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Success Mindset


How you achieve anything is how you’ll achieve everything, and this is precisely where you’re making it CRAZY hard on yourself.

Think about this:

One of the most critical elements to becoming successful as an entrepreneur is cultivating the ability to believe in magic, and the notion that you really can create whatever you want.


FACT, more like, but most entrepreneurs truly seem to think that it IS just an idea, this whole thing about being able to breathe life into anything you want, need, or desire.

Of course they ‘try to manifest’ and they set intentions and they might even write out affirmations and journal, often! They’re INTO the whole create your reality thing, they love to think about it and definitely think it might be POSSIBLE, but they don’t live | breathe | know it and use it (as it should be used!) to simply GET.OUTCOMES.

Do you want to know what I do, when I have a really REALLY big thing I want to make happen? When I have no clue how to get started? When my mind shrieks it’s not POSSIBLE, or at the very least not YET, not for ME? When it’s literally so vast and overwhelming and the idea of actually having it is SO damn good I can’t even bring myself to get started with it?

When maybe I’ve TRIED a whole bunch of stuff to get it to happen and I’m getting confused, or distracted, or unsure?

I just get back to basics, and decide:

Fuck all this trying to figure it OUT shit! I’m gonna have to just MANIFEST it.

And I breathe a sigh of relief, phew, now it can be easy! I don’t have to worry about it anymore, not the HOW, not the IF, none of it!

It’ll just HAPPEN because I finally remembered to get out of my own way and just DECIDE it will happen, and then lock it in lock it in lock it in DAILY, accordingly, until it does.

And I shake my head and smile at myself a little for my silliness, in forgetting, that actually –

This is how it’s DONE.

This is how I DO.

It’s how ALL of us who HAVE magic have CREATED that magic and continue to LIVE our every dream.

No matter how big.

No matter how scary.

No matter how IMPOSSIBLE.

Sometimes I have to remind myself, which is why I know you probably need the reminder as well and hence this post:

You can’t go ’round saying you believe in creating your reality and then apply it only to the things you THINK it should apply to.

It’s not about believing that you can manifest the small things, the less important things, the ‘nice to have’ things, but that the things you REALLY really want, the things which would change your life, the things the idea of which is so damn AWESOME that when you think about it you can barely breathe with the exhilaration of how it could BE.

You either believe.

Or you don’t.

You can’t be a HALF BELIEVER!

And so it really does beg the question –

If you ‘hell yes’ on posts about creating your reality and designing the exact business and life you want, if you in ANY way say you believe that all outcomes are a choice, but then if you’re NOT just using THIS as your primary way of getting the RESULTS you want –

What the hell are you actually on about?

Do you WANT to make it so complicated? Or is it just that you like to punish yourself, you think you shouldn’t deserve to just have exactly what you want or have it now; is it something like that?

Or is it one of those things where you say you believe in something but then you very clearly demonstrate that no actually –

You don’t.

Because day after day after day you dream or you journal or you nod your head at this NOTION you somewhere found, about being able to just WRITE and SPEAK and BREATHE what you want and then see it happen, but when it comes to how you take action, how you put yourself out there, how you show up –


You SHOW, very CLEARLY, that how you SEE yourself is being stuck at where you’re already at, and maybe just MAYBE allowed to make very VERY slow progress if only you work your ass off for a million more years and check off ALL the steps!

And I look at you, and yes sometimes I look at ME doing this, and I shake my head and wonder –

“For how much longer would you like to keep making it so HARD?”

“Why don’t you just DECIDE?”

“Why don’t you just choose that this is what is now DONE, and then start to STEP FORWARD IN FAITH as though you ACTUALLY believe it?”

And we all need the reminder, the shake up, the slap in the face from time to time, so allow this blog to BE THAT SMACKDOWN for you.

And allow me to ask you just one more question:

If you say you believe in magic –

And that you can create whatever you WANT, and on your terms –

Then explain to me why it is exactly that you keep on choosing what you’ve got right now, when everything you ever dreamed of and deep down KNOW you can have is just sitting there, waiting for you to claim it?

How you achieved anything –

Is how you’ll achieve everything.

Make up your mind.

And act like you actually fucking believe it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.