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Success Mindset

STAY THE FUCKING COURSE

Before you get to the ‘gold’ of whatever it is you’re trying to achieve, you’ll receive signs you’re on the right path.

Sometimes these are easy to notice and other times they’re more subtle, but here’s what really matters about these markers of affirmation:

SOMETIMES THEY HURT.

It’d be nice if affirmative feedback was always fun and positive (and it definitely CAN be), but often feedback is sent not just to encourage you to stay the course but also to TEST you.

For example:

You decide to invest in mentoring or attending an event you know you have to be at, and then some unexpected financial blow hits you. And you have to make a decision:

Succumb to financial pressure and back off from what you felt CALLED to do, or roll up your sleeves, stare the beast in the eye, tell it to get fucked and then GRIND so you can follow through on what you need?

Or:

You finally get clear on what it is you REALLY want to sell and be known for, but then as soon as you start to pull it together you get sick. Or your kid gets sick. Or you have a massive fight with your partner. Etc.

And you have to decide:

Stay the course?

Or back off, sort out your crazy life shit, and wait for a better time?

What UNSUCCESSFUL people don’t realise that SUCCESSFUL people kinda don’t even think about it is that you ALWAYS STAY THE FUCKING COURSE if you actually want what you say you want.

This is true no matter whether:

Financial mishap hits you hard (word to the wise if this has NOT happened to you at some point as an entrepreneur it’s pretty likely you’re not going all in)
You get run down and exhausted
You find yourself caught up in a bunch of stuff you’re not really that passionate about and wanting to just throw it ALL in
You don’t know what the next step is
Somebody doesn’t like you; or a whole bunch of people seem to not like or get you
Your shit is not selling
Somebody took your big idea
Random crazy stuff happens in your life to throw you off
Anything, anything at all, really

Those who make it to the top aren’t the smarter or more talented ones. In fact in the short term they often appear to be the completely deluded and downright foolish ones, because no matter what business or life throws at them they just keep on swinging.

Of course the reason they’re able to do this is they have their SIGHTS set on what it is they really want.

They see their end goal.

They KNOW what their vision is.

And they’re really just not INTERESTED in what hurdles, no matter how painful or treacherous they might be, would try to stand in their way.

They certainly APPRECIATE positive signs they’re on the right path, the feelgood feedback and small wins that definitely do come at some point for each of us, and in fact pretty consistently once you get that ball rolling, but they’re not going to cry into their pillow at night if all of the FEEDBACK they’re getting is lesson after tough fucking lesson.

They’re committed to STAYING THE FUCKING COURSE because they’re actually serious about achieving their goals.

And the reality?

The REALITY is that most people just flat out won’t do that.

The RIDICULOUS thing about this is that they actually believe they can’t.

They believe their own bullshit excuses for not being able to go all in, and do the work, and just.keep.going. no matter what.

And when all is said and done they’re simply not WILLING to stay the course.

The secret to success is that there’s no secret at all really, is there?

Decide what you want.

STAY THE FUCKING COURSE NO MATTER WHAT.

Good feedback, back feedback, pats on the back, tests of GOD-AWFUL proportions, whatever may come your way.

Because most of all what you need to REALISE, unlike 99.99% of wannabe entrepreneurs, is that no matter what?

Means no matter fucking what.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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