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Success Mindset

This Is Why We Can’t Be Friends

You ask me why we can’t be friends, and well, this is why:

You’re not purpose driven. There is nothing crazy and bizarre and so odd inside of you.

When I look into your eyes I see …

Acceptance. That this is just how life is. That this is the life you chose. That this is the road you must pave, and yet, at the same, I see –

Frustration.

That this is just how life is.

That this is the life you chose.

That this is the road you must pave, and yet –

You’ll do nothing.

About it.

When I look from your eyes and try to peer into your soul, I see –

Nothing.

It’s almost as though you have no soul. And I know that you do, that you MUST, yes I fully TRUST, that each of us –

Was born.

With a purpose.

A destiny.

A calling.

And gifts, which are ours and ours alone, but yet it’s almost as though …?

You don’t care.

Which is to say, really –

You’re not willing.

You’re not willing to fight. For the life you were born for.

You’re not willing to lay. It all on the line.

You’re not willing to risk EVERYTHING and die trying.

To live the one.true.life. you were born to live.

This is why we can’t be friends.

We can’t be friends because when I look into my own eyes my own soul my own journal my own truth my very DNA I see somebody –

Who will make more mistakes and screw it up more than what one would think is humanly even possible –

But yet who will NEVER.

(ever)

Fail to then get back up again and go back into the fray.

Once bloodied, twice as determined.

Once beaten, three times as willing.

Once BROKEN, hardened into molten steel.

Unbreakable.

Unshakeable.

From purpose.

We can’t be friends because when I LOOK at my TRUE friends, those who I would die for and fight for and will LIVE side by side along, those who I fell in love with the moment my soul met theirs, those who I am inspired by and elevated from, purely through knowing they EXIST, I see –

Me.

And when I look at you and we try to connect –

With a look.

Or a message.

Or a touch, I feel –

Nothing.

You don’t inspire me.

You don’t excite me.

It’s almost as though –

You don’t exist. So flat is the beat of my heart, around yours.

(Do you have? A heart? Why don’t you USE it –

Then)

So when I am around you, when you make your way into my space, when you are somehow (irritatingly) –

THERE, I feel –

Disrupted.

In my flow.

And I think to myself –

“Who let you in here, anyway?”

Into my space.

Into my area.

Onto my page.

Anywhere near my life.

And I turn –

Away.

Quickly, or as quickly as I can!

Before it perhaps rubs off.

(the normal)

Although it can NEVER rub off.

(obviously)

We can’t be friends because you see the world like THIS and you want to know THAT and you think it’s about? I don’t know …

The details?

A story?

What somebody else said?

What is POSSIBLE?

And I think –

I CAME HERE TO RULE THE FUCKING WORLD.

And my friends think –

I’LL BE RIGHT THERE ALONGSIDE YOU, RULING IT TOO.

My way.

Or the highway.

We can’t be friends because you see the world like this. In chunks. And blocks. And 2D, and maybe a little 3.

And I see the world like this –

As a BEAUTIFUL FUCKING MESS OF ALL THAT I CAN FEEL AND DREAM AND IMBIBE.

And imbibe it I WILL.

This is why we can’t be friends.

My friends, they rant and the bleed and they cry and they yearn and they NEVER –

Stop to seek.

To decide.

To create.

My friends, they live for what is INSIDE of them and fuck everything AROUND of them and they don’t care what you THINK of them and they will DIE –

For what they know they must.

And I?

Will die with them.

1000 times –

Over.

As I let it all come crashing down, in the quest to then built it back ANEW, and ALIGNED, and as it HAS TO BE.

I could go on and on. I could tell you stories that would go for days. I could explain it –

And explain it –

And try to PROCLAIM it –

Until the day you die, but.

Really?

We can’t be friends because you are who are you, and so you must remain.

And I?

Will do the same.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/