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Success Mindset

Don’t Be Scared

I know you have dreams inside of you.

Dreams that are so big, that to even think of them and fully hold them in your mind’s eye is terrifying. Dreams that make you wonder –

Who (the fuck!) am I to even think such a thing?

How dare I, and how could I, and what will people say?!

So, you step back. A little.

You shy away. A touch.

You WAIT. A while, and then a while more, and then a little more still, just until you can figure it out, be more sure, work out whether the consequences of leaping are ones you can handle.

Can I tell you?

Yes. Leaping fully very may well result in scary or uncomfortable or judgy or even nasty stuff happening. And, you’ll handle that stuff because you’ll have no choice. And, you’ll be okay. But I don’t know that you’ll be okay if you fail to leap for fear of what it might cause you to have to handle.

Will you?

I know you’re scared.

What will people say, what will they think, are you good enough and can you really do that?

They’ll say what they want to say.

They’ll think whatever they please.

(They’re probably already doing it!)

Being good enough is a bullshit made up concept that has nothing to do with anything. Who is the judge of that anyway?! I’m not even going to tell you that you ARE good enough already, because it almost implies that perhaps at an earlier point you weren’t, or that perhaps you are but somebody else is not.

It’s not about that. You are. You exist. So therefore, yes, you can do whatever the heck you please.

Will you fail, fall, make a fool of yourself, try a thousand paths before you find your true one?

Yes. No. Maybe. It doesn’t matter.

I know you’re scared.

Of walking away from the stuff that right now keeps you feeling trapped, bound, constricted, doing work you do because you, well, have to, right? Doing it in a way that sucks you daily further into the vortex of believing that if I just wait a little longer, learn a little more, prepare a little better, THEN I can leap.

I know you’re scared.

Of leaping fully, and what that would mean, and even how to do it! What do you really want? Who ARE you? What’s your true calling? You’re not sure! So, you wait.

But you’ll only be able to see the next step by taking the one in front of you right now. So travel the path of the dreams you can see today, and as you get there you’ll see further. Don’t travel, don’t learn what’s waiting for you, it’s kind of simple. And obvious.

I know you’re scared.

What if it doesn’t work, what if I’m rejected, what if I don’t make money, what if people realise I’m just making it up as I go along!

(We all are).

And also, what if it DOES work? Can I maintain it? Will I be okay? What will this mean for who I am NOW, for the rest of my life, WILL I BE GOOD ENOUGH?

But isn’t it more scary to never try, never know, never really even give it a go.

I know you’re scared.

And your fears are valid, a lot of the time. It’s not supposed to be about making it painless. You WILL have to bleed, you WILL have to cry, you WILL sweat and your soul will SCREAM.

But the alternative is far more painful, far more scary, and it’s far more incomprehensible to imagine you’d allow your life to be dictated by fear.

I know you’re scared.

But I know also that you’re strong.

You are resilient.

You have tenacity.

You have courage.

You can do whatever you truly set your mind to, and you’ve done so many times already.

I know you’re scared.

But I know also that you have a calling.

That there’s a reason you were born.

That you have gifts to share with the world.

That they will NEVER go away (they haven’t yet, why do you imagine it would change anytime soon?!).

And that if you’d just quiet the madness for a moment, you’d realise –

You believe.

In yourself.

In your ability.

To help people.

To move people.

To create.

I know you’re scared.

And I know you can leap anyway.

And deep down?

You know the same.

So enough with the waiting. The wondering. And the pretending. Enough with the lies you tell yourself, that a little more time will make you a little more ready.

Now is the time.

It’s all you have.

And enough is enough.

So today, be scared. And take the leap anyway.

Tomorrow, repeat.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/