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QUIT BEING A FUCKING MARTYR, AND BE A FUCKING SUPERHERO

This pic is my current desktop background, which I had my team make for me.

Something you might not know about my writing … I write to ME.Then I just edit it to be for you. So if I come off as telling you OFF? I’m kickin’ my own ass … and just more than happy to kick yours too while I’m at it. 

Here is today’s version!

Reality: life does not happen to you, you happen to IT. You have it within your power to create PRECISELY what you want, on your terms, NOW. And while that can at times be incredibly confronting, because hey – maybe you don’t FEEL like it, or maybe it’s not working despite your efforts, or whatEVER – it’s still just how it is.

Either do it, or don’t.

LIFE / the Universe doesn’t care whether you do or whether you don’t. Nobody REALLY cares whether you do or whether you don’t, because in the end the onus of responsibilty really only comes down to YOU. But just as life doesn’t care if you don’t create what you were born for and go ALL IN, life will also happily sweep you up in its clutches if you don’t.

Dragging you so far down the stream of normal that it really does become QUITE tough to work out how you’re going to get back up again.

But here’s the thing:

If you’re trying to change your life or achieve a big goal while still being swept along in all of the REASONS and BELIEFS relevant to why you’ve not yet done so, then you’re kinda fighting a losing battle.

An hour a day, a few hours a day, even a whole bunch of hours a day of ‘trying to take action’ stands no chance in the face of 24 hours a day of believing, thinking, feeling, FOLLOWING shit that doesn’t serve you and that keeps you mired in normal.

So if you do want to change, and you want BIG change, and you want it fast, there really is only one solution:

Quit being such a fucking martyr and become a fucking superhero.

You need to INSTANTLY change your beliefs – 

Your values – 

And let your actions, habits and OUTCOMES right away follow suit.

Think of it as though you’re walking around one moment as a normal and unidentifiable person and then you put your superhero cape on and are INSTANTLY transformed.

You look different.
You feel different.
You hold yourself different.
You ARE different, because no longer are you the normal, boring, stuck, scared person to whom life is HAPPENING but you’re a fucking SUPERHERO with superhero POWERS and you do superhero STUFF.

What WOULD you do, by the way, if you were a superhero…?

Just something to think about!

The truth is that even if you don’t consider yourself to really be a MARTYR about the whole ‘not where I wanna be’ thing, if you’re not taking ownership of it and doing the fuck something about it LIKE A SUPERHERO then sorry to tell you, but yep –

You’ve got martyr written all over you.

And the fact that you repeatedly claim the same bullshit reasons for not having yet done it / got it / got over it / made it happen … well. You really can’t argue with that, can you now?!

And I don’t say this because I’m trying to win some kind of point over you; I DEFINITELY martyr the fuck out of myself at times.

I can be a TOTAL martyr about how much STUFF I have hanging over me and how it’s not realistic to create all my content each day (highest priority!) plus also clear my biz shiz / admin / bigger projects.

On the one hand, I can very easily and very practically justify why this is TRUE. I can give you the rock solid reasons of time and practicality and being a Mum and whatEVER, but in the end it really is WHATEVER.

Either I want to change things, or I don’t, and if I do then being a martyr about how hard it is or how MUCH there is really just doesn’t serve any USE, so I need to put my superhero cape on and do the fucking work or else just STOP BLOODY WHINGING ABOUT IT and saying I want it to change.

You know?

I bet that if you’re honest you can think of at least ONE area where your whingy-moany excuses for why you’re not yet there are really just reflective of the fact that IN this area at least you at some point decided that YOU DON’T HAVE CONTROL.

That it’s just how it IS …

That you’d change it if you COULD …

What you’re really saying of course is that life is in charge of YOU, not the other way around.

Is that really who you want to be?

Is it really what you want to base your LIFE on?

‘Cause let me tell you … you ARE basing your life on it.

Today, I challenge you to get really fucking honest with yourself.

About what you want.

To then LOCK IT IN as a firm WILL HAPPEN intention.

And to quit being such a fucking martyr about it, put your superhero cape ON, and press play like you mean it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/