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Success Mindset

THE THING YOU BELIEVE IN IS THE THING YOU SHOULD SELL, AND ALSO? DO.

If you want to know why your shit ain’t selling and nobody knows or cares who you are, it’s a safe bet that you’re either not selling the real thing you believe ‘it’ is about, or that you’re not living your OWN life according to said belief. Aka, practicising what you preach.

Of course more likely is that you’re not preaching it OR practicising it, and that instead, somehow along the road to creating a life led by purpose and by you being the you who you KNOW you were born to be, you ended up instead carving out a business path which seems to involve you running around torn daily between whether you should gaze deeper into your own naval because surely there are SOME answers there, or whether instead you should continue to frantically try and replicate what ever other poor blind sheep out there is doing.

Either way? It’s not WORKING, and in your less honest moments you truly wonder WHY, because aren’t you putting the work in? Aren’t you putting TIME in? Aren’t you dotting your i’s and crossing your t’s and aren’t you doing what the OTHER good little marketers are doing?

You’re trying to create a BRAND, God damn it! That shit takes time, it takes focus, it takes attention, it takes pretty landing pages and just the right social media presence and a FUNNEL, don’t you know, and ALL the marketing and sales stuff and ‘take ’em on a journey’ stuff, and … and … and … –

Well!

The truth is you don’t ACTUALLY quite know WHAT it takes, does it? ‘Cause if you KNEW, then you’d HAVE it. So right now, you’re showing up every day and essentially running around doing a WHOLE BUNCH OF STUFF YOU REALLY REALLY HOPE IS GONNA WORK.

Because –

Well.
Because they said so!
Because they’re DOING it!
Because it makes SENSE … even though the truth is that if you let INTUITION have a say it actually makes NO FUCKING SENSE at all, because the truth is –

The truth is – !

You’re almost certain that this is not who you came here to be.


This … BUSY person who is so God damn busy doing ALL THE THINGS except for the ONE thing she CAME here to do.

Almost certain that this is not who you came here to be?

COMPLETELY FUCKING CERTAIN.

And the thing is …

When you look within …

When you peer into your SOUL (fuck your naval!) …

And you’re actually HONEST with yourself for even the merest of moments –

ALL THE ANSWERS ARE IN FACT THERE.
AS THEY ALWAYS WERE.
AS THEY ALWAYS MUST BE.
AS THEY ARE.
AS THEY ARE.
AS THEY ARE.

And you, well –

To watch you, from the outside looking in, and even from the inside looking out although the truth is you very rarely DO watch yourself, it’s too painful, to see how OFF you are, from your own path, but yes, to WATCH you –

It would appear VERY very much as though you’re ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY determined to do every.single.thing. except for what you always said it was meant to be about –

What you came here to do –

What you were BORN for –

And also, quite simply?

What you fucking believe in.

Can I ask you something?

What DO you believe? When all is said and done? About success? About life? About purpose? About getting to THERE?

What do you actually believe it’s going to take, for you, to get to where you’re meant to go? C’mon – don’t shy away on me! You HAVE the freaking answers! Your heart your soul your spirit, KNOWS.

And when it’s quiet.
And when it’s still.
And when you listen in.
You know.
And you know.
And you fucking KNOW.

What it’s going to take.
What it’s meant to BE about.
And what you’re meant to be spending your TIME on.

Your time?

Your life, gorgeous. This moment right here, how you’re spending it, what you’ll be giving the rest of your day for because THEY said it matters or YOU in your FOOLISHNESS and refusal to damn well THINK for yourself never BELIEVE in yourself, decided upon, THESE ARE THE MOMENTS –

Which form your life.

And really, all you have to do, all you ever had to do, to reclaim your PURPOSE, to get on path, and also?


To make the money leave the legacy build the brand get the fame build an EMPIRE –

Is act on what you believe.
In your heart of hearts.

Live by it.
Preach it.

Practice it.
Teach it.

It’s funny –

To think that when you were born, you came fully locked and loaded with a blueprint for YOUR aligned success.

A message which was given just to you. Created by God FOR you and you FOR it, the two never able to be separated nor duplicated.

Everything you need to know, already inside of you, and all you ever had to do was live into it, let others see, share it, repeat.

But that instead you have chosen to give your entire life, to run as far as possible from the truth that’s inside of you, and instead of simply FOLLOWING THE FUCKING BLUEPRINT YOU CAME WITH, looking to EVERYBODY and everyTHING else, outside of you, hoping to find something –

More complicated.
More fancy.
More ‘real’.

That you could apply to yourself and your business and your life and eek out some sort of modicum of RESULT with.

Don’t you think it’s funny?!


The way you THROW AWAY YOUR LIFE?

For everything.
And everyone.
And every idea.
Except for the ones that make your very heart beat.

Isn’t it funny?
Isn’t it ODD?
Aren’t you LAUGHING?

It’s fucking hilarious.

And if you try really really hard –
And you wait another year or five or ten or maybe simply nearly ALL of them –
And you venture down EVERY OTHER PATH INSTEAD OF THE ONE INSIDE OF YOU –

Maybe.
Then.
You’ll be ready.
To listen.

Maybe.
Then.
You’ll realise.

Huh.
NOT SO FUCKING FUNNY AFTER ALL.

That I gave my life.
That I gave up my soul.
That I stifled my heart.
That I put a wall up to drown out the screams of my spirit.

Not so funny.
After all.
Actually.

And you’ll decide –

IT’S NOT TOO LATE AND THAT’S IT I’M GONNA DO IT I’M GONNA STAND UP FOR WHAT I BELIEVE IN I’M GONNA SHARE MY TRUTH I’M GONNA CREATE MY ART I’M GONNA SPEAK FROM THE HEART I’M GONNA …

GONNA …

GONNA …

LIVE.
MY.
LIFE.

And maybe –
You’ll have this chance.
And maybe –
You won’t be like all those just like you who die with their light inside of them.
And maybe –
You won’t give your entire life –
Until your dying breath –
For a life that was never meant to be yours and which you never fucking CARED about, anyway.

Because you were scared.
And because you were desperate.
And because you wanted so badly to PROVE yourself.
Or to make money.
Or whatthefuckever.

But I can tell you:

There’s a reason we talk about being the 1% within the 1%.


It’s because there’s a 99.99% DEFINITE OUTCOME that YOU WILL NOT BE THE ONE WHO GOES ALL IN.


Isn’t it funny?

That if you want to make money doing what you love –
Do what you were born for –
Have it all –
On your terms –
Now!

All you have to do is listen.
AND THEN DO WHAT YOUR SOUL TELLS YOU.

But that yet –
You’ll read this.
Nod your head, maybe.
Sigh with heaviness because you know it’s true.

And then go back to selling shit you don’t really believe in to people you don’t really like and in a way that doesn’t really suit or serve you, while simultaneously not even REMOTELY trying to live what you ALSO refuse to preach.

So.
Fucking.
Funny.

Well –

I don’t think so, actually.

But then again –

I’m not the one making you live your life like that and making up bullshit excuses why you can’t just do what you know you’re meant to do.

So no, actually. I DON’T think it’s funny, I think it’s fucking TRAUMATIC and GOD AWFUL and it makes me want to cry.

But I guess you think it’s the BEST FREAKING THING EVER, since you’re doin’ it and all.

Just remember, as you continue on your determined path of doing everything except following what’s within:

AT ANY POINT YOU CAN STOP BEING A FUCKING BYSTANDER ON THE SIDELINES OF YOUR OWN LIFE.

CHANGE YOUR STORY.

SAY “FUCK IT”.

BREAK ALL THE RULES WHICH WERE NEVER THERE ANYWAY.

AND BEGIN BEING YOU.

But, you probably won’t.
I got 99.99 out of 100 reasons to prove it.

Anyway –

I guess we’ll see.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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