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Success Mindset

KILL THE VOICE INSIDE YOUR HEAD. DO THE WORK ANYWAY

I wanted to write a post for you just now about how to catch an idea by its tail, take action on it right away before it knows what’s hit it, bring that shit to LIFE!

But the post felt boring and mundane and meh, and so I cast it aside; it wasn’t good enough which is to say that maybe it’s ME that’s not good enough today.

I thought then that perhaps I’d write a post about when you feel like you’re really boring and nobody wants to listen to you and you should just shut the fuck UP with your repetitive hoo-ha, but the post was coming through me starting with the sentence “sometimes I feel like I’m so boring”, and clearly I couldn’t write THAT since I already began a post just yesterday with the sentiment “sometimes I feel like I’m not a proper Mum”, and people would think I’ve got nothing else in my wordsmith arsenal except woe-is-me expressions of sometimes I feel.

So, there goes that idea, not good enough, too same-same, and maybe it’s ME who is not good enough and too same-same, and perhaps I already just used all my creative talent for the minute up on my livestreams?

I sat here for a moment and I stared with deep intensity at my tumeric shot and my triple-espresso long black, so intensely that the barista started to give me that ‘we got a live crazy one right here’ sort of sideways look, but I refused to look at him, I refused! I felt it though … but I furrowed my brow all the more intently AND intensively (take that!) anyway and I WAITED FOR THE DIVINE DOWNLOAD OF WISDOM TO HIT ME.

I got nothing … nothing except the above hum-drum, anyway, and then I realised, WELL –

Obviously I’ve left it too late in the day to write my blog! It’s 2.10 in the afternoon, for fucks sakes! EVERYBODY KNOWS THE MUSE ONLY VISITS IN THE MORNING! Bastard.

But then I remembered how once upon a time I never had anything to say, nothing at all.

And I dreamed of being a writer, and making money for my writing, and I KNEW it was meant to be.

But it just didn’t happen, somehow time kept passing, and it just KEPT not happening!

And so after long enough of THAT, it occurred to me – I wonder what WOULD happen, if I just start announcing to people that I’m a writer. You know, when they ask you at parties and the like what you do? Well what I HAD been doing at the time was personal training. But I made a decision, long before I ever heard of identity work or the law of attraction or manifestation, but perhaps I’ve just forgotten.

And the decision was to say “I’m a writer”, whenever anybody asked. Soon enough they DID … and then I SAID it … and inevitably they’d start asking what I WROTE, which presented a bit of a short-term problem as I hemmed and hawed, but because I like other people’s validation, let’s face it, I soon enough made sure I was able to give an actual real answer. And point to actual real places I’d been published, like fitness magazines, and then soon enough my own blog.

And then one day, I’m not sure how long after all of this it was, I remember waking up and remembering – huh! Remember when I decided to start SAYING I’m a writer … and then I DID start saying it … and now I AM, and I’m ACTUALLY GETTING PAID FOR THIS SHIT!

Funnily enough, somewhere in the midst of all that I DID in fact start writing, and funnier still I did it WITHOUT the fucking muse. There’s a line in a book, a Steven Pressfield book (of course!) which speaks about the ‘truth’ of how the muse only ever visits when it wants, and the writer says how convenient it is that the muse DOES in fact by coincidence then happen to visit him each morning at 9am when he gets his ass in the chair and decides to do the thing.

I’ve noticed the same thing, in my travels …

And seeing as how I was already IN the damn chair, AM in the damn chair, and seeing as how I DO IN FACT believe all the stuff I spout, no matter how same-same it is … and I hope that it IS, otherwise it’d seem like I don’t in fact know my own message! … I decided to square up and do the damn thing.

Even though I had nothing to say.

I still don’t.

Sometimes I feel like I NEVER actually have anything to say, and see what I did THERE?!

But yet here I am.
Somehow.
Apparently.
Day after day.
Ass in the chair.
And I do the damn thing.

Sometimes it’s gold.
Sometimes it’s not.
So the fuck what? Either way I showed up, I messaged, I shared, I let the God damn message BE its SELF and got out of my own way, pride down, enough to allow that no matter how much I might wish for it to be fancier, more whole, more ‘divine’, whatever THAT means.

It’s funny to me how few people really get that having everything you want is the easiest thing in the WORLD.

All you gotta do is the God damn thing you know you’re meant to do.

No matter what.

Err’day.

Till you die.

Not a single successful person you encounter will tell you they got there via consistency based on WHEN THEY FELT LIKE IT OR KNEW HOW. What they’re gonna TELL you is that they got there because they decided it was just how it was going to BE –

And then showed up.

That’s it.
Period.
The end.

Quit trying to be so damn GOOD, and just show us what you’ve got today.

Be who you are today.

Show up as best as you can.

Kill the narky voice in your head dead if need be.

And do the fucking work.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/