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YOUR NORMAL IS SHOWING
Success Mindset

YOUR NORMAL IS SHOWING

I’m fucking bored of you and your stories sister. Seriously? Yawn fest.

Every week you come to me and you want to know –

Why it’s not working yet –

What you’re missing –

What you should improve on your fucking SALES page or PROCESS –

Why aren’t they buying?!

And when, for the love of God, are you going to GET there?!

And every week, every single fucking week, I ask you –

Are you getting your message out there, ALL out there, fully and from the heart? Are you letting your tribe see ALL of you, not just the inspired! and peppy! or ranty! and fired up you but the ALL of you, the good, the bad, the ugly, the crazy, the wild, the chaotic, the at times even down and flat and SCARED you?

Are you actually being you, when you show up in your business?

Or are you still wearing that ridiculous fucking mask that you THINK looks good on you but that secretly those who actually get how awesome you are are wondering – why on earth is she doing that? She’s so much more ON when she’s just being herself!

And every week –

Like fucking clockwork –

You tell me:

No, well, yes, sort of, I think so, but no not FULLY, and no I can’t say that!

Or you ask me – like I haven’t already answered it a 100x over with COPIOUS examples of how I for so long foiled myself in this area and yet now actually let money and JOY flow easily to me ’cause I GOT THE FUCK OVER IT – if you REALLY should say that.

What, you think I’m just telling you to put yourself out there because I think it’s funny or ‘worth a try’?

You think that after how long we’ve known each other I’m just sitting tight with the ‘real’ secret of how to make it online, how to make it as a leader, how to live the fucking destiny life you were born for?!

Really?!

And I mean really, if you THINK that, if you think I’m holding out on you or just making random shit up rather than telling you STRAIGHT out exactly what WORKS then WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU STILL LOOKING TO ME?!

But again I answer you, and I cajole and plead and I’m usually pretty blunt about it, even rough about it because I honestly get SICK and TIRED and SAD about seeing you hold yourself back like this!

But also, I did the same thing for years, and so in some ways I’m okay with repeating myself –

Again –

And again –

And again –

And a-fucking-gain!

But eventually, you know, and maybe I’m reaching that point now, there comes a time when honestly?

I’m just kind of over it.

I’m over your BS about not having time –

Or not knowing how –

Or not being sure –

Or not having clarity – fuck clarity, by the way, you find clarity through ACTION! –

And I’ve about had it up to here with your constant QUESTIONING around whether it’s okay to be yourself in your business and whether people would be okay with it or like you for it!

Who the fuck else do you wanna be anyway, if not you?! Never mind why the heck you’d WANT people to buy from you or even follow you if they don’t like you for being you!

Oh, what’s that now? Oh okay, you just want to be a version of you. The pretty and presentable and PC version of you! Because, after all, people LUUUURVVVVVVVEEE to spend money on stuff created by fakey people with beautiful online personas, right?

Right?!

Seriously.

I mean SERIOUSLY woman. When will you JUST make a fucking DECISION to stand up and own your true awesome?!

When will you just CHOOSE to be okay with letting the world see the badass take-no-prisoners mofo side of you that you think would be too much, too scary, too messy, to ugly!

So you’re fucked up, so what? So is everyone else! You think they want you to be NOT fucked up? You think they want a fucking GURU?! No! No no no no NO!!!!! If I wasn’t sitting on a plane right now with a coffee very close to my laptop I’d throw the damn thing and jump up and down screaming and waving my fists in the air! I’m fucking OVER this bullshit scaredy-cat I’m not ready yet NONSENSE.

And I TRULY don’t understand why you’re not fed up with it either.

Because really the only possible reason for you to keep on fucking asking the SAME questions and keep on fucking holding yourself back in the same WAYS is that you actually PREFER things as they are now.

You don’t REALLY wanna be the leader you say you are –

You don’t really wanna be DIFFERENT –

You don’t really wanna MAKE a difference –

You just want to get all fired up and feel good about yourself ’cause you joined in and cheered along on one of my rantier posts or you did some hustling or you even took an ounce of action or maybe hey! You THOUGHT about taking some BIG action and surely THAT’S just as good as actually doing it but when all is said and done you are NOT REALLY ONE OF US.

You don’t do the work.

Day fucking in and day fucking out.

You’re full of hot air.

And you can jump up and down and cheer and say yeah! fuck being normal! and all that ALL you like but you  know what?

YOUR NORMAL IS SHOWING.

And I’m just … bored.

Bored of your stories.

Bored of your normal.

And so I’m done with it.

You want to be in this tribe, you want to be able to call yourself a leader, you maybe want to tell me to get fucked (go ahead!!) and go do your own thing but you actually WANT TO DO YOUR OWN THING and live the life you SAY you were born for?

Then best you get real bored with your own bullshit really fast as well honey.

‘Cause at this rate? I’m starting to think you’re never going to change and then you’ll die.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

We’ve been waiting for you, not the somewhat you, not the nearly there you, not the ‘pretty unapologetic’ you, the you who takes her place with such CERTAINTY that we will instantly wonder how it is that she was never just there the whole time.

The you who is brighter, stronger, more turned on and turns the WORLD on with her magnetism, beyond what we even knew was possible.

The you who moves with grace, with calm, with soul certainty of who and what she is, what she gets to do in the world, how she WILL and DOES now play life, and also –

how life plays with her.

The you who has it all on her terms, and that’s REALLY just how it is, there’s no aggression around that, nothing to prove or ‘make’ happen, it truly now finally just IS.

The you who stopped trying,

and realised that the whole damn time she could go straight to the end zone, and now –

here she is

and so it is

and such is life, a life which delivers the ALL of everything she always dreamed of and always knew there WAS a way to just snap her fingers at,

and allow.

Are you ready?
Is it time?
I thought so 🙂

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