Purpose

RESISTANCE TO HAVING IT ALL

When you get to the place when you have it all, everything you ever dreamed of or thought you could or SHOULD have, and everything is just working … amazing … incredible … do you think you’re actually going to like that?

It’s not a weird question. Let’s get real – if you actually freakin’ wanted it you WOULD already have it.

It’s that fucking simple. You can come up with a million huffy excuses why that’s not true or it’s because of this or that or the other thing, but no. It’s not. EVERYTHING you’ve made non-negotiable in your life has happened.

That’s just how life works.

So, let me ask you again, although let’s ask it in another way this time, more from the perspective of well you DON’T yet have it all.

Why do you actually NOT want to get there?

Just pause for a moment, tune in, and ask –

‘Why would I indeed NOT want to get to rich, hot, fulfilled, loved and in love, fully supported, experiencing all of life and my Self at its best … why would that be bad or wrong or even not SAFE?’

It’s an essential question to check in with, if you in any way feel as though you MIGHT just be holding yourself back from accomplishing the things you SAY you dream of and KNOW are really not that out of reach.

At the end of the day yes you CAN just ‘flick the switch’, and decide to BE that next level version of you who just does the damn thing; robo-mode ON. So to speak 🙂

But … thing is … it IS that simple and also it’s TRUE that there are reasons we hold ourselves back from achieving what we want. Sometimes even for life! It’s frustrating, infuriating, disheartening to watch yourself day after day after day sabotage or just not follow through, wondering ‘what’s wrong with me’, and if, by taking a little time to dig in and look at where your ACTUAL beliefs and values are impacting your actions we can break you OUT of that, then wouldn’t you say that’d be worth it?

I say yes.

So –

Let’s say you’ve got it all going on in one or perhaps several areas of life, but yet you continually just fail to do what you promise yourself you will or know that you should in another area.

I’ve a pretty solid history of doing exactly this. In my twenties I was in great shape but my money situation was shit, and also my EMOTIONAL health was appalling as well. But, I was happy in my relationships! And I had a GREAT lifestyle, lots of freedom and flexibility. I’ve never been good at letting THAT shit slip away. Just a little note on priorities, yes? We ALWAYS get what we actually highly value and make a must.

So –

Body looked hot
Relationship was good
Lifestyle was great

Money situation was a God awful mess
And emotional health was terrible – I was bulimic. So much for the hot body, right?

As the years passed, I slowly but surely did the work on my money mindset and wealth consciousness, and dug myself out of the 140k+ debt hole I’d been in, even eventually going so far as to become RICH.

Meanwhile, my relationship was getting undeniably worse and worse, toxic as FUCK.

And my body started to be up and down and all over the place. I’d healed myself of 10+ years of bulimia, which was and is AWESOME, but now my physical results weren’t what I wanted. Where I’d always been the girl who was in the BEST shape, I was now just slightly NOT quite there all the time.

Lifestyle freedom was still on point, and only getting better 🙂

So –

Money had sorted itself out a LOT, and was continuing to get better and better
Lifestyle freedom and flexibility rocked
I was also, I should mention, becoming more and more connected to purpose and truly doing what I was meant to be doing with my message and my art
Bulimia was finally dealt with! That was huge!

But –

Relationship was a shit storm
And I didn’t look how I wanted to look, except for the odd occasion when I somehow flipped the switch for a minute and a half

Thing is –

I KNEW I could have it all, and I refused to accept that having ‘it all’ in one AREA meant you couldn’t in all. For years now I’ve dug into the exact kind of work we’re talking about here. Asking myself questions about why I would hold certain things at arms length … why I would actually NOT want the outcome I said I wanted … what would be bad or wrong or scary about getting to the place I dreamed of.

I found myself asking these questions again this morning, as the last few weeks I’ve been mainlining sugar as though it’s my personal job to support Cadbury’s, Australia’s largest chocolate manufacturer.

Okay, it’s NOTHING like it used to be as far as BINGING and the like, but it’s not GOOD. I feel yuck. I feel annoyed at myself. I feel BEMUSED, also, like – lol. Here we go again! I also feel like – okay, okay, that’s enough now, just flick the God damn switch and clean up your act! What, life got so good again that you thought you’d just crash one area down, not terribly, but just enough so that once again you’re not THERE? Good story Kat … kinda getting old though!!

So yeah – I laugh at myself about it, which I think is a good thing to do; it takes the POWER out of it to get into laughter and then, what I find helpful, IS curiosity.

Yes I know how to be disciplined as fuck with my eating, and to do it in a NOT crazy-person way; from alignment. I invested years into changing my relationship with food and my body, and I have a great one now. GOD am I proud of myself for the work I did in this area!

So I DO know it’s as simple as discipline. Which I now get to choose, and AM. But at the same time … I want to understand the deeper resistances of my psyche, you know? If for no other reason than that being the person who continually does this, who looks in, demands an answer, then SHIFTS that shit, has made me into THIS person.

The unapologetically extra badass who DOES in fact ‘have it all’ … even when she’s sometimes apparently screwing with bits of it for shits and giggles. #eyeroll

Also, I’ve had a few things go ‘wrong-ish’ the past few weeks; enough to where I suspect this is an upper limit situation again. The old pattern of ‘ooh – life is getting SO GOOD right now! Money just keeps flowing more and more, soulmate clients are everywhere, LOVE has shown up and is getting deeper, lifestyle on point (ha – that one never changes … I’m obvs just NEVER available to not live with freedom) … etc etc … maybe you’re not worth all of that!’

Crash, bang – drop my 55k Rolex on the floor and smash it.
Crash, bang – break a couple laptops
Crash, bang – shit gets EXTRA nasty with my ex (I cleared that already though, but this happened the past few weeks)
Crash, bang – can’t get a park outside the Muay Thai gym (haha … but REALLY – that shit doesn’t HAPPEN to me!)
Crash, bang – body feeling off and am eating in a way that just doesn’t make me FEEL good.

You know?

I know you can relate. I’m sure just reading this you can already see your own patterns, and hopefully smile and laugh at yourself about it rather than beat up on yourself and shame or blame. That’s so last decade 😉 … NOW we get to understand it and we DO get to shift.

And here is how I did that, this morning, as I decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH, I insist on being hot as FUCK, no apology! Can’t very well launch my new program ‘Unapologetically Extra’ if I’m apologising in my own mind for being TOO much, having EVERYTHING at a standard of excellence! Fuck THAT – I INSIST ON HAVING EVERYTHING AT A STANDARD OF EXCELLENCE!

You too? Good! Here are some questions, and my answers, for examples, to dive into then. I wrote these relevant to my body, but you could adjust them for any area where you’re holding what you desire and know is AVAILABLE at arms length –

“Why would I choose NOT to get lean, be lean, stay lean?

– then I would be too good, have too much. (note I’m not saying this IS what I feel, this is exploratory journaling, it’s just seeing what comes up)

Affirmation – “I allow myself to have it all”

I am safe to have it all. I allow myself to have it all.

– Life would be too good / what would I have to strive for? Well, what do i WANT to strive for?

Blog idea – are you addicted to not having what you want?

What are the positives of not having? – then I have nothing to focus on or work towards … maybe?

If I had it all, I would … be bored? No, I’d just find something else to strive for. So just do that then! lol.

It’s all just a choice …

I choose to be lean as fuck
I am safe to be lean as fuck
I allow myself to be SUPER lean, hot, sexy, in my BEST possible state, free.

What else am I currently not allowing myself then? (where a pattern exists once, it always exists in other ways)

– 500k+ months consistently
– being in shit hot shape, yes
– deeper sleep
– even better energy
– daily housekeeping at home

Hmmmm.

Why ELSE would I need to not have it all? Relateability? Nah …

Self worth stuff. I guess.

I am good enough to have it all.
It is easy for me to have it all.
Ir’s easy for me to be in SHAPE.
It’s easy for me to receive love (random deviation, lol)

What does having it all look like then?

Oooh – self punishment!! Deserving to feel gross / being below standard … RESISTANCE, non allowance of full power.

I ALLOW myself to be fully in my power.

I ALLOW myself to be as powerful as I am.

Ok.

AND – okay – not allowing myself to be fully seen.

Okay.

I allow myself to be fully seen.

I allow myself to be fully in my power.

AND SO IT IS”

Here’s the deal, okay –

There’s rarely anything new which comes up, when we do this work. I’ve asked and answered these same questions 100x, and the answers pretty much always come back the same. Sometimes there’s a little shift, or adjustment. But the power thing, holding back from true power, holding back from being fully seen; that’s not new. I guess I just sometimes forget a little … and it’s good. It’s good to dive in and remind myself, kick my own ass, and bring UP this stuff in order to reclaim that hell to the YES, I allow myself to have it all.

I allow myself to be all powerful.

I allow myself to be fully seen.

I ALLOW myself to go even deeper into ME.

Being a badass is a practice, you know? It’s not something that just happens. And even once on course, there are continually things … sneaky little life minions … trying to pull you off! If you’re not actively bringing yourself back ON, you WILL drop off alignment. It’s just how it is.

The good news is that the PRACTICE of being the most badass you possible is one that’s SO.FUCKING.FUN. What could be more rewarding than dropping into deeper layers of soul truth each day, NOTICING what needs to come up, and doing the work around it? What’s the alternative? Be a zombie who is also broke and fat and unhappy? lol!

Doing the work IS the outcome, that’s the actual breakthrough here. There was never anything to ‘get’ to. It’s all already there inside of you. And when you commit to simply addressing whatever needs to be addressed each day, and acting as the version of you who you’d be if you KNEW you could have it all, and you also allowed it, well –

You become all fucking powerful AND seen.

And that?

Just a motherfucking choice.

Join me –

Choose it today.

You’ve got this.

Enough with the small playing, and the waiting for one day. You get to have it all. You get to have it now. You get to have it with bells on.

Yes?

YES.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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