Success Mindset


Several times in the last little bit I’ve had a guy mildly push back at my choice to not meet up with him in person, my reason in each cases being something along the lines of “I’m not feeling what I need to feel from this message conversation, in order to want to take it further. It doesn’t feel like an aligned fit for me, wishing you all the best, etc etc.”

Firstly –

A GREAT way to confirm to a woman that she made the right choice here is to reply with some sort of ‘lol / haha it’s just coffee’ type response; it reeks insecurity and also makes me feel like you don’t really value and honour your own time and worth since you’re now trying to convince me to meet you when I already said no.

Secondly –

To then follow that again with not only multiple messages of poorly formulated persuasion but also with the statement that “you can’t tell from messaging anyway, you have to meet in person” just shows that we are on WILDLY different pages as far as how life works, and in particular as far as utilising natural human gifts and skills beyond just those of the physical.

I can’t help but shake my head and think to myself “maybe YOU can’t tell from messages, I read energy in a heartbeat!”.

Of course I can tell from the damn messages, from about half a sentence of one, usually, although I admit I still gotta practice trusting my intuition IMMEDIATELY because often I let half a conversation drag out before I lay down the boundary my soul already knew to in an instant!

To be fair, it is what I do all day every day; absorbing the smallest of thoughts, downloads, hints of whispers even, and knowing INSTANTLY who a person is, the level they play at energetically and physically as well, it’s like READING AN OPEN DAMN BOOK.

And I never get it wrong.

Probably, if you follow me, you also have this skill, and, like me, have had it since before time began; certainly well before mastering it via business.

You, like me, can see in a heartbeat –

Who is for real online
Who is talking a WHOLE lot of bullshit
Who really and truly cares about their audience, and is creating and messaging from SOUL
Who believes ABSOLUTELY in what they are doing
Who has no freakin’ clue just how damn smelly and obvious their scarcity vibe or ‘please like me!’ vibe is
Who is not owning their value and worth, evident so obviously through all the unnecessary haha’s and lol’s and exclamation marks as they fangirl all over you

Etc, etc

Maybe I’m just the worlds biggest asshole, to have the audacity to not only think all this stuff (ahem, know it!) but also to lay it down here and share it with the world.

Maybe I’m limiting myself by not at least meeting up with men like this, giving them a chance, not judging a book by its cover, etc.

Maybe you can fuck right off if you think that, ’cause I gotta tell you –

I’m not here for those who need fucking PROOF before they move forward in life.

I’m not here for those who question what their gut tells them, who think that trusting in themselves is something they have to somehow earn, or work towards.

And I’m also not here for those who operate only in the physical, refusing or simply forgetting to use the gifts we were all born with, of intuition, of inner CERTAIN knowing, of energetic reception of truth, and so on.

I’m here for those who know they can ALWAYS judge a book by its cover, because they NEVER get it wrong about who someone is –

About whether it’s a fit –

Or indeed about anything they should do or not do, give their time and energy and self to, or no!

After I turned down the most recent one of above-mentioned men, I was at the fight gym doing sparring rounds, feeling a little bit bad or like a ‘meanie’ that I’d been so firm. WAS I a bitch? Was I limiting my chances of meeting my guy? Am I just unwilling to play the damn numbers game of meeting up with a bunch of maybes in case I got it wrong or in case my first instincts proved to not tell the whole story? Hmmm? Hmmm!

The last dating coach I worked with was convinced I needed to go on more dates, play the numbers game to some degree, put myself in situations where I could learn more about what I did and didn’t want, basically, and also potentially perhaps find myself surprised about who I thought someone was.

I discontinued our work together for several reasons, but this was a big one amongst ’em.

See, I’m never wrong.

I ALWAYS know who someone is.

In the situations in life in which I’ve remained in the space of somebody who ended up being … shall we say … a GROWTH OPPORTUNITY for me … of course I damn well knew this in advance. I just had some lessons to learn 🙂

And as for the whole ‘you gotta get out there and experiment’ approach, yeah –


Sounds to me like what pretty much every business mentor I had in the early years said, when deep down I KNEW that they were wrong about what would work for ME, and I also, unapologetically arrogantly, for sure, knew that I simply didn’t HAVE to muck around doing it that way like everyone else.

I knew my pathway was already clear, certain, and that as soon as I would fully BACK myself and become energetically unavailable for anything but the business I really dreamt of, then it would just show up and work.

As it did.

As EVERYTHING in my life has done, when I stop pretending that I have to do achievement like the normal people.

I do not.
I never did.
Neither do you, I believe.

But, I’m nothing if not willing to question myself on EVERYTHING, any time I feel it necessary to do so! I love a bit of devil’s advocate to remind myself of who I damn am and that I already know all things!

So, as I threw punches in the ring, I found my mind leaving my body for a little bit while I traveled off through time and space to try and find a time when I WAS wrong in following my gut.

In business.
With money.
With who I entertain a possibility of working with as a mentor.
With what I sell.
With MEN.
With friends.
With LIFE.

Try as I might, I couldn’t find a single time.


You too?

Cool …!

And here is what else:

I refuse to play life with anybody who is not similarly gifted, and owning it.

(In business and personal, I mean!)

So, while I can see that it’s not the norm for someone to be able to fully read a person through their pre-date messages …

Or their Facebook DM’s about wanting to work with you …

Or just the random shit they post which shows me EXACTLY who they are …

I don’t care.

If you’re going to be in my space personally or professionally you’re gonna need to be able to keep up, and I DO mean in all areas.

As a mentor, in order to play ONLY with the highest level clients, the leaders of the leaders, the badasses who do the damn work and get the BEST results, inside and out, on repeat, I have had to become EXTREMELY committed to following what my soul tells me, and fast.

I long ago stopped even entertaining a conversation with somebody who is overly girl crushing on me as a mentor

– ps when you do this you label yourself as someone I will NEVER feel comfortable with, I don’t like being fangirled on and it makes me retract from you and see you as somebody I could NEVER be friends with OR mentor, because you’re not owning your damn worth and also I just don’t like that needy energy –

I know INSTANTLY whether somebody reaching out to work with me is full of complete shit aka they’re one of those “I’m gonna manifest working with you!” types, UGH

Heck, even somebody requesting a sales call with me is enough for me to retreat, thinking to myself “thank you for showing me who you are … you don’t get it … we are not a fit!”

Full of myself?
Hoighty toighty, much?

Meh, so what?!

Think what you like.

It is what it is and that’s all it is.

I am who I am and I damn well AM that.

But here is my question to YOU –

Are you trusting your damn energy?

I gotta tell you, EVERY situation in my business and life in which I would look back and now think ‘wow, I REALLY took my time on that one!’ was because I wasn’t trusting my energy, my gut, my inner KNOWING.

You were given these gifts and abilities for a reason.

No it’s NOT common, to be so damn clairsentient (as I am) … or whatever you are.

To feel and know all things.

And if you are, and you know it, then you better damn OWN it.

Every time.

And also FAST, just delete that whole ‘let me think about it bit’. It never serves you and it is sure as FUCK not needed, y’know?

I get that there’s that fear part of you which still worries about ruling out options in business or life, worries you should open yourself up to more people … more opportunities … more choices of what to do or how to do it or who with.

Maybe if you don’t explore all these options you will MISS OUT on something to do with money makin’ or client gettin’ or calling in soulmate peeps?!

Except –


You will not.

You know this.

The truth is you’re not like the others, EVEN THE OTHER ENTREPRENEURS. Your power and your magic is beyond what most will ever even get a whisper of, let alone comprehend.

And sometimes you will forget that, and you’ll find yourself listening to people who think that life works like that.

But you know that actually, yeah –


It works like this.

I see the things.
I know the things.
I am never wrong about the things.
I am the damn thing.

And that’s all there is to say about that.

Now go live accordingly, and GOD SPEED; there’s no time to lose in saying yes to what you already know you must!

After all –

Life is Now. Press Play.





A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.


It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?


It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.


You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –



I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.


That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!




A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!


What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on


AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!



I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!


Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!


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