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Success Mindset

Kick Ass Like You Mean It

You CAN do whatever the fuck you please, and you can start now.

All of this stuff about not being ready, not being sure, how do I how do I how do I is BULLSHIT and it’s time you stop listening to that crap. Kill the bitch inside your head, basically!

Because the REALITY is that you CAN do what you set your mind to, so if you’re not MAKING HAPPEN the stuff which you say you WANT, then really the only logical conclusion is you don’t actually want it … or you’re choosing to believe it’s not realistic … which is essentially the same as saying you don’t actually want it, because if you really really really fucking wanted it like you’re life depended upon it then tell me HONESTLY now:

Would anything stand in your way?

I don’t think so.

When YOU decide something HAS to happen, it happens. So maybe you just haven’t decided that your dreams, your goals, your desires, your inner TRUTH about what you’re born to do, kinda sorta doesn’t really have to happen.

I mean sure, you’d LIKE it to happen. You wouldn’t kick it out of the bed! But HAS to happen?? HAS to happen like you will move mountains and sweat blood.tears.more to make it happen?? HAS to happen like you will climb the highest mountain, naked and with a 100kg pack on your back, and on one leg if necessary? HAS to happen like you will ride out WHATEVER comes your way on the road there, be it being broke, be it nobody listening, be it nobody GETTING it, be it having no fucking clue WHAT you’re doing most of the time but yet onwards you forge? HAS to happen like you will relentlessly, never-endingly, like a locked-in fucking missile just.keep.chasing it until you get it?

Nah …

Not so much!

And maybe you read this and think – calm down Kat! Aren’t you being a bit over the TOP with your analogies today?

And to that I say:

You don’t really want it.

Because if you really WANTED it you would figure the fuck out what it takes, and then you would DO what it takes, and you would do it when it’s working and when it’s NOT (and mostly it would NOT be when first starting out; at least the tangible results wouldn’t be there), and you would do it whether you feel like it and whether you don’t and you would just.keep.doing it forever –

And ever –

And ever –


And if forever took a lifetime then you would, quite simply, die trying.

And if your goal doesn’t MEAN enough to you to lay your life on the line for it like that then WHY THE FUCK IS THAT THE DREAM YOU’RE CHASING?

Are you honestly telling me that what you ARE indeed giving your life for right now, by virtue of WHAT YOU’RE DOING AND WHO YOU’RE BEING, is for shit you don’t care about enough to do for the rest of your life?

Why would you do that?!

Well, why you would do that is simple:

You don’t believe you can have what you really want.
You’re not sure that YOU are good enough.
And besides you’re just not always as MOTIVATED as you’d like to be okay!!
(And what if people don’t like you and they think your hair looks bad?!)

In other fucking WORDS you DON’T REALLY WANT IT.

What you WANT is what you have.

What you’ve made ESSENTIAL is what surrounds you. Right now. There’s no two ways about it, you have what you chose to have, no more and no less. You have what’s comfortable … what you’ve decided was within reach for you … what you decided was worth it … so your big goal dreams and fantasies you SAY you want??

Well I guess they’re just not really worth it.

The fear means more –
The uncertainty means more –
The not having to do the work, the daily work, all the work, no matter what, for ever and ever and ever, means more.

And you know what? That doesn’t make you a bad person. It’s how most people live their lives FOREVER. And maybe they really are HAPPY with that because they’ve chosen to believe that it’s just how they have to be; how it is. Fuck, for all I know people who do NOT chase their dreams but instead choose to accept what they have are happier and more at peace than all of us! Being this person who knows they can HAVE more and is going to ENDLESSLY chase more (and NEVER be done) is definitely not the easy path.

You’re never going to be done …

It will never be enough …

Satisfied DISSATISFACTION is the best you can hope for!

And just quietly I think it’s the BEST THING EVER to know that no matter how far I go, in ALL areas, there’ll always be more! I love that! I love where I AM and yet I’ll never be done AND THAT’S OKAY.

Which kinda brings me to a key point here:

You know you can HAVE more.
You know you can BE more.
You can’t NOT know this.
So the NORMAL life is never – ever – EVER going to fulfil you.

If the normal people really are happy with their lot and truly have ACCEPTED it (which I find tough to believe but I’m open to it!) that’s lovely but you will never feel that way.

It’s not who you are.

And you know that.

Your dreams are insane.

And you know that.

So you can either ACT LIKE NORMAL IS ENOUGH FOR YOU and not really CHASE those dreams, because of all the reasons we just discussed and whatever other putting-fear-first nonsense you care to come up with … and die knowing you NEVER FUCKING TRIED, not really –

Or you can give yourself the slap in the face you know you NEED AND WANT, today, and start pressing play like you actually mean it.

Go all in.

Or stop fucking kidding yourself playing a make-believe game of ‘I think I’m going to create the life I really want’. It’s not too late to get back in the box and learn to shut up and like it. But if you’re trying to live half in the box and half out, making teeny-tiny sometimes movements to actually make life happen like you give a damn, then know this:

You’re in the fucking box already. The fact that you pop up out of it like a jack-in-the-box every now and then means jack SHIT. And your normal is showing like a badge of PRIDE. Plain and simple: you’re fooling nobody.

Least of all you.

So today, make a choice:

Kick ass like you mean it.

Or lay the fuck back down in your pretty little box, where you BELONG.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.