Success Mindset

Screw the Rules and Unleash the Power of You!

Stop-saying-it

If there’s one thing I can bet on about you with almost ABSOLUTE certainty, it’s that right now? You’re still holding back.

You’re being shy.

Coy.

And to be perfectly frank?

Kinda boring.

The worst part, of course, is not even that this is happening, or that I or anybody else might think that about you.

After all, who gives a toss what anybody else thinks about you so long as you’re HAPPY and ALIGNED, right?

Well, actually –

Wrong.

At least when it comes to YOU.

Because right now, the very worst thing here is that YOU know you’re holding back.

YOU know you’re playing peekaboo with your audience about showing ’em the real you.

And YOU know that honestly? You’re not only being a little boring, if we’re being totally open here you’re actually pretty damn GENERIC as well.

Which means, that as much as you might like to jump up and down and INSIST otherwise, you DO in fact give a toss (or several) about what anybody else thinks about you.

You’re putting THAT ahead of your happiness.

Ahead of being aligned.

Ahead of getting the heck over yourself and SHOWING THE WORLD WHAT YOU’RE REALLY MADE OF.

And the really rather predictable, obvious, boring and GENERIC outcome of that is that this business you SAY you love, you SAY you want to build ‘on your terms’ is, well, rather predictable, obvious, and, when all is said and done, really just quite MEH.

MEH, in case you’re not familiar with the term, translates in business to –

People will not pay you money and if they do they will do it in teeny-tiny and wholly unsatisfying fits and starts and then likely bitch and moan about it or about life or about you afterwards.

It further translates as –

No matter how much more time, effort, emotion or money you pour INTO this business, it will only continue to frustrate you and success and wealth will continue to elude you. Play hide and seek with you, with you always the loser. Kinda like how the real you continues to elude your audience.

All of which (and if you’re still here reading then I guess it’s because you agree with me a little and maybe a lot and you KNOW that I’m right), really does beg the question –

Why the fuck do you keep doing this?

Why DO you continue to churn out not-quite-you missives that have a not-quite-powerful-impact and result in not-quite-sales?

Why DO you continue to journal and vision about being one person (the REAL you) and then show the world the masked and carefully prepared version of you?

Why ARE you running so scared?

And why, for the love of God, are you asking for so little when you believe in so much?

I mean, really! Doesn’t it make you wonder if you ACTUALLY WANT WHAT YOU SAY YOU WANT? I know I’m wondering, because the TRUTH here (and you know it!) is that you get what you CHOOSE, and if you believe that then you also know-

You chose what you’ve got.

So all of this? This is not just a blog post to rile you up, get you to push back mentally against me and take a stand for yourself, maybe have a little flutter of personal power before you, naturally, slip back into your regular pattern of BLAH.

This is a serious question, and one that, if you truly DEMAND things to change, you NEED TO FIGURE OUT THE ANSWER FOR.

So –

Why?

Why are you choosing to hide?

Why are you playing it SAFE?

Why are you not telling the world what you really THINK?

What you know they NEED?

And why why WHY have you STILL not got your shit together and done the stuff you SAID you were going to do, that you SAID was a must, that you INSISTED you’d make happen!

This week –

This month –

This WHOLE FREAKING YEAR –

You wanna know what the future looks like for you, where you’re going to be 6 months or a year from now?

EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE NOW BUT OLDER.

Unless you change NOW.

So, again –

Why?

WHY have you chosen what you’ve got now? You SAY you don’t like being so tired, stressed, busy, you SAY you don’t like living in lack, never quite having as much as you want or need. You SAY you want to share THAT message with the world and truly LEAD.

You SAY you want to make a difference.

You SAY you want to change the world.

You SAY you want to be WEALTHY.

You SAY you want to fall back in love with life, wake up every day EXCITED about what you get to do and who you get to be.

And yet, like a foolish and VERY obstinate and SCAREDY-CAT excuse for a woman you CONTINUE TO DO THE STUFF THAT CONTINUES TO GET YOU WHAT YOU’VE GOT.

If you think about it, it’s freaking ridiculous!

But ridiculous is not enough.

Re-affirming that you DO want more (really really!) is not enough.

Even the knowledge that you are being a BORING and GENERIC version of you is not enough!

Clearly.

So what is?

What do you need to know, or believe, about life and what YOU are allowed, in order to change this situation?

WHAT DO YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT WHO YOU ARE NOW IN ORDER TO BECOME WHO YOU SAY YOU WANT TO BE?

And –

For how much longer are you willing to accept this situation?

I know what you’ll say –

It’s pretty predictable.

Obvious.

And to be honest kinda boring and generic.

Which is that you’re going to change things NOW!

You’re going to show the world the REAL you!

You’re going to UNLEASH THE POWER OF YOU, and truly create success and wealth ON YOUR TERMS and live a badass life that rocks!

You’ll SAY you’re going to start now!

No more fucking around!

You’re going to take that leap of faith!

You’re going to make shit HAPPEN!

You’re going to go all out towards being the REAL YOU!

You’ve got a message, you’ve got a voice and you’re NOT AFRAID TO USE ‘EM, so watch out world!

Yeah.

Like I said.

Predictable responses that predictable people who never change anything give.

I’ve heard it so much that it really just goes in one ear and out the other now.

And it’s not so much that it’s just BORING when you say this shit, it’s that it’s downright sad.

Because talk is cheap gorgeous sister.

And everybody’s out there spinning the same old same old about being different, taking a stand, doing business and life the way they WANT.

You want to get noticed?

You want to BE different?

You want to FINALLY ACTUALLY HAVE THAT BUSINESS AND LIFE YOU DREAM OF?

Then your mission is clear.

Shut the fuck up about how you ARE going to do it and just do it already.

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