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Success Mindset

Stop Acting Like You Have Limits!

I’ve got a fire in my ass today baby!

I don’t know how I’ve never heard of this dude, but one of my clients just put me on to Dan Pena, the “50 Billion Dollar Man”.

He has a book (out of print and impossible to find it seems) called “Your First 100 Million”.

Talk about sweet dreams 🙂

He is also a somewhat elderly looking genteel kind of fellow who on first glance looks like your friend’s Grandfather dressed up for a swish dinner. And then swears like a trucker through just about everything he says.

I’m only about 10 pages into reading the free book on his website and I gotta tell you I am lit UP!

Thank GOD, for ONCE, for somebody who actually doesn’t give a damn what everybody thinks and just speaks the freaking TRUTH! Trust me … if you like my style and you aren’t easily offended you’ll enjoy or at the VERY least be entertained by what Dan has to say.

But here is why I really love this message, and what I’ve read so far:

He teaches people to think ALL the way big.

The only PROBLEM with this, is, that when all is said and done even those who are willing to THINK big are still not willing to do the work.

Everybody wants success to be ‘just so’, to be nice and neat, to fit into a God damn PACKAGE.

And then they wonder why they can’t ever really get ahead.


Success hurts.

You have to bleed for it.

You do what most WON’T, so you can live a life they CAN’T.

And YES, it is also amazing, astounding, incredible, you can be TOTALLY in flow and just ALIVE with the thrill of it.


I look back on what I’ve done, what I’ve BLED through, to get my business to where it is now and the truth is I would do it ALL over again, 100x and more, if I had to. Because the OUTCOME is so EASILY worth it, and also the truth is that I LIKE the pain! I like being STRETCHED, I like moving WAY beyond my comfort zone, I like becoming MORE.

If you’ve ever experienced the immense personal satisfaction of getting into fantastic shape, you’ll get what I mean about learning to love the pain.

Or indeed achieved any big goal 🙂

The very SAD reality is that the VAST majority of people simply aren’t willing to bleed. They don’t WANT to bleed, they don’t even want to be freaking uncomfortable! But they’re quite happy to bitch and moan about why they don’t have what they want.

But let’s be honest here-

We’re not here to talk about THOSE people now, are we?

We’re talking about you.

And you, you ARE willing to do the work, WHATEVER the work, you KNOW you have what it takes and you will GIVE it.

So the only question, really, is why are you holding yourself back?

Why are you doing SAFE and CAREFUL instead of a balls to the walls ATTACK on the ordinary life you SAY you don’t want?

What it’s really about, and I too have been guilty of this; still am, at times, is that in the day to day of it, we limit ourselves.

We might sit down and journal and dream, or go to seminars and truly EXPAND our thinking, and we see ourselves on that world stage, making the millions, SERVING the millions, going beyond simply LEADER into downright REVOLUTIONARY, and we fully KNOW it is POSSIBLE.

But the next day we wake up and fuck around all day on fucking Facebook, or on email, or perhaps on something more illustrious but still not the work that a revolutionary LEADER would be doing!

So I’ll ask you, as I’ve asked of myself so many times and still must CONTINUE to do so often, when are you going to actually live like you have no limits and you KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

If you WERE that leader, would you need someone else to tell you how to lead or show you the way? NO, or you wouldn’t be a freaking leader, you’d be a follower! So why do you still go out there trying to find someone who can give you all the magic how-to answers?

If you WERE that leader, would you be running around like a headless chicken doing menial labour in your business? I don’t THINK so!

If you WERE that leader, would your visions be daunted and thwarted by can’t’s and not yet’s and should’s or shouldn’ts, or would you bravely and boldy GO FORTH AND DO WHAT YOU GOTTA TO to reach your GREATEST goals, no matter the pain?

I don’t have the answer.

YOU have to decide.

But here’s what I do know for sure –

You want to be a leader? You better fucking lead then honey.

You want to be seriously RICH? Then be willing to do the hard and PAINFUL work (and actually do it as well, not just be willing!).

You want to truly FLY and reach your HIGHEST potential?

Then stop. fucking. LIMITING. yourself.

You are powerful BEYOND MEASURE.

Maybe it’s time you acted like it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.