, I really did CRINGE, so many times along the way, as I worried at how it came across –

To my friends and peers
To my clients
To my ‘competitors’ (I put it in quotes because I don’t believe there is such a thing anymore!)

When I would constantly change:

My titles
My tagline
My niche
My offers
What I said I did
What sort of clients I REALLY wanted to work with
My freaking colour pallette
Etc
Etc
ETC!

But yet …

Even though it totally DID bother me to have people think I was flaky (although looking back I’d say that was just my OWN feelings about it, really!) …

I still stayed true to myself.

It was fucking HARD at times and definitely UNCOMFORTABLE at times, as often I’d make some kind of big dramatic announcement like “I’m NEVER doing coaching again …!” or “I’m ONLY doing this now ….” or “this is my THING now …” and then within a week or less I’d be turning around and retracting, or just kinda not saying anything and hoping nobody noticed 🙂


And maybe they didn’t, who knows! Maybe it was only ever ME who was absorbed with me, but still! It felt awkward. But yet I DID stay true, every step along the way, as best as I COULD, and whenever I noticed I was NOT being true, I made swift adjustments no matter the fallout.

I would say that being willing to repeatedly walk away from things which no longer felt like I wanted them to –

Or being able to repeatedly walk towards something that DID feel right even if it made ZERO fucking sense, even if perhaps I’d SWORN I was DONE with it!

– is a HUGE part of how I got to here.

I can tell you that 99.9% of the decisions I’ve made in business have been COMPLETELY illogical, but I can also tell you this:

99.9% of the decisions I’ve made in business have been COMPLETELY a result of squeezing my eyes tight, pushing aside the fear, gritting my teeth and squaring my shoulders if need be, and taking a leap of faith based on what my INSIDES were telling me.

Call it heart, call it gut, call it intuition, call it faith, call it freaking INSTINCT, call it what you will but what I call it most of all is simply doing what you know you ultimately MUST, and fuck the fall out.

As a result of being the kind of person who repeatedly either flakes out on a commitment once made or an idea set into motion, as a result of being the kind of person who repeatedly leaps TOWARDS and generally with NO safety net or even CLUE as to what’s below, I am also the kind of person who now gets to wake up every single day and do what she LOVES and was BORN for.

I know less than a handful of people who are truly doing their soul work in an aligned way and basically just get to wake up and ‘do them’ every single day like I do, whilst also creating the income and impact results.

Getting here did NOT come about as a result of doing what was the logical right decision.

It came because I repeatedly defied logic, broke the rules, went against even what I myself had said, and basically just gave myself permission to keep changing my mind, based on the ever-adjusting flow which presented itself to me!

The only way to really LIVE in flow, I’ve found, is to constantly adjust TO the flow along the way.

And I don’t understand why so few people realise this, get this, are willing to LIVE like this.

I think it’s APPALLING that we’ve been conditioned to believe that changing our mind is wrong …

That following our heart is reckless …

That using GUT INSTINCT rather than logic is foolish …!

The truth is you have ALL of the answers within, for ALL of the things and ALL of the time. You always know.

The question is:

Do you listen? Or do you tell yourself I can’t … it’s not right … but I already said … but I already started! In the end it’s really very very simple:

You can either lay down and die in a bed just because you made it.
Give your life for something you thought was a great idea.
Become KNOWN for something that was only ever a shadown version of the deep powerful message and truth which exists inside of you.

Or you can accept that other people or MAYBE JUST YOU are going to think whatever the fuck they want to think about you but that YOU are only responsible for being true to YOU, and that also if you wanna actually get to where you God damn KNOW it’s right, well –

You’re also going to HAVE to be true to you.

On repeat.

Every day.

No matter what.

Nobody said it would be easy, this whole create your business, life, self on purpose thing.

But I can tell you wholeheartedly, being one of the few who was willing to look or feel a fool for long enough to actually figure it out as much as you ever can (and I’m still going, of course!) –

It’s fucking worth it.

YOU’RE ALLOWED TO CHANGE YOUR MIND. But most of all?

You’re allowed to lay yourself on the line in whatever way is necessary in order to step into the purpose-driven life you were born for.

And more still than that?

You’re going to HAVE to, if you want it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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