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I’M A STRONG INDEPENDENT BADASS WOMAN, AND I STILL NEED A MAN

I’ve been meaning to finish this post for a week or two … I’ve been a teeny bit scared I guess, although – not really, because after all – I DO believe in truth. Owning it AND speaking it. But still … there’s something kinda next level vulnerable about what I want to say here.

Which is, plain and simple:

I’m a strong and independant and badass AF also SUCCESSFUL woman, and I still not only WANT a man, but also I need him.

(Covers eyes –
Scary!
Eek!)

It’s always a little scary when we open up and admit we not only desire or crave but also need something. The unspoken fear, I suppose, is – what if I admit that and THEN I DON’T GET IT! God and everybody else will just be LAUGHING at me, and maybe my deepest and most secret fears, about not being GOOD enough, or WORTHY enough, will be proven true!

But still.
Here I am.
Saying it.

And I suspect that if you’re reading this, you either feel the same way … or suspect you do … or maybe you’re a man reading this and agreeing yes you ARE needed (and yes you are, and THANK you for BEING you!), or else you wanna get some insight.

Into the crazy and amazing mind of a certain type of woman …

That elusive, maybe intimidating, definitely magnetic and sexy AF (it’s okay to admit it!) woman who runs the WORLD type of woman.

Either way, time for some real talk. Ladies, we need to get down off our high horses and be OKAY with needing a man, and letting ourselves be taken care of and own our FEMININE power, and men – well. From my point of view and from COUNTLESS hundreds and maybe thousands of conversations with my like-minded boss lady soul sisters and soul clients, I’m gonna tell you:

We need you to take charge. Tell us what’s up. Treat us like the goddess and Queen we are. Honour our femininity AND your masculinity. Strong women actually like that stuff you know … we WANT it … we NEED it … but let’s be honest, we DO sometimes get a teeny bit overly defensive and push you away sometimes.

So, I’m not here to try and tell the men what to do; that was just a side note!

And I’m also not here to try and tell WOMEN what to do, although if it’s speaking to you: listen! Really I just want to share what I’m feeling for ME.

Because on the one hand, I know that I don’t NEED anything or anyone, in order to be good enough or worthy or ME. But on the other hand … it’s okay to know, that yes –

I need a man.
I don’t mean I need him to COMPLETE me or VALIDATE me… let me explain…

I’m tired of the badge of honour which seems to go part and parcel with being a strong and successful woman, an unspoken expectation or over the top feminist statement, that badge which proudly states ‘I don’t need a man!’

I need one.
I want one.
And I’m gonna have one… lol … oh yes, the SOULMATE one, and also GIVE myself to him, body mind AND spirit, fully! Giving of the body, I don’t have to tell you, does NOT just mean sex!!

I suppose that TECHNICALLY you could argue I don’t ‘need’ a man, and probably if you’re reading this neither do YOU.

I have an income in the 1% of the 1% OF the 1%. I’m self-sufficient in my business. I provide for myself and my kids. I’m great at making decisions, and ‘doing life’. I can even turn a spanner if required

But you know what? YES I CAN do anything I want to do on my own steam, or else hire someone to do it if I can’t or choose not to, but even there I’m gonna call bullshit.

It’s BULLSHIT that I am at my creative best and therefore business and money-flow best when I’m not being creatively challenged, when I’m not being inspired, lifted, molded, melted, dug INTO.

I’m can say with certainty that when I’m in my feminine in RESPONSE to the right sort of man being in my life –

I’m more of me.
Deeply.

This impacts ALL areas.
DEEPLY.

It’s ridiculous to try and argue that it doesn’t.

And as I write this, there’s that part of me – mayBE the feminist part, ha! – which wants to argue anyway –

‘Pah! Look at all you’ve created! Look at all you KNOW you could do still, no doubt WILL do, with or without a man!’.

And the part of me which knows the truth just shrugs back and say – ‘Meh. You don’t get it’.

It’s not about needing a man to DO things or in order to help me ACCOMPLISH things, or even in order to BE fully me.

It’s about the fact that on a soul level, a primal level, a KNOWING level, I need a man and I’m okay with SAYING it.

I don’t WANT to try and be all things in and of myself, and I think it’s silly to try and pretend that’s a thing anyway. We were born to fuse with other souls, whether for a season or a lifetime. Male AND female, of course. And I know that in my most soul-aligned FEMALE friendships, I am heightened and deepened just by their presence.

With a man … the right man … that’s even more powerfully the case.

And the truth is, that even the whole ‘I make my own money thing’ is by the by.

What I DESIRE, what I CRAVE, what I also choose to allow in, is a man who not only sees the Queen in me but who also owns the King in him.

This means, and hell YEAH I’m gonna say this even though it’ll probably piss some angry bitches off –

I want him to provide.
I want him to sweep me off my feet.
I want him to dominate me.
I want him to be the key decision maker.
I want him to take care of me in all ways.
I want to feel WRAPPED UP IN HIS MASCULINITY.

Body.
Mind.
Spirit.
Soul.

NONE OF THAT MEANS I WILL STOP DOING MY BADASS THANG.

NONE OF IT MAKES ME LESS OF A STRONG WOMAN.

ALL OF IT ALLOWS ME TO OWN MY STRENGTH AND POWER MORE.

I believe it’s time for us strong women to rise up –

OWN just how powerful we ARE.

And recognise that to truly do so?

It’s safe to admit what our soul deeply craves.

I need a man; a King.
And I’m calling him in.

What’s your take?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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